Hello fellow men going whatever way you want.
I found this site a few months ago. I got familiar with the MGTOW term over a year ago. Here’s why, I’m in my 50’s, been married 4times with several LTR’s intermingled. No kids, and convinced that I had things figured out but just hadn’t met the right gash yet. Winter 2014, I had met the girl of my dreams, just what i was looking for, and after almost two years celibate I had some pretty well defined criteria. I knew that I needed a friend first then get laid second. Well, I met her, moved her in within just a couple of weeks. I had enough bad experience that I knew it could take a couple years or more to get her to show her cards so I chose to abbreviate this by just moving her on and giving her the keys to the castle so up speak. Sure enough, I saw what I didn’t want to see within two weeks, she invented an imaginary friend and took my first item to the pawn shop. Like seeing something out of the corner of one’s eye, I thought I was seeing a premonition of a train wreck. I continued on for a couple months more (four total) to make sure it wasn’t an anomaly and sure as s~~~ it wasn’t.
Keep in mind, I’ve had enough lying c~~~s in my life that I knew how to protect my castle. I live in texas, no alimony or any of that s~~~ and I knew the eviction process well enough (intimately in fact) that I wasn’t worried about becoming homeless.
So the tipping point, one Saturday about 7pm, she came home drinking a rockstar (at 7pm for Christ sake) telling me her brother had recently discovered how badly he was mistreated as a child and she was “thinking” about spending the night with him to talk over his issues, and they thought the Indy casinos in Oklahoma should be a good venue for that discussion. WTF!!? so I consented, at this point she was jobless so I held the funds. That is I consented as long as she would stay in touch. It was 5 minutes into her journey that I realized she had one of my cards so I called her… no answer! When she finally showed the next morning, I had been sitting on the couch where I’d been since she left so p~~~ed I couldn’t speak so she left stating she shouldn’t be treated like that. A later text let me know I had traumatized her so badly she was just going to stay with her mother Sunday night.
I woke Monday determined to live for myself again, I made a pass through the place and piled all her s~~~ on a trailer outside, including her f~~~ing cat with a fresh litter of kittens. Texted her saying how much I needed her back home.
When she rolled up in the car I bought her, I showed her her s~~~ on the flatbed trailer, took tags n coil wire off her car n sent her on her way, LEGALLY!
Very hurt , determined to treat myself better I did an interweb search something like men that are tired of taking women’s s~~~ thinking there must be more like me out there, bingo, I found the term MGTOW. Lurked for a bit and realized this site has lots of individuals (OK boneheads like me) that have been through some of the same s~~~.
That’s about it for my intro, not much into social media, this is the most ever written on the web EVER.
Thanks to all that have shared here, I will try to do the same. It helps to speak with the others in the same boat as you.
Your brother in arms
FREEATLAST!!!!
Freeatlast 4 years, 2 months ago.
