Need advice/help, how f~~~ed am I

[GoodKid44Participant 1524]

Anonymous wrote:

GoodKid44 wrote:

I was still under the guise that honesty is the best policy.

Chuckle..and you live i NYC? Hahah
Im guessing you are origanaly from a small town in the midwest.
It can take years to learn someones true chatacter.
As you now know.

Welcome to the Big City Kid!! Haha

Honestly is the best policy, for corporate HR reps. Not nightlife crowds lol. After what happened, That’s obviously not the case now.

What’s hilarious is that it was all men who decided to throw me under the bus, from security to my first union rep to this cuck customer. My union rep now is a woman. So is her assistant. They’re the only thing standing between me and the allegations against me.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

That sucks man. sorry to hear about this $hitty situation. There’s absolutely no sense in beating yourself up over something you should, or shouldn’t have done, at this point though.

As an aside, considering the type of work environment you were in, I don’t think going to party in a hotel room (especially one of a well tipping customer) is very uncommon or even perceived as bizarre in that lifestyle. The real question is what do you want to do now, and if you want to continue in that kind of environment.

Back to your question – “How Fu$ked Am I?”

This could have turned out MUCH worse. When I first read that some random dude used your cell to call hookers, I thought there were going to be allegations by the hookers, and that they were basing those allegations on whoever owned the cell phone to contact them.

THAT would be an entirely different situation. Dodged a major bullet there.

How fu$ked are you? Sounds like your major concern is $. I don’t know how much, if any, savings you have to pay rent, etc. So, if the answer is none. I would spend an hour to file unemployment than do the below, to pay the bills until you find the job your looking for.

Puffin Stuff wrote:

Move on, it’s your only move. Try Uber and Lyft,

From my understanding the turn around time from applying to actually working is very quick. You can work as much as you want to ensure you pay your bills. Def get a dash cam though; especially being in a party city like NYC.

If you pursue legal action against your former employer, I wouldn’t waste too much time on that right now. I can’t imagine unemployment being enough to live off of in NYC. I’d get your bearings, find a position that will keep a roof over your head, pay your bills, and keep your stomach full THEN spend some time consulting an attorney.

My two cents.

Don’t beat yourself up over it though. No good will come of that, and this could have been MUCH worse.

Resident cynic.

[GoodKid44Participant 1524]

Anonymous wrote:

GoodKid44 wrote:

I’m really considering moving out of NYC all together. This SJW s~~~ is getting way out of hand

Montana! Wyoming! F~~~ civilization! NYC is the ugliest place on earth after traveling to the Rockies and Wasatch and seeing infinite beauty as far as the eye can see and not seeing a single man made thing! They say Alaska is the last frontier!

I’ve been in and through NYC a million times when I was a little kid, even been to palisades park and have a vivid memory of places like grand central and the trains my grandmother took us on almost every other week to someplace unique throughout the city and islands. All the landmarks and attractions.

Nothing compares to the freedom you feel when you’re standing in the back country, looking down valleys and there’s no one but you and your friends that you’re skiing with! Skiing slopes that dwarf the highest building in the world!

This is correct. I’ve been in NYC almost ten years, and have seen it go from moderate to insane antifa hysteria. It’s bad. To where you can’t even have an opinion. They’ll use it against you if it doesn’t fit their narrative.

Notice how #metoo is thriving in places like NYC and LA. This is not a coincidence. Mgtow is def the resistance and here in NYC we whisper and keep to ourselves because of how bad s~~~ is getting. I’ve been reported to the police for anti feminist things I’ve said on Facebook.

Getting fired based on my own honesty takes the cake of all this bulls~~~ though.

First I need to focus on getting unemployment. If I get it, I will use that money to figure out how to exit from NYC.

[GoodKid44Participant 1524]

Ancientwisdom wrote:

That sucks man. sorry to hear about this $hitty situation. There’s absolutely no sense in beating yourself up over something you should, or shouldn’t have done, at this point though.

As an aside, considering the type of work environment you were in, I don’t think going to party in a hotel room (especially one of a well tipping customer) is very uncommon or even perceived as bizarre in that lifestyle. The real question is what do you want to do now, and if you want to continue in that kind of environment.

Back to your question – “How Fu$ked Am I?”

This could have turned out MUCH worse. When I first read that some random dude used your cell to call hookers, I thought there were going to be allegations by the hookers, and that they were basing those allegations on whoever owned the cell phone to contact them.

THAT would be an entirely different situation. Dodged a major bullet there.

How fu$ked are you? Sounds like your major concern is $. I don’t know how much, if any, savings you have to pay rent, etc. So, if the answer is none. I would spend an hour to file unemployment than do the below, to pay the bills until you find the job your looking for.

Puffin Stuff wrote:

Move on, it’s your only move. Try Uber and Lyft,

From my understanding the turn around time from applying to actually working is very quick. You can work as much as you want to ensure you pay your bills. Def get a dash cam though; especially being in a party city like NYC.

If you pursue legal action against your former employer, I wouldn’t waste too much time on that right now. I can’t imagine unemployment being enough to live off of in NYC. I’d get your bearings, find a position that will keep a roof over your head, pay your bills, and keep your stomach full THEN spend some time consulting an attorney.

My two cents.

Don’t beat yourself up over it though. No good will come of that, and this could have been MUCH worse.

Everyday I’ve been applying for work. I’ve been getting calls from head hunters (seems like Indians have moved into the “I’ll help corporations find the right candidate” business). Nothing solid yet (couple video interviews).

I’ve also been applying for train crew work (no experience necessary) but need to see about getting unemployment benefits first (even though I applied online I have to call Monday because I assume my situation requires more information to get money from my former employer) because I’d need to fly out to go on any interviews I get requested for and that costs money.

I’m also considering moving to New Mexico. Friend of mine lives out there and he tells me they have some amazing trade programs. I still might be able to apply for a union job here in NYC come February but the chances are slim to get it (first come first serve type s~~~).

Point being, I do have options and will def be planning on which direction to head in.

NYC is basically dead to me, but I can’t just leave without a proper plan. There’s plenty of jobs here but there’s also s~~~ tons of competition.

And since I’m mgtow I no longer care about living in an area that has lots of eye candy. I’m honestly looking to work with my hands (construction or some other manly work), keep my head down and aquire currency. A job that requires traveling since I have no kids, not married, not tied down to anything.

[Anonymous 54]

Sorry them old dudes threw you under the bus.
It is too late for them to correct karma.
Theyll get theirs, dont worry.

[GoodKid44Participant 1524]

Anonymous wrote:

Sorry them old dudes threw you under the bus.
It is too late for them to correct karma.
Theyll get theirs, dont worry.

The guy was a cuck, but I thought him being in his late 40’s that he at least had some sort of experience to not be a little bitch. He mentioned that his “girlfriend” was a stripper (which means he’s basically a sugar daddy who gives her money for her to touch him) who recently stole a couple thousand dollars from him. The reason why he used my phone was because he’d lost his the day before and the way the guy was throwing money around it didn’t look like he’d have an issue needing to buy another one.
The level of deceit is what I have an issue coping over. But I’m keeping busy and staying optimistic as f~~~. The world isn’t ending and there’s so many other things I’m doing right with my life. This is just another chapter from the school of hard knocks booklet.

[MonkParticipant 16985]

Frankly, I am surprised that the OP didn’t wake up with a 12 inch arsehole.

Or dead.

[Anonymous 54]

Age has nothing to do with charactor or wisdom.
You can be an asshole your entire life.
You can go through life and not learn a damned thing.
Some guys resent anyone younger than them.
And some old dudes are cool.

[GoodKid44Participant 1524]

Monk wrote:

Frankly, I am surprised that the OP didn’t wake up with a 12 inch arsehole.

Or dead.

This is a good point you make. Of those I’ve told about this, everyone who’s never lived or experienced NYC night life usually says something like this. Understand, that here in NYC women walk around like they ARE the POLICE. They have no issue getting p~~~ drunk and leaving the bar with some no name schmuck. I’ve gotten into cabs countless times with women or men and we’ve gone to hotel rooms or apartments to hang out and party. The amount of women you’ll see walking home drunk on a friday night in Brooklyn, ALONE, is like trying to count all the cars that aren’t convertibles, as they drive by.

There’s a saying, “every friend you have used to be a stranger.” My point being, we take risks. Everyone takes risks. I could have easily gone home that night and come up with some dumb excuse why I can’t make it. But when you’re a single, give zero f~~~s, kind of guy who is a grown man and can do as he pleases, of course it doesn’t hurt to drop in and see what it’s all about. They seemed like nice dudes and I didn’t mind helping them out. It was my choice to. Even after I left nothing seemed suspicious like they couldn’t wait to f~~~ me over.

Trying to get me fired for some false allegations is where I draw the line though. My not knowing how to handle the questioning from HR (on what I can I will say being used against me) was the major f~~~ up on my part, which they took and ran with.

But going out to meet up with strangers in a big city is like breathing. You don’t even think twice about it (unless they’re showing clear signs of being an asshole or lunatic).

A lot of people don’t seem to realize that when you don’t have to answer to anyone, you can truly do what ever you want. I shouldn’t have gone to meet up with them, but I chose to. Now, you tell me what man going his own way would say “no, I better go home like a good little boy because that’s what my bosses would want me to do….”

This employer is trying to judge me for what I did outside of work. They claim that that shouldn’t matter. But had I not told them what I was up to (because it honestly was none of their business) they wouldn’t have had anything to pin on me and it would have been the customer’s word only.

Had it been women trying to invite me out of course I would have said no. HR feels the need to be involved because the customer came to my work and said I stole from him. Just like all these false rape allegations, I say bulls~~~ unless you file a police report. No police report filed, but HR still saw it fit to be their own judge and jury. This is what I have an issue with. Lying is one thing but using said lies to get an employee fired and then doubling down to act like it was true, with zero proof. That’s just evil. But notice how it’s the same thing with this #metoo s~~~. Trail by public opinion. No more due process. HR is not the police, hence they have no business trying to act like the police.

I really hope the union does their job to get me out of this but if not, I do feel like I have a pretty strong case to sue the corp into oblivion.

[Remove me!Participant]

1. Definitely leave NYC. It’s a s~~~hole.
2. Move to a small town in Colorado and open up a mom and pop weed shop.
3. After about 5 years of being a successful businessman, run for mayor.

Like a bird on the wire, like a drunk midnight choir, I have tried in my way to be free.

[Anonymous 12]

Never mix work and play.
Never.

keep your personal life out of work. do not talk or share or discuss it in any way. do not take your mom there, do not take your friends there.

and never let anybody from work come home with you to be presented to your mom. do not discuss your job at home.

ther must be a separation between these to, a complete and total seperation.
it is called being a professional.

[Anonymous 54]

Nothing wrong with takeing risks. Life would be pretty damned boring with out it.

I still ride. Far be it from me to say you shouldnt.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Having been on a receiving end of a f~~~ing by HR and their phony “investigations”, I can totally understand where you’re coming from. Many many years ago, I worked for a food service company that handled sports arenas. Anyways, I only specifically worked at one location. There was an event going on at another location. My friend (who split time working between the two locations) and I went to this place to buy tickets for a show. We went to the back exit and entered the venue (without the security checking for credentials).

So while there we started hanging out with fellow staffers, and talking with the entertainment that came over approaching us. At some point someone complained that we were “harassing the entertainment”. So we got escorted to the HR office where we were “suspended” while an “investigation” was pending. Now, had they actually asked around, our story would have checked out. In the end, we were terminated. Which is fked up, considering, we weren’t on company time, or in company uniform, and didn’t use any company credentials to enter the facility. HR called the location I was working for to tell them I had been suspended. The whole thing was bulls~~~.

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

Sigh…often times the right thing to do is just go home.

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

Anonymous wrote:

Nothing wrong with takeing risks. Life would be pretty damned boring with out it.

I still ride. Far be it from me to say you shouldnt.

Vast difference between riding your motorcycle and serving as Fredo for some blue pill bastard.

[GoodKid44Participant 1524]

Remove me! wrote:

1. Definitely leave NYC. It’s a s~~~hole.
2. Move to a small town in Colorado and open up a mom and pop weed shop.
3. After about 5 years of being a successful businessman, run for mayor.

That would be awesome but I assume everyone and their mom has already flocked to Colorado to live that dream. I hear they just legalized it in Vermont so maybe I should head there to open up a shop. I don’t have any capital though so I’m probably just pipe dreaming.

NYC has definitely become an over priced cesspool. The taxes are too high and the city is always trying to get money out of its citizens via traffic tickets. The price of tolls goes up every year as well. It’s constantly in debt. The last ticket I got was from a camera that caught me taking a right on a red (it’s illegal to do that in NYC, but it’s not illegal to not tell people where the cameras are set up).

I really do wish I could move and set up a weed shop though, but I know that it would take a pretty penny and I’m no expert in construction or contracting

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

I grew up in NYC for 20 years then lived in the heart of LA for 30 years.

You can party with strangers you just don’t let someone near your phone. I have had checks stolen. I always hide my checkbook from strangers but now I learned you have to hide it from friends too. Hide credit cards. Bring one with you with a low limit, like an ATM card.

It’s the same in the country but you have a higher concentration of dirt bags in the City.

Don’t take hard drugs from strangers. Just sayin.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[Anonymous 54]

foghornleghorn wrote:

Old Heyoka wrote:

Nothing wrong with takeing risks. Life would be pretty damned boring with out it.

I still ride. Far be it from me to say you shouldnt.

Vast difference between riding your motorcycle and serving as Fredo for some blue pill bastard.

No argument here!! Hah
Choses your risks wisley!

I dont run hard down a windy road I dont know!

[Anonymous 54]

Speaking of weed.
Keep in mind that the Feds can still trump state law.
Mabey a bit risky investing in the buisness.

Can I work for you though? Jhah

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

GoodKid44 wrote:

My shift ends pretty soon so I say “why not” and go meet up with them.

NEVER mix work with pleasure.

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