Need Advice….

[astroboysuperParticipant 17]

Just after being married for 2 weeks i found out my partner was cheating on me, once 3 weeks after started dating and again 3 months after started dating. These are just the ones i know about. We married because she was pregnant and being Chinese girl was culture orientated.

About 2 months ago we lost the baby to stillborn. So the question is should i end it now or take the risk and stay??

I have alot of property – mainly bought before married, no children and a prenup. So im in a good position right now to escape. She has no job and said the reason she wanted a boyfriend was because she was p~~~ed of not finding a job.

Some other quotes shes recently said:

“If i leave you in 5 years, dont be sad” , (I say) “whys that”, (she say) “well just looking out for you if i have car accident dont want you to be sad when i gone”

“I can get the prenup overturned, ive always been lucky in money – anything can be overturned in court”

“If you ever mention me cheating again i will do it again, because you would have brainwashed me to do it”

[LazParticipant 44]

This is a mgtow forum so I suppose you have already anticipated the obvious answer?

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Annulment.

[astroboysuperParticipant 17]

Annulment only possible in Australia if pressured into marriage…

[LazParticipant 44]

Then divorce.

Honestly I believe that you have already know the answer. You are simply  here for support, because somewhere inside you, you still feel that abaddoning her is a bad thing to do.

 

[astroboysuperParticipant 17]

its true after losing baby , then divorce might be too much for her. She may be suicidal. Thats the only reason im still with her.

[LazParticipant 44]

From your description I don’t think she value her child so much, but that’s just my speculation

How did she behave after losing the child?

[Total LeeParticipant 1573]

LEAVE. What are we talking about this for? Such a difficult situation and I am sorry for your loss, but the solution is not difficult. I don’t mean to be cold or insensitive but would she stay if you lost your job and had no money or property? Having a boyfriend because she can’t get a job is the most unbelievable insult. Cut this nightmare out of your life. It doesn’t even sound like being with her is enjoyable or fun! If you’re not having fun, get out. To stick with someone because she might be suicidal is a not a reason. How can you possibly love someone who hates themselves? There’s your reason right there. She can’t love you if she hates herself.

[Loose NutsParticipant 37]

Astroboysuper – seriously, get the f~~~ out! I have been in a similar situation with an Asian girl and that’s “what they do”.

It sounds like she is Asian Asian, as opposed to American Asian if she’s that culture oriented? The girl I was with was Indonesian, from Indonesia, and as damn crazy as it gets. She was so insane, in fact, that she thought she was untouchable enough to actually tell me “what they do” (Asian girls that come to the US from Asia). It’s like a f~~~ing business to them. It sounds like she was able to take advantage of you and suck you in, for sure. She was cheating because she was securing backups and allies in case it didn’t work out with you. She told you about it to test you and determine how much she can walk all over you in the future. She was happy to have a child with you to secure you and your income. After the child was born, she would have left since you now had to pay under the law and then probably moved on to someone else. That’s what she meant by “when I’m gone”.

In my situation, I was aware enough to stand up for myself and not let her walk all over me like she did everyone else. I knew better and there was no way in hell I was going to produce a child with that crazy bitch or be legally bound to her in any way. We would fight constantly because I wouldn’t allow her to manipulate me and then, and only then, when she would break down crying every time, would she admit that everything she was doing was intentional! She would also tell me at that time that I needed to get away from her because she was a terrible person and she knew what she was trying to do was wrong. Yeah, no s~~~.

Those last three quotes you provided give some serious insight into the future and that’s just the tip of the iceberg, mark my words.

[TheNinjaUWannaH8Participant 386]

Get Good Lawyer, Out-Maneuver her and go Ghost Dog on a Hoe.

[astroboysuperParticipant 17]

@losse nuts ….. She is Indonesian, but Chinese heritage, and does tell me all the things that happens in china

 

Ive already talked to lawyer, he said she wont get anything even alimony being in Australia.

[GrefParticipant 203]

Astroboy: “its true after losing baby , then divorce might be too much for her. She may be suicidal. Thats the only reason im still with her.”

If she were to cheat on you, have another man’s child, divorce you taking half your assets plus the child, and it made you suicidal. Do you think she’d care at all? Judging by her actions so far, NO. This woman does not care for you at all and is using you.

Save yourself NOW and divorce her before she wrecks havoc on your life man.

 

[url url=http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2d6337/i_was_divorce_raped_dont_be_me] I'm paying her 25% of my salary over the next eight years. I had to pay my lawyer, her lawyer, 50% of all my retirement funds and give her another few thousand dollars to make her go away. It cost me $20 to get married and will cost me over $220,000 to get divorced. [/url]

[Zoby TwoParticipant 83]

Man : you have no children with this slut. Don’t waste your time and run.

Don’t worry : she will find VERY easily a new guy just after you left the house.

A woman NEVER stays alone … and she will forget you very quickly.

[petyjackonParticipant -5]

I don’t think that you both should leave like this.  I think you are little bit confused about taking a decision regarding divorce, you should take advice from some legal adviser about this,  if you are not  comfortable with your decision. This would really help you.

[JackParticipant 5]

Divorce her.  You really have no choice if you ever want to be happy again.  Seriously, get a good lawyer as soon as possible.

[Soul ManParticipant 1856]

Lose 190lbs of ugly fat instantly.  DIVORCE HER NOW!  If she offs herself, that’s  on her.  But chances are she already has a stable ready to pick her up off the curb you drop her on.  You need to look out for yourself.  She’s a strong independent liberated woman.  Let her sink or swim by her own volition.  You’re NOT her daddy!

HISTORY...learn from it, memorize it, DON'T repeat it...

[KeymasterKeymaster]

That was manspirational, SoulMan. And damn right. Men do not *OWE* women personal happiness.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 23]

Ha! “Manspirational”. I am adopting that into my everyday vocabulary. Brilliant!

[Aroused By Her AnguishParticipant 343]

She’s right about being able to overturn a prenuptial agreement. I hear about that happening all of the time. If you ever get married again, you should also include a “quitclaim deed” with the prenuptial agreement. That will offer you more protection than a prenuptial agreement by itself.

Anyway, divorce her. One of my friends said that his second ex-wife was threatening to kill herself too if he would have divorced her. He divorced her over 6 years ago, and she’s still alive. A woman will do/say anything to keep a man.

[ShruggerParticipant 10]

Holy s~~~, this is no time to be altruistic about things.

You need to put away all the protective urges and get out. This woman will be your destruction. I repeat that. She will be your destruction. You’re basically standing in the middle of fire and asking us if you should move out or stand burn so the flame won’t go out. Get out.

She cares nothing about your emotional state and happiness. Her f~~~ing around on you that much and that soon after marrying you + all the s~~~ she says is all you need to know to see this. Leave her. She will destroy you if you’re passive here.Judge a person by their actions, not what they say. She will not change. She has no respect for you. You’re a tool for her. A tool to exploit.

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