My intro

[usairmanParticipant 35]

I am not truly MGTOW because I am happily married (90 – 95 percent of the time anyway.)

However, I find a lot of common interest in what I’ve been reading here.

Been married once, 32 years so far. I ghink I am pretty lucky compared to most married men. My wife has been pretty awesome thus far. Probably more awesome than me in many respects.

However, I have NO illusions about her being different than other women. She can’t help that because AWALT.

Fortunately, she isn’t what created my interest in TRP and MGTOW.

It’s society as a whole. It’s so out of balance due to the PC feminazi and guno control of every aspect of life.

I’ll add more later.

Joe

[usairmanParticipant 35]

Guno…meant gyno
😎

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Welcome to the sanctuary.

Good luck with marriage, maybe you belong to the 7%

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

Welcome sir! If you will choose to participate in the forums, I’m sure you might get some interesting questions and I look forward to your answers.

Carnage wrote:

Good luck with marriage, maybe you belong to the 7%

It’s 6% now.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[Anonymous 18]

usairman wrote:

My wife has been pretty awesome thus far. Probably more awesome than me in many respects.

Please elaborate.

[Anonymous 42]

May I shoot your unicorn between the eyes then cook up all the meat for a feast? Please?

[GregB0Participant]

usairman wrote:

It’s society as a whole. It’s so out of balance due to the PC feminazi and guno control of every aspect of life.

Welcome and I also look forward to your posts and view. I agree with your above comments and know that this is a situation that has to be changed soon.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

usairman wrote:

I am not truly MGTOW because I am happily married

/sigh/ Face palm……..

[Cú ChulainnParticipant 3910]

Welcome, but (and I’m not trying to be rude to you in anyway) MGTOW and “happily married” are, in my own opinion, mutually exclusive.

Doesn’t mean you shouldn’t post I don’t think, not up to me of course, but I’m looking forward to see if your clash of interests can be overcome as you navigate the site.

Dissention may be a good thing, stops groupthink in its tracks. Good luck to you, and congratulations on making a marriage work for you.

[HermitParticipant]

Cú Chulainn wrote:

Welcome, but (and I’m not trying to be rude to you in anyway) MGTOW and “happily married” are, in my own opinion, mutually exclusive.

Doesn’t mean you shouldn’t post I don’t think, not up to me of course, but I’m looking forward to see if your clash of interests can be overcome as you navigate the site.

Dissention may be a good thing, stops groupthink in its tracks. Good luck to you, and congratulations on making a marriage work for you.

Yes, I think this will be interesting. I am curious, (and I’m not trying to be rude either), if someone is “happily married”, have they truly found a female that is not as bad as all the others, or are they messed up in the head, blinded by society and still living in the land of lies? I know AWALT, but there are varying degrees. Maybe he’s found that mutant woman that doesn’t want to black widow her mate.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

I can reflect on two excellent relationships that were effortless and pleasant. We were merely separated by geography, work and other factors. Unicorns? Not exactly. But then again, they were in a different class of what’s out there today….. and it was before a big (and very noticeable ) cultural shift I would pinpoint in the mid-late 90s.

I mention this because my brother is also “happily married”. However,he is very tolerant and has brought issues to me, and I have also witnessed their dynamic as an observer.

One day, his wife shouted out from the kitchen “chicken or steak?”. He answered “Chicken!” and was all proud of himself that he called the shots. But did he REALLY? Or did he merely choose from one of her controlled choices? What would her reaction be if he said “I want beer and pizza”?

— JUST AN EXAMPLE —

One of the “good” ones I mention asked me “would you want to get married in the summer or the winter?”. An interesting question – asking me to choose from one of her controlled choices.

Another asked “Do you want to go for a picnic or my parents house for dinner”?

Notice a pattern here?

As time went on. I noticed it too. I would trip her up by telling her what I REALLY want. “Neither. I want to stay home and watch the game – or not do much of anything at all”.

She gives me option A or B and lets me choose as if we’re in a 50/50 relationship. But I want to do C, so she only lets me THINK we’re in a 50/50 relationship – when we aren’t.

If she doesn’t like my answer…. then why is she asking what I want?

It ALWAYS consistently came down to my willingness to do either of her choices, and the 3rd was controversial and would usually start an argument. So in order to be “happily married”, I knew I would have to concede much more often than I really wanted to – just to keep the peace.

Some men are perfectly OK with this. My brother is one of them.
After a while, I just couldn’t take it anymore.

I’m not suggesting your happy marriage is anything like this and I know nothing about how (or why) it works for you. Even women are unaware that they do this and how infuriating it is. But my point is, even when it was good and it “worked”…… I was still “alone”.

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Welcome to the forums and it’s a pleasure to have you here.
A bit of a fisherman myself, so I appreciate your avatar too.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 3]

One of the questions I have been ruminating on is : Can a married man be mgtow? mgtow means men going their own way. is that possible in a marriage? I suppose in some intellectual & philosophical way, yes ( I suppose ) but I honestly dont know. maybe I can learn from you. i am open to your posts.

[usairmanParticipant 35]

Thanks. I attribute it to us both being stubborn. And seeing how f%$&ed up other people out there seem to be.

I think there was a point where we both thought the other one of us sucked. But maybe we came to realize that just about everyone else “out there” we were aware of sucked a lot more.

[usairmanParticipant 35]

Thanks 😀

[Anonymous 43]

Who knew you could get a preemptive account here, for when everything goes to s~~~ later?

welcome to the prequalification center.

I think you will find it difficult to go your own way when you are tethered to a special snowflake.

[Anonymous 3]

Lol! The prequalification zone. That’s rich

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Your “Introduction” sends up Red Flags.

First, you have NOT introduced yourself.

Second, you claim that you are happily married with a 90% good woman.

Third, your Red Pills are too general.

No one here is being asked to give out specific details that will lead others to identify them. NO DOXING!

But, you are honor bound to provide general descriptions of your life as a Man.

Holding back the important parts of a man’s life is Pusillanimous.

The image of those b~~~~ hanging out in the open in my MGTOW Icon, represents Men’s Nature.

Our B~~~~ empower us to do things in the world which we are proud of no matter how high our goals are.

Even our failures are sources of pride because our b~~~~ got us up off of our ass to do something.

We let it all hang out without hiding.

Your claim to have found a 90% “Unicorn” makes it even more important for you to establish your Bonafides as a man.

To be fair, more than half of the married Masculine Men I have worked with in the Trades (Iron Workers, Brick Layers…) make the same claims about their wife.

And there are married men contributing here on MGTOW.com
But, most of them are unhappy with their situation and planning their “escape” from the “Plantation.”

There is only two new MGTOW members that I have read in the past year who claim to be happily married. One is a widower, and the other is you.

As far as I am considered, a Masculine Man should get a hand up (not a hand out), when he arrives on our shores.

So, here are some tips to Improve your “Introduction:”

In the reply box below, give general descriptions to the following questions:

What does YOUR Sovereignty look like?

Hobbies?

What kind of fun things do YOU do?

Where have you lived?

What kind of jobs have you done?

Training/ Education?

Any future projects?

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[usairmanParticipant 35]

Anonymous wrote:

usairman wrote:

My wife has been pretty awesome thus far. Probably more awesome than me in many respects.

Please elaborate.

My wife so far has been both a stay at home Mom when that was needed (when kids were young) and a working wife when it wasn’t (I was out of work or very underemployed).

My wife put up with living in various postings overseas when I was in the Air Force and was often not home (extremely long hours or deployed).

And she was able to “get by” and get things done that were needed but always made sure she reminded me she missed me AND let me know she didn’t care to do the things I’d do if I were home. She aplreciates me. Probably more than I do, or at least have, her.

She likes doing lady things and having me do manly things. (But she will help me out too)

She cared for my Dad and his wife when they both had cancer.

And she helped with my Mom for months when she was dying of cancer.

She’s helped my kids with their 4H animals (Cattle and Swine) much more than I have.

Although I got called in for any “heavy” work which I wouldn’t have wanted her to do anyway.

She encouraged me to invest in myself educationally and cheered my many sucesses career wise. YES, I realize she gets the benefit of those efforts but she’s never seemed too money hungry like most.

She treats me like I’m important. (I’m not)

And I haven’t always appreciated her or acted like she was important.

(I DO nowadays but I don’t get carried away, don’t want to spoil her)

She’s low maintenance, doesn’t bitch as much as many males I know.

She looks at feminism and social justice stuff and laughs. She calls it all BS.

I can say more but my old eyes and fingers don’t type well on a small phone…

Will add more this weekend.
Joe

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

usairman wrote:

……….living in various postings overseas when I was in the Air Force and was often not home (extremely long hours or deployed).

Men with Military experience have the best Bonafides in addition to huge b~~~~.

Thank you for your service.

Here is a tip for improving your Red Pill Descriptions.
The following link is a good example of an Introduction with excellent Red Pills relating to Women in the military:

An Intro by Email – Ex Navy (ret) Pilot

On a side note, last year, Riargs the MGTOW Navy Pilot also wrote an interesting post about “Chemtrails:”

MGTOW and CHEMTRAILS

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[NoMoreParticipant 1233]

usairman wrote:

My wife put up with living in various postings overseas when I was in the Air Force and was often not home (extremely long hours or deployed).

She put up with you supporting your family while you fulfilled your duty to your country…

usairman wrote:

She treats me like I’m important. (I’m not)

Good on you for being happily married. Many of us were at some point, but this isn’t meant as a dig at your marriage.

Your choice of phrase, “put up with”, or “treats me like I’m important”, with your caveat that, “I’m not”, is disheartening. It reads like a man looking through a blue pill lense describing his marriage.

She should be supportive of your new overseas postings. You should never think you aren’t important. You are just as important as she is.

I wish you continued success in your marriage.

A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

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