Good news cheer but at a price

[Northern SoulParticipant 186]

Well fellow MGTOW’s. It has been a long hard road but I am now at the end of it. I feel great. My situation is depressingly familiar – kicked out of the marital home for not agreeing to give the ex a second child. I had to defend against false allegations of domestic abuse which was used against me time and again to try and cast doubt over the whole court process. The injunction was eventually dropped. Had the courts believed her I would have never seen my son again. Thankfully after 8 court hearings and using top rate lawyers and barristers, the judges saw through her BS and granted me the access I wanted. I got a derisory financial settlement but that was always going to be the case – I am a man!

Anyhow I fought hard through the courts and got access to my son over the weekends, holidays etc which seems fairly standard however it cost me £45,000 in legal fees ! Yep I am now broke – not a penny to my name, living at my parents but over moon that freedom awaits and the child access arrangements are finally locked down. I basically had to pay 45k to get limited access to my son – it really is quite pathetic but that is the anti-male world we live in. To get the crumbs you have to pay in gold.

My advice to anyone unhappily married is simple – be true to yourself. It is so easy to stay in your comfort zone and settle for unhappiness but there is only so long that you can live a lie. Don’t waste your life. Best to cauterise the wound sooner rather than later and end it, fight hard through the courts if required, beg and borrow from friends and family and rely on their support, stay healthy, mentally strong and positive as you will experience dark days, never take the focus off from your job, see it through and you will be rewarded with freedom and happiness.

The start of a new life.

All the best.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Spectacular avatar. I want it.

Northern Soul wrote:

Well fellow MGTOW’s. It has been a long hard road but I am now at the end of it. I feel great.

EXCELLENT.

Northern Soul wrote:

I had to defend against false allegations of domestic abuse

Not excellent.

Thank you for sharing. Moving this to MGTOW Central for the time being if that’s OK. Thank you for your uplifting post(!) and wish you tremendous success in all things!

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[NeroParticipant 1466]

Thanks for sharing. I can’t tell you how enraged I am reading what you went through to be a part of your kid’s life and at what cost. Regardless, she will end up telling your son that it is all your fault that you don’t see him more than you do. Women like your ex infuriate me to high hell.

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

Welcome! So sad to hear that you had to spend that ungodly sum for a false allegation and just to be able to see your son. All that just because you would not agree to having a second child, which YOU would have had to support for 18 years. I hope young members contemplating marriage read your introduction to sober them up as to what they might be getting into.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Northern Soul wrote:

My advice to anyone unhappily married is simple – be true to yourself. It is so easy to stay in your comfort zone and settle for unhappiness but there is only so long that you can live a lie. Don’t waste your life. Best to cauterise the wound sooner rather than later and end it, fight hard through the courts if required, beg and borrow from friends and family and rely on their support, stay healthy, mentally strong and positive as you will experience dark days, never take the focus off from your job, see it through and you will be rewarded with freedom and happiness.

The start of a new life.

Great post and happy to see your on the path to true freedom. I cringed when you had to pay 45k just to have fair access to your own son. I swear the system is so rigged,you’re fighting for fair while she just stands there with all the benefits in her hand by default. Another man saved.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Welcome and thanks for sharing, man. That really bites, but that’s the world we live in. I’ve had to start over again a few times, but I always make it. I know you will too. Life really begins now, and as time passes, you will be able to put all this behind you. It gets easier from here on out. The worst is behind you.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[Anonymous 54]

Congratulations.Freedom is always worth the price you pay for it.Your a good Dad. Your kids will know this when there grown up,and will want to be your freind.

[HitmanParticipant]

congrats !!!
i went through almost as bad..
less court dates..
went deep in to debt for legal fees and supposed “back ” child support..
even though i never failed to support the child.
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make the most of your time with your son.
the years pass by and you will look back filled with a sense of accomplishment for having fought the good fight and won.
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be as civil as possible with the ex.
restrain yourself from anger towards her..
i had to understand that my ex is just a woman who was able to do what she did to me..and that’s why she did it.
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they became mentally sick from all the feminist propaganda around them..
if she had cancer i wouldn’t be mad at her..
so i just consider her to be “sick”..
be as civil as possible,
don’t jeapordize your victory !!!
thanks for the good news brother .
all the best to you..
keep on posting !

[Maraudrz1Participant 2250]

Congrats on your successful case. You may not get to see your child as often as you like but you still can have a huge influence in your son’s life and help him to grow into a mature and successful adult. After he hits 16 or so he will understand what really happened and will most likely disdain his mother if not outright hate her. Try not to let that happen and just explain what women are like and that basically women have little choice in some of the things they do. Again, Congratulations!!!

Women's brains and vagina have one thing in common. There is nothing in there until a man puts something in there.

[Anonymous 24]

I have somehow made it to my 40’s without stepping into the bear trap that is a woman’s clutches, and stories like this from you guys will ensure it never happens at all.

Great post KJO2016.

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

This stuff makes me sad sad sad.I went thru a divorce myself and faught tooth and nail in court over my son.Took on $1000s in debt that took me years to pay off.
The relationship itself did a real number on my mental health and self esteem that i never really recovered from.

Marriage is not a safe place for men.

I even go so far as to say being in a private place with a woman without a camera rolling is a bad idea.

A lot if not most women hold a secret resentment towards men..

Until all these isues are resolved publicly and openly they will only get worse.

Children born out of wedlock(bastards?) are becoming the majority.Men growing up without a father wharehoused like meat stacked inprisons by the millions.Divorce levels continueusly creeping upward.

Social maladies coming from the worst recesses of the average female mind and desires, unleased on an unsuspecting population.

NAWALT while mabe just mabe technically true it is false to assume its truth.

I think a day will come when blue pill men will be a endangered species.

One can only hope for the sake of men and civil society.

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[Banks Control The WorldParticipant 242]

Wow…

I’ve had many long term relationships, some close to marriage… your story makes me glad to have had my heart broken.

Can’t wait til you rebound, save up some cash and don’t ever get married again.

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

Cost too damn much.

Im glad for you brother but damn.

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[BurgundyParticipant 1525]

You have gone through hell, but through it you have come, freedom is now hopefully yours to take.

A New beginning, countless battles have been lost, but the war was yours in the end, a costly one, make it count, so none of it was in vain.

You live to tell the tale, so hopefully fewer men may fall prey to the same tactic, which happens so damn often.

This calls for a beer.

[AnthonyParticipant 2281]

Stories like yours are what convinced me that women just aren’t worth the hassle. Women are just bats~~~ crazy and you should avoid them as much as possible.

Women are just mines in a gynocentric minefield. You’ll never know when one will blow up straight into your face like your ex did.

Once you have a Fleshlight real vaginas become worthless.

[Dirtydog73Participant 232]

At the end of the day.its only money and you have the capacity and freedom of choice to make more and as much as you desire.
Putting ourselves in situations where we give others the freedom to do what they want with our resources is the killer.

Fed, Fucked, Appreciated. The three simple things men want, but women will never grasp.

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