Need advice/help, how f~~~ed am I

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  • #726583
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    GoodKid44
    GoodKid44
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    Until now I never realized how real and dangerous blue pill cucks with money are. I’m going to state now, that if I could reverse time I would have never done any of this, and am in a situation that I don’t ever wish upon my worst enemy.

    I still live in a big city (NYC), very sjw state. Took a low level tech job with a company that deals with night life. The pay is horrible but we are allowed to get tips from customers.

    One dead/slow night a customer comes in and starts tipping me real well. I take care of the guy and his friend. They invite me to their hotel where they’re staying, saying that they’re gonna get some girls and party it up. My shift ends pretty soon so I say “why not” and go meet up with them.

    On the way I pick up some supplies for them (condoms, sodas etc…. These guys sounded like they were gonna go hard and even though I wasn’t planning on doing anything crazy, I didn’t mind seeing what they were up to… I’ve been around crazy parties before so this was nothing foreign to me). I’ve worked in night life scene for over 10 years and this sort of invitation to come and party is nothing new to me.

    I get there and the main guy with all the money uses my phone to call up some girls. His credit card fails so he spends time calling his bank. I’m tired so I decide to bounce. Pretty bland and boring, nothing happens in terms of hoes and booze.

    I wake up the next day and go to work. Security then calls me in later on and tells me the same guy from last night came back the next day and accused me of stealing checks from him while he was showering.
    I’m like “bulls~~~.” They ban him from the casino (which is probably a lie considering how HR decided to take his word over mine).

    HR is notified of this and the next day I have to go down and explain myself to them. I had a union rep with me in the room who didn’t know jack s~~~ and he basically let me incriminate myself (according to HR, just letting the guy use my phone to call escorts, which I said I didn’t know he was calling, is illegal). I later found out that I didn’t have to answer any questions if I didn’t want to, but at the time I was trying to be very helpful and cooperative.

    HR and the managing director took what I told them and decided that I had been trying to solicit money from said customer and had been engaging in something illegal simply because I went to go hang out with them and let him use my phone.

    HR did a mock investigation of their own (which was pretty much only using what I told the them) and decided that I be terminated immediately. Mind you the customer never filed a police report, and he only came back to my job to demand that I be fired.

    I never got any vibe from the guy that he was going to pull this s~~~ on me. I didn’t know what happened after I left or if they ever got girls to go by and hang out. If they did one of them could have robbed him etc, but him deciding to say that I stole from him was a shock to me.

    Where I f~~~ed up was thinking that I need to tell the truth and that they were trying to help me by telling them what really happened. HR used what I told them about the guy trying to find escorts and went all “code of ethics” on me. I’ve been around strippers and hookers before but I’ve never paid or partaken in any of that nonsense. I don’t believe in having to pay for sex, nor have I ever had a problem getting it if I wanted it.

    So right now my union is fighting them on my behalf and it may take another two months before any of this gets resolved. I have to go on unemployment for the time being (having to explain to the unemployment people why I was fired fired isn’t going to suck) and its not looking good.

    Even though they have zero evidence and are going by what the customer said, they are losing their s~~~ about me having let the guy make calls to escorts on my phone (even though I told them I thought he was calling his female friends). None of this is a crime but now they want to state that they don’t want people with my poor “moral values” working there.

    My argument is that they have zero proof (besides what is I told them), this all happened away from work off the clock. The union rep told me that this will go all through way up the company CEO etc.

    I’m reaching out to anyone in this forum who has some experience with union grievances or who can help with any input on this matter. How f~~~ed am I?

    I f~~~ed myself already for talking to them and telling them essentially what really happened but didn’t think they would turn everything I said against me. I’ve been beating myself up about this from the last couple of weeks so spare me the “You dumb f~~~” replies, I already know I’d never put myself in this position again if I could reverse time, and I don’t really want to be waiting with my dick in my hand for the union’s outcome.

    But if anyone knows any lawyers in through NYC area who may be able to contact on what to do, or if you’ve dealt with stuff like this before, please message me. Is the union going to hang me out to dry (I’ve only been working for the company less than 6 months)?

    #726599
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    Anonymous
    42

    Find new employment elsewhere while collecting unemployment, you may just find something better!

    Count it as a possible blessing considering your job puts you in the realm of scumbag people!

    Smoke that s~~~hole and find something better!

    #726600
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    SH3LLZ
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    Agreed with MGTower!

    Dude.. Dont panic. Its the weekend so evaluate your skill set, polish up your resume, file for unemployment and get on Indeed. I work in NYC too in the fashion and retail industry and its a CESSPOOL! I can only imagine the type of stuff you see every night.

    Trying to fight for this kind of job will only stress you out. Count it a blessing the be out of it and move on. Since you’re in tech and the industry is booming right now, you can likely find something that pays much better anyway. The world is getting more and more grimy. You cant trust these people. Dont stress too much. Hold your head up. You’ll be fine.

    #ICETHEMOUT
    #MANOUT

    #ICETHEMOUT!!! #MANOUT!!! #HIDEYOURWEALTH #VAGINAISWORTHLESS

    #726607
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    Joetech
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    I know that on this site we like to warn each other about the dangers of women, but the fact is all people are capable of being scoundrels. The lesson here is don’t go home (or to hotel rooms) with strangers. This could happen again if you don’t wise up.

    "Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

    #726614
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    Carnage
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    Nothing you can do now, you are screwed, learn, improve and keep going.

    1) focus
    2) improve
    3) stealth
    4) ghost
    5) no f~~~s given
    6) DONT GET INVOLVED

    That’s the code, follow it or perish.

    To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

    #726616
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    Anonymous
    11

    Never again s~~~ where you eat is the moral of your tale.

    #726619
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    Anonymous
    42

    Never again s~~~ where you eat is the moral of your tale.

    #726620
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    Trapper
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    Anything you say can and will be misquoted and used against you. Sounds like you need to push on to something new.

    You could fight this and possibly win, but to what end? Your employer sucks and will constantly be looking for another reason to get you. HR is a hateful lot. They love wrestling in the s~~~ and mud.

    To bad it went down like this. Thanks for sharing the story though! Could help another brother avoid it later

    #726623
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    Puffin Stuff
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    You used to have a job. They don’t like you over there, get over it. Do not ask them for a letter of reference. Do not ever bring this up with anyone in your life. Forever a secret.

    It is illegal to solicit a prostitute and calling an agency will make them think your soliciting a prostitute.

    They don’t need evidence. You confessed.

    Move on, it’s your only move. Try Uber and Lyft, a friend hated his job and is loving driving for a living.

    Best of luck, don’t let anyone use your phone ever, don’t be around hard drugs no matter that you haven’t done any, don’t be around hookers and blow, don’t ever admit to anyone what should have stayed in Vegas.

    #icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

    #726652
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    Bub
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    To bad Stealthy is AWOL, this kids s~~~ is the stuff he loved to rant on about….. something like wipe your dick on their curtains and keep walking.

    Just rolling down the road

    #726655
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    MarketWatcher
    MarketWatcher
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    The person who did that to you was not only a blue pill simp, but also a BITCH.

    Show up at his front door just to say hi. He will get the message.

    #726657
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    GoodKid44
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    True, I’ve got to wait until Monday to call unemployment and explain to them why I was terminated and that it’s in a grievance stage with my union.

    If my union decides to buckle under the CEO I’m considering suing (anyone know any good lawyers in the NYC area).

    They are definitely going to fight me being able to get unemployment, but I will def be collecting it on their dime while looking for work.

    I’m really considering moving out of NYC all together. This SJW s~~~ is getting way out of hand

    #726658
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    Anonymous
    1

    Why on Earth did you put yourself in that situation?

    Alarm bells should having been ringing aloud.

    It sounds seedy as f~~~.

    Be smarter, my friend.

    What outcome were you hoping for?

    #726661
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    Anonymous
    54

    Please..can I tell you how you f~~~ed up? Haha sorry.

    This wasnt a blue pill thing, but rather a low life motherf~~~er thing.

    Dont fight up hill loseing battles.

    Head on to other parts.

    Only engage in risky behaiviour, witch this clearly was, with trusted stunt buddys.

    #726668
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    MattNYC
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    You learned 2 valuable lessons:

    -HR is there to protect the company, not the employees.

    -When dealing with acquaintances, only give them things that are disposable.

    Time to move on man. This town has a bottomless well of opportunity.

    #726672
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    GoodKid44
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    Why on Earth did you put yourself in that situation?

    Alarm bells should having been ringing aloud.

    It sounds seedy as f~~~.

    Be smarter, my friend.

    What outcome were you hoping for?

    I was still under the guise that honesty is the best policy. I’ve never had an older man with lots of money stab me in the back like that. “No good deed goes unpunished” was me telling HR everything. But I stand by what I said. I did nothing illegal. Letting someone call escorts on your phone when you thought they were regular chicks is ignorant, but not illegal.

    I def brought this upon myself, but I’ll be dammed if I just sit there and keep quiet.

    They’re basically trying to can me because I went to go hang out with some random dudes outside of the work. My union rep at the time f~~~ed up in not even telling me to keep my mouth shut. He was buddies with the manager (guy who terminated me) and they came in together all buddy buddy. The only thing he helped with was telling me that I didn’t have to sign anything (gee thanks for letting me gush everything else so they could judge and get me fired because I gushed).

    #726678
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    GoodKid44
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    You learned 2 valuable lessons:

    -HR is there to protect the company, not the employees.

    -When dealing with acquaintances, only give them things that are disposable.

    Time to move on man. This town has a bottomless well of opportunity.

    Definitely. The only reason I want back in is to collect the lost wages I’m owed. I’d also like to come back just so I can quit on my own accord and get my record cleared.

    I can’t just walk away yet, because this will show up on my record if I don’t fight it.

    I don’t expect the union to bend over backwards for me considering I’ve been there less than 6 months but I still have to let their process do its thing.

    I’m obviously sharing this in hopes that there’s a lawyer out there who sees this and can help.

    Trust me guys, I’ve been beating myself up about this plenty. If you still think you should write more “what were you thinking” or “how stupid could you be” comments, you’re wasting your time. (I can’t turn back time and hindsight is always so much more clear).

    I’ve been to hundreds of invitations like this. It’s NYC, not some town where everyone knows each other. Some of my best friends today are guys I risked doing s~~~ like this with. You never know. This is obviously the first time I’ve been f~~~ed over in this manner.

    #726679
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    Anonymous
    54

    I was still under the guise that honesty is the best policy.

    Chuckle..and you live i NYC? Hahah
    Im guessing you are origanaly from a small town in the midwest.
    It can take years to learn someones true chatacter.
    As you now know.

    Welcome to the Big City Kid!! Haha

    #726683
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    Jan Sobieski
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    I was thinking they were going to drug and rape you.

    Seriously, going home with Strangers?

    Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

    #726685
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    Anonymous
    42

    I’m really considering moving out of NYC all together. This SJW s~~~ is getting way out of hand

    Montana! Wyoming! F~~~ civilization! NYC is the ugliest place on earth after traveling to the Rockies and Wasatch and seeing infinite beauty as far as the eye can see and not seeing a single man made thing! They say Alaska is the last frontier!

    I’ve been in and through NYC a million times when I was a little kid, even been to palisades park and have a vivid memory of places like grand central and the trains my grandmother took us on almost every other week to someplace unique throughout the city and islands. All the landmarks and attractions.

    Nothing compares to the freedom you feel when you’re standing in the back country, looking down valleys and there’s no one but you and your friends that you’re skiing with! Skiing slopes that dwarf the highest building in the world!


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