My little opinion about marriage and divorce

[verynormalsimpleParticipant 50]

Anonymous wrote:

SO WE SHOULD ALL BE LIKE YOU OR WE DESERVE WHAT WE GET You sound like someone with very little life experience. The guys on this site are willing to overlook mean comments from a new poster because we understand your pain but making light of someone else else’s pain and suffering by calling them “a spoiled girl” is going to wear thin on our patience real fast.

I think you’re getting me wrong. I’m not making light of anyone’s pain, it’s completely valid to feel pain after being betrayed. What I disagree with is when people act as if they were defrauded and/or forced when in reality there’s nothing shady about marriage, it’s clear as water and no one can really force you to get married, at most they can try to convince you, influence you or extort you.

Execration wrote:

The users intro states” its not like i expected anything less from the patriarchy” almost in a literal sense.

KM based on a few things I beilieve this user might be Female.

I’ve been mistaken for female a couple of times on the internet but this is the first time it happens over a joke.

"The worst form of inequality is when you try to make unequal things equal" Aristoteles; "You know too much when you have done nothing wrong yet people considers you a threat" Myself

[verynormalsimpleParticipant 50]

Keymaster wrote:

My best friend’s bride was swinging from another dick within 3 months of the wedding. Yes really. Should he have “known better”? You betcha! Especially since he invited me and I wouldn’t go – and told him exactly why.

He said “Oh right. You don’t believe in marriage.”

I said “No. I don’t believe in divorce.”

So I can see the point, not to feel sorry for him. But I am a human with a pulse, and we’ve known each other 25 years, so what the f~~~ else am I supposed to feel for him? Contempt? Should I point and laugh?

SHE cheated on him. The situation was totally avoidable by HER. Full stop.

Now, if he went and signed ANOTHER marriage contract….. then I would just chalk it up to extreme foolishness. But I still wouldn’t “feel nothing”. I would set my manners aside and passionately object – in his best interest.

You can feel whatever you want, but reality doesn’t care about feelings. The facts are that he decided to get married and despite people throwing redpills in his face.

I’ve made bad choices in my life and I don’t have a problem if you call me stupid for those bad choices.

"The worst form of inequality is when you try to make unequal things equal" Aristoteles; "You know too much when you have done nothing wrong yet people considers you a threat" Myself

[KeymasterKeymaster]

The reason we can’t accept the idea that a man who signs a (fraudulent) marriage contract under the guise of “love” or some silly orgasmic haze ….. is because women too often deliberately misrepresent themselves before hand and this is NOT expected behavior in a situation where she vows to be loving and kind.

He’s not SUPPOSED to know ( or believe ) she has intention to ultimately treat him worse than she would if she never met him at all.

Sure, you can tell someone they are a fool to gamble too!
“THE HOUSE ALWAYS WINS!!” right?

Except, in reality, the house doesn’t always win. You CAN leave a casino in the green – if you do it right and leave when you’re winning. The trouble is, winners don’t leave when they should and they get greedy, so it’s a moot point.

But you can’t teach a child what “hot” is. It’s IMPOSSIBLE.
Every child MUST burn it’s own finger at least once.

For that reason, you still have a bandaid ready.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[AkhilleusParticipant 2486]

Your twitter account is empty zero social media pics tweets etc. If you want to make a good cover try putting some effort into it or link nothing at all, less for you to explain later. Also your back tracking now saying it was a joke, if you just appologised we all f~~~ up understandable, why would you say online people think like a female? Talks like a duck walks like a duck.

Also I woulndt call anyone stupid for making a mistake that I have also have done, shaming belittling only c~~~s/manginas/white knights do that.

Aloha means family you don't leave family behind. Who will be the next Draconarius for MGTOW? MGTOW = brothers = acceptance = belonging

[Anonymous 5]

I never thought of marriage when I was a kid. Maybe, it’s because I never believed in it. I’m in my early twenties, so thank goodness, I know the true meaning of marriage in the 21st century.

Even when I was thinking about marrying one day, I never liked the idea about letting the government into my private life, thus, the word contract always left a sour tasted in my mouth.

I don’t have a religion, and I don’t believe in church, but I do believe in the Bible. The marriage contract goes beyond our mortal minds. Marriage was between a man and a woman, And God was to blessed that holy reunion.

But, since we decided to involve the state in it, an establishment that is corrupted, greedy, evil, selfish, warmonger, who favors women over men, and the same establishment has the nerve to call us misogynists.

Signing that contract means, you’ve invited a monster into your life, that will take your very soul, the day, you dare sign the divorce papers.

The state is unholy, and we, who are believers, knows that God cannot bless someone, or something that’s sinful. Why do you think married men are so unhappy? When you signed that contract, you gave your privacy away, and your children. Oh yes, a child that is born inside a marriage, is a child of the state.

I bet you didn’t know that, research it. Why do you think 99℅ of the time, the kid(s) goes to the mother? The state will teach your children how to think, and behave. That’s why we have public schools.

The state hates you!

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

Hindsight is always wiser. When you’ve lived it you know. I very much doubt anyone would come to these conclusions at 12 years old. Dam at that age all I thought about was how great it would be to have sex on tap as a married man. If you really did suss it out so soon then kudos to you. You are one special gifted and wise SOB. Maybe you should start your own site and share your wisdom and foresight with the world?

Step up to the plate. The world awaits.

It's Time to get Wise

[verynormalsimpleParticipant 50]

Greg Honda wrote:

Hindsight is always wiser. When you’ve lived it you know. I very much doubt anyone would come to these conclusions at 12 years old. Dam at that age all I thought about was how great it would be to have sex on tap as a married man. If you really did suss it out so soon then kudos to you. You are one special gifted and wise SOB. Maybe you should start your own site and share your wisdom and foresight with the world?

Step up to the plate. The world awaits.

I guess having close friends with parents getting divorced plays a primary role in how fast you take the redpill. Divorce is so common that it’s very unlikely for someone to have lived their whole childhood without ever knowing someone from a family that got a divorce. I guess not all kids are as inquisitive and curious as I was.

Akhilleus wrote:

Your twitter account is empty zero social media pics tweets etc. If you want to make a good cover try putting some effort into it or link nothing at all, less for you to explain later. Also your back tracking now saying it was a joke, if you just appologised we all f~~~ up understandable, why would you say online people think like a female? Talks like a duck walks like a duck.

Also I woulndt call anyone stupid for making a mistake that I have also have done, shaming belittling only c~~~s/manginas/white knights do that.

Wait what ? I never said that.

By the way I have no problem admitting that I created that Twitter account the same day I decided to register here. I still don’t use twitter because I don’t really get it or understand why would I want to use that social media platform. You can find me in other social media, however I doubt you will be able to back your void claims by reading my posts. The only ones behaving like SJW’s around here are the ones making unfounded accusations and trying to shame someone because they didn’t fit with their own personal mindset.

"The worst form of inequality is when you try to make unequal things equal" Aristoteles; "You know too much when you have done nothing wrong yet people considers you a threat" Myself

[AutoliteParticipant]

verynormalsimple wrote:

So “I didn’t know” is not a valid excuse. There’s nothing hidden or cryptic about marriage, the information is out there clear. Even further, there’s plenty of divorce statistics so you basically know the odds of your gamble.
be a man and take responsibility for the crooked contract you decided to sign.

I have a little trouble feeling a lot sympathy for any adult guy who got screwed if they married any time within the last fifteen years. How could anyone possibly claim that they were unaware of the liabilities?

I can’t figure out why someone would knowingly enter into such a horrifically lop-sided legally binding contract that clearly only benefits one partner. Outside of a marriage, nobody would settle for such terms…

[narwhalParticipant]

In my case, I knew the stats about divorce. I also had confidence in myself and my abilities to make a marriage work. I had faith that my fiancé would also uphold her vows. I absolutely knew it was possible.

I did see some red flags before the marriage. I wouldn’t say I ignored them, but I thought I could overcome them. I also saw the flags and trouble we may have while married…not reasons for her to eventually want to divorce.

My parents had a horrible marriage, yet they never caused it to end the marriage until about a year before my Dad passed. I learned that marriage could suffer through quite a bit. I was shocked when my ex asked to get a divorce, because the troubles we had were nothing compared to what my parents went through.

On top of that, I really wasn’t prepared to deal with marital issues. I didn’t know how to communicate and stand my ground when needed. That may not have saved my marriage, but it certainly would have had more of a chance.

So do I blame myself. Yes, sort of in the same way that it’s stupid to walk down a dark alley. However, I also understand the value of taking a risk, I know why I took a risk and I don’t want to ever punish myself for being optimistic. There were many things I thought I understood that I didn’t….things you can’t really understand till you’ve been there. That’s not to say you have to experience it to learn the lesson either.

I guess I’m saying I see you’re point, and agree to an extent. I don’t think that means that I should accept no sympathy from others, or provide none to men who have gone through similar experiences. Some will wisely chose to not to make the same mistakes I did, but I wouldn’t chastise anyone who felt they could overcome the odds.

Ok. Then do it.

[AutoliteParticipant]

narwhal wrote:

I guess I’m saying I see you’re point, and agree to an extent. I don’t think that means that I should accept no sympathy from others, or provide none to men who have gone through similar experiences. Some will wisely chose to not to make the same mistakes I did, but I wouldn’t chastise anyone who felt they could overcome the odds.

I think maybe I just have trouble understanding why things that are obvious to me aren’t obvious to everybody else. I’ve never even been married but I have had enough relationships and I’ve observed enough marriages to know that marriage (for the guy) is a horrific and huge mistake.

Would you feel sorry for a guy who shoves his face into a deep fat fryer even after having been told that it would be very bad idea to do so???

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