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This is a long story but it’s a story how I as a MGTOW handled a very difficult problem and came out on top.
I don’t know if I was born MGTOW or it developed over a period of time but I have always gone my own way. I have to say it’s not always been easy but I have no regrets.
My plan was to do everything I wanted to do and then try the family thing knowing the risks and doing my best to protect myself from them.
So I did, I moved to LA started a business, flipped a few houses, learned to fly airplanes, tore up the desert on dirt bikes and more or less had a blast. Never going into a long term relationship but has some “fun” along the way.
At about 30 met someone I really liked. Understood the risks and went for it anyway.
More or less the same story as everyone else. Over time my wife became abusive over spending, destructive and lazy not to mention the lack of sex.
Until about 5 years ago I was able to minimize the damage of her bad behavior and she did try to keep things working for the most part. Then it was over.
She did everything possible to find a good reason to divorce me and take the kids and as much money and stuff as she could get her hands on.
What she did not understand was I was ready for this. I had been working on plan B form the second I said I Do.
We did not have joint accounts. We had plenty of debt. The value of my business was less than when we got married. The equity in the house was my personal property not hers. I was very involved in my kids life, education, and activities and I was never going to give her the satisfaction of loosing control and abusing her or cheating no matter what she did. I recorded all her rages and documented her bizare behavior.
After a year and a half of counseling that was really simply her raging and me simply stating that she had to stop behaving badly I filed for divorce presented her with an over generous settlement and 50/50 custody of the kids with the stipulation that she let me have them when she was unable to take care of them. She signed it and that part was done.
I will spare all the bloody details here but things got worse and harder. She used my determination to spare my kids from here poor and dangerous choices to further degrade my situation.
I ended up rehabilitating and liquidating nearly all of my assets and changing my entire lifestyle to accommodate my kids. Little by little I took her cards away and reduced the amount of support she was receiving.
Where am I now? Well I have an awesome paid for house in the country, I day trade for a living, I have money in the bank and don’t owe anyone anything. My kids are mine. She takes them on weekends because she has to work for a living now and for the fist time in 10 years I am at peace, my home is peaceful and my kids are doing really really well.
I still date on and off but I make it clear that I will get remarried or let someone move in when it snows in Houston in July. They take it as a challenge and try to use their womanly ways to change my mind. After a few months they give up move on trying to find their next meal ticket. It’s extremely entertaining.
Would I take the risk again if I could go back in time? I think so. First off there were a lot of good times. The act of fathering a child is awesome. The end game was hell but I not only survived I won not only the war but the respect of that women I married. We have a fairly good working relationship now.
Thanks for your intro, Chris and a big welcome to MGTOW (and the forums). Pity a man can’t “come out on top” without an enormous cost where women are concerned, but the uplifting personal stories are really great to hear.
New member KJ left us one the other day too. His experience cost him £45,000.
tore up the desert on dirt bikes and more or less had a blast.
I’ve been putting it off for too long but tomorrow I’m taking a motorcycle course myself. And next weekend a dirt bike course. Just got my license and I’m really looking forward to it.
Pleased to welcome you.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.Welcome and its uplifting to hear that despite the perfidy of your ex wife – you rose above it all and ate enjoying your life.
Anonymous42I recorded all her rages and documented her bizare behavior.
So that’s the purpose of marriage! I was raised to believe it meant something entirely else! Foolish me!
for the fist time in 10 years I am at peace, my home is peaceful and my kids are doing really really well.
I’ve been at peace since the end of the last century, and I’m going to live out my life in peace! I love peace, there’s really not enough peace and won’t be any peace until women loose their unjust power and authority mandated in westernized law.
But don’t think it’s gonna be too peaceful for woman when the new sheriff comes to town with his 5 daily prayers and his own book of laws.
I know a real American Patriot (pushed over the edge) that’s dropping the star spangled banner and adopting Islam and Islamic law. I’m must say it’s tempting to join up and help undermine America’s toxic legal system this way.
He sees the unity of Islam and longs to be member of anything but this.
We sure have achieved CHANGE. Allah Akbar? Nice job feminism, things are about to really CHANGE.
welcome !
glad you managed through the journey.
aint marriage just grand ?
hahahahaha!!!!!
it always winds up the same way,
she get’s abusive ..
then greedy..
the courts back her ..
so my friend, you hit the lottery with your outcome !
enjoy the forums,
glad you found your way here !Thanks guys I am glad to be here.
Welcome brother and congrats, you did it the right way just be careful with the dating scene,baby traps,false rape allegations,ect
women have no moral compass or conscience when it comes to us
Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!
Well done, I know a few chaps maybe 15 years younger than me married who are ensuring assets stay hidden with them and debt is retained as a pair, parachute money they call it.
Good for you, a nice read… I have come to the conclusion most don’t like men just want sperm then support.
They are only nice when they want one or the other.
Welcome to the site.
Welcome. Glad to hear you made it through the s~~~ show of women.
Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.
Married twice. My first wife was a good wife for 16yrs. Then she flipped out after that. She couldn’t hold a job and in the last 3 years of marriage started cheating with two different guys and then left me and our 3 children. She payed child support to me and I raised the kids from elementary school on. I did lose the home and about a ¼ million in retirement that was all my money I paid into. The home was divided and I downsized. Over all my losses were not all one sided so I didn’t take the red pill yet. I got remarried. This was a f~~~ing disaster from the word go. Without going into much detail, I got f~~~ed up-one-side and down-the-other; I will continue to be f~~~ed till I die. Her own children hate her for she did to me and I am like a dad to them. The court shoved so many red pills up my ass, my head flew out of there like a rocket. Now my kids are grown, I live alone and I am very happy. Enough about that. I would like to share an older person’s perspective on being MGTOW because most of the post are 30 somethings and I’m 56.
My situation is a bit different mostly because of my age. I don’t have to worry about woman wanting children. The ones I look out for live in apartments with poor jobs (like house cleaning or call centers), have no retirement and desperately need insurance they can’t get for themselves. Obama-care is not saving their asses like they thought it would. They will latch on to any successful or stable man like a barnacle. They don’t have much to offer either so the level of desperation can be very intense. One date and they’re parading you like a new boyfriend. Also the ratio of women to men is easily 5-1 or greater. Sites like ourtime.com don’t have to post fake profiles, those women are real and desperate. As such, STDs are growing in the older population too because all they have to offer is sex and playing hard to get doesn’t work due to increased competition. Some of these women even at 55+ can be very good looking and well-toned. The ones who are successful and good looking will go for younger guys. Why is being a c~~~ with a boy a cougar, and a man with a younger woman shamed? Anyway, the pitfalls are the same but the methods and reasons are different. I’m saying this because most posts seem to be from 30 age, and you will get older, so it’s good to see my perspective. If you still want to date and get laid you will have to keep an eye to job type, retirement income, and housing as a metric of how dangerous the water is, over a younger metric like spending habits or biological clock.
I’m glad to join the group. I can always use some support and am happy to give any if needed.
If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.
Interesting story. First one I’ve read on MGTOW. Sounds familiar & similar to many other men’s stories without doubt. Glad it worked out and you made a successful rebound.
Hey brother, what a great intro. Enjoy the peace and quiet!
Welcome!!
Your title included the word “twisted”.
Unfortunately, your story sounds “normal” and “regular” and “expected”.
I’m so sorry for all that you went through, and I’m glad you found your way to a more positive path in life, both for you and very lucky kids.
Keep it up!
Shit tested, Brother approved.
Awesome. You handled things fairly well. Very happy to have someone ike you over here.
A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.
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