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Wouldn’t I be kind of an asshole for not breaking up with her so maybe she can find her white knight (which I’m never going to be)?
You’re only an asshole if you’re leading her on & bulls~~~ting her, just to get her in to bed, or to get her to give you those massages or make you dinner or whatever.
If you’re forthright about what you want and what you don’t want, she knows the score. Whether she chooses to believe it or not (“No no, really! I can make him change! I can feeeeeeeel it!”) is on her. She’s also a grown woman, so she doesn’t get any kind of a “She didn’t know any better!” pass – wtf she’s not in f~~~ing middle school. Does she pay taxes & buy her own groceries?
I may be in the minority opinion here, but if you have a great setup/relationship with this chick, i say keep doing what you’re doing. As long as she’s a net-benefit to your life. The problem is if/when she becomes a net-negative to you, some guys have a hard time cutting that off. Because cutting it off is a messy conflict. And it can be emotionally painful (cutting it off at that point is the right thing to do, but it may still hurt; i know it did for me – the girl turned completely f~~~ing bonkers crazy & was too much drama bulls~~~ to deal with. But i still remembered fondly taking her out dancing & s~~~.)
In the end, don’t sweat it too much. Remember – she’s not one in a million, she’s one ***of*** a million.
If you comparing the bottom of the barrel of women to some who does more as decent you probably have it wrong. It would be like comparing monkeys to human beings. You know monkeys don’t have jobs right so if a human has a job that’s decent? Maybe to a monkey standard it maybe decent however to a human being that’s pitiful if the job only pay $5/hr.
I’m sure most men don’t expect a perfect woman just a woman who puts enough effort. The problem with people is that they change. One of my step sister is a good example. She was nice to her husband before marriage however after marriage she became a controlling c~~~. She did so called decent things although she works long hours. She bought him a huge steak before leaving work because she will be working long hours.
My brother in law has become the woman in the family. He learned to cook Korean food and even took cooking classes later on. After their marriage she yells at him like crazy when he did nothing wrong. She feels like she has to be in control because she doesn’t want to end up in my step mom’s situation where my father bossed her around. Never mind he worked long hours sometimes 16 hours with little breaks. Never mind that he got sick from the glue fumes and other chemicals that caused him to have headaches that he ended up taking too many aspirins. He ended in the hospital for at least 6 months that I could remember.
What my step mother did for him was at least she could do. She sat on her ass after 2 to 3 hours of cleaning. She was bored stiff. i asked my step mom how I can find a woman like her and she laughed so hard. She tell me there isn’t any woman like her in my generation and told me look at my own step sisters.
Women are going down hill. Men pretty much stayed the same. Men just have the minimum standards for women but women have crazy high standards for men.
Let me put another way, rich people would never compare themselves with homeless people because that would be crazy.
"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle
That part about when you give ownership they turn from NAWALT to awalt is so sadly true
I left her for a younger , better looking woman and after years of being an asshole to her I finnaly changed into a decent partner guess what she stoped “loving me” and turned into a hell c~~~ which then caused me to try and be nicer till finnaly she told me “she had lost respect for me”
Lesson learned treat them like s~~~
It’s depressing to think that you need to be an asshole to keep most women around . kindness , respect , honesty , friendship , loyalty etc are anathema to wimmins despite the bs that comes out of thier mouths.
Nawalt lol dude most women.i.know.put.up.on a act to get stuff, beside that.laws are againts.us but then again any.men can do what they want with.their.life as.Long.you.know that risk of getting.married and be able.to block any.kind of.manipulation she might.use,but for.me nawalt.is bull s~~~, because all women prefer guys with good.jobs ect
Anonymous11A woman is subject to change w/o prior notice no matter how she presents herself. It’s just a matter of time before the outer layers of the onion are removed revealing her pungent core. NAWALTs are so rare they effectively do not exist. I’ve heard convincing arguments for zero NAWALTs too.
@Biggus: You’d better handle it with your A game when you decide to lose her. She was a virgin until meeting you. Her attachment to you is very deep due to this. I wouldn’t want for you to wake up to the aroma of boiled bunnies.
I think the rule of thumb should be to put the same expectations on her as you would a guy. Don’t lower your standards for her.
And yes, once she has your ring or some sense that she’s got you, there’s a 99% chance that she will start taking advantage of that. Every NAWALT can go AWALT when she no longer has a reason to be NAWALT.
Ok. Then do it.
That part about when you give ownership they turn from NAWALT to awalt is so sadly true
I left her for a younger , better looking woman and after years of being an asshole to her I finnaly changed into a decent partner guess what she stoped “loving me” and turned into a hell c~~~ which then caused me to try and be nicer till finnaly she told me “she had lost respect for me”
Lesson learned treat them like s~~~
It’s depressing to think that you need to be an asshole to keep most women around . kindness , respect , honesty , friendship , loyalty etc are anathema to wimmins despite the bs that comes out of thier mouths.
I hate to play devil’s advocate but are you really sure she never cheated on you at all dude.
I mean how do you know she never cheated on you or stuck a knife in you back with out you knowing bro. That’s something to think about right there. Damn man that’s some real controversial s~~~ right there man. Nice post but I still think that the NAWALT can’t exist then and if you don’t mind me asking what era did you date this woman in. Because you know this is 2015? well 2016 after this month.
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I doubt it she hated cheating I mean hated it she hated it in women as well .
If she did I’m not fussed I deserved it
I’m not saying she may not have but I would wager she never did
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