Need advice

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

Meister wrote:

Please tell me this is not the same c~~~ as in this thread:

Hmmm. It is- and I get the inference.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[MeisterParticipant 2093]

Anonymous wrote:

No I’m from south Texas and we have a problem with single moms lol

So you’re saying this is a totally different c~~~ now?

Where do you even meet these weirdos?
And why?

Monk

[JuehueParticipant 1316]

It takes no effort/energy to do nothing.

[Anonymous 3]

I met them online pof they seem nice st first then they bust out the whole I have a kid an I’m independent blah blah blah

[Elric GreenstoneParticipant 1637]

The question you have to ask yourself is whether you wish to spend time with crazy people or sane people.

If you’d like to spend time with crazy people, then just be aware of what the consequences may be. Dating sites are awesome places to meet crazy people. If you’d like to keep hanging out with crazy people, keep going to places you know crazy people go.

If you’d like to spend time with sane people, it is harder, because they don’t simply hang out with anyone breathing. More time and effort is involved. I often recommend church – especially right-wing, Pentecostal churches – to people who’d like to hang out with sane people. Note there are also some very crazy people in these places, as churches exist to heal and help folks. But there are some fairly sane ones as well.

Affinity and professional groups often have more sane people in them as well.

Good luck! I’m making the transition from co-dependent insanity to agency and sanity myself, so I do feel for you. I’ve made way worse choices than you’ve made so far, too. Feel free to learn from our mistakes on this web zone, so as to avoid them yourself. 🙂

"You can either love women, or understand women. You can't do both. Because once you understand women, you realize that there is really nothing to love."

[Anonymous 3]

Thank you I deleted my pof account already and I’m dealing with the aftermath.im actually used to being myself now a girl asked me if I would be ready to date anyone anytime soon snd I said idk I never though about it since I’m too busy focusing on myself and refining myself as a person.

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