My GF's desperation

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  • #125109
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    Prefer Peace to Piece
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    The very fact that she’s trying to pressure you into marriage shows she does NOT love you. Because marriage has nothing to do with love. Marriage is about property. Your property. Marriage is about labor. Your labor. She doesn’t want to marry you because she wants you. She already has you. She wants to marry you because SHE WANTS YOUR STUFF.

    Sidecar – you nailed it.

    #125111
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    Governor Megachris%
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    I seriously CANNOT find any woman who can give me any benefit to ME getting married.

    “You can make HER happy!”
    “You’re devoting YOUR life to HER!”
    “You’re giving her YOUR resources so SHE can depend on YOU!”

    …But what does she do for me?

    “Don’t be selfish!!”

    Honestly, can ANYONE on here give me ONE benefit of being married, besides maybe cultural/religious reasons to be able to experience intimacy with your wife? I mean, THAT part I can understand being a Christian myself. But, I don’t think the intimacy is worth all the risks that come with it…

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    Exsliventxs
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    Haha Sidecar, badass man.

    Yeah she’s very religious, which didn’t stop her from having pre-maritial sex because… (well when does it ever these days?)

    I told her like 50 times in the conversation that the only appeal women have today is offspring. Not sex.
    I pointed out that thanks to the feminist movement, I can get sex and companionship anywhere. Not to mention she’s already giving up the sex, so that’s doubly not motivation for marriage. She didn’t contest those points.

    She finds it shocking that I would “plan” for our divorce. She finds it defeatist. I told her, 60% of the time you’re going to ruin my life. Why should I not plan for something that is the most statistically probable?

    She thought she had warmed me up to the idea of marriage over the past 9 months. I told her in no uncertain terms, I’m not marrying you. I also made it obvious that it’s not her fault. I directed her to the feminist movement and told her to rant against them if she’s ever upset, they’re the reason.

    Rest assured, I’ll be wrapping that s~~~ up again. (No I don’t rely on her BC.)

    emphasis

    #125122
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    I’ve also been taking serious consideration to what my “elders” say (they’re not necessarily old, but old enough to know better). A lot of them tell me that after your mid-40s or early 50s, you won’t even care about sexual gratification. It explains how my grandfather, the great guy he was, was able to live on his own for so many years after he parted from my grandmother (both actually lived alone after they divorced, to be fair, but stayed best friends…THAT is a VERY rare occasion). I’m 27 now. I’m about halfway there, and I’ve been without intimacy for a year (tough, I admit!) and marriage for 27 years. I think I’ll be fine.

    #125123
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    Exsliventxs
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    I noticed in your OP that you said your girlfriend. What’s the status after her s~~~ test and your crushing of her argument? She broke a verbal contract already since you told her earlier in the relations~~~ that you absolutely positively were not getting married, and she tried to persuade (since manipulate makes it sound so calculating) you into a discussion about something you said was off the table. Just curious since you brought it to the forum.

    She “accepts” my stance. She said she’ll “bring it up again at a later date”, I told her my opinion will not change. I pointed out that it’s the family courts that will enable her, and her change of her heart (out of love with me/vindictive) will persuade her to do all the things she’s promised not to do, and that no amount of non-binding persuasion is going to change my mind.

    If I drove over there, she’d still suck my dick the moment I walked in the door. That doesn’t really mean much however. The closing arguments.

    Her: Goodnight, I love you even if I disagree with you on things.

    Me: If we agreed on everything, you’d be f~~~ing another guy within a week. Literally your pussy would just pull you right on another’s c~~~. lol

    She read it, but didn’t contest it. (Everyone knows, you appease a woman on everything, she’ll be f~~~ing some other dude quicker than you can say, yes mam.)

    That’s how it ended. She tried all the angles, including… Don’t make me compromise on my morals. I chuckled, because I didn’t force her to have pre-marital sex, I even offered to cease (for real), so she wouldn’t feel morally cornered. Her response? That’s not going to happen. I like it too much.

    Women like sex more than men. Obviously.

    #125131
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    Truthseeker82
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    It’s coercion. And they know it. If they truly gave a s~~~ about men, they would do anything to be with you – unconditionally. But wait – that sounds more like a dog – unconditional love – not a woman. Which is my advice – if you want devotion and unconditional love – you won’t get it from a human female. The family court system in westernized countries is absurd. Why would any man willingly submit themselves to having any nexus with this joke of a tribunal. You might as well stick your privates in a wood chipper. The result is not much different. If any woman starts uttering the happily forever after s~~~ – run Forrest run. And don’t look back.

    #125135
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    Puffin Stuff
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    When my ex and I exchanged vows at our wedding one of them was to share any children 50/50 in case of divorce. When she moved out she didn’t even tell me nor did we have a fight. It was a plan she’d had in motion for months. She took our 9 month old child and moved 7 hours away. Far enough that I would not have had any sort of meaningful relationship with him.

    So much for her “vow”.

    My mistake was taking her to court and fighting for 50/50. Despite winning every battle we fought in court for 13 years and my son decided to move in with her because her new husband bought a house in Hawaii and they told my son he didn’t have to go to school and could go to Hawaii.

    It cost me $300,000.00.

    When he left my house he had straight A’s. Once he moved in with her he barely graduated high school.

    My mistake was in fighting. I should have let her have custody, paid the child support and gone my own way.

    #icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

    #125150
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    Prefer Peace to Piece
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    My mistake was in fighting. I should have let her have custody, paid the child support and gone my own way.

    Amen brother. I made the same mistake. The quicker you can get out the better

    #125202
    NeoSe7en
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    “My ex took all my Beavis and Butthead videos”

    That Cap, is an act of WAR!! 🙂

    Seriously though, all women are snakes, it’s just what degree of poison do they carry. Trusting them is a supreme act of foolishness.

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    TaxGuy
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    Sidecar said:

    There are only two possibilities here:

    1. She is lying to you about some non-existent hypothetical “good parts” intrinsic to marriage. This means she’s a lying, manipulative bitch.
    2. She is withholding some “good parts” from you until you irrevocably sign over your life to her. Until she gets the big payout. This means she’s a whore.

    Do you really want to spend your life with either?
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    Sidecar, you missed 3. Both 1 and 2. The most likely answer….

    Order the good wine

    #125261

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    Sidecar is right. If she loves you for real, she wouldn’t marry you.

    Reminds me of this one GF that I had. She wanted marriage and a wedding her entire life. Typical woman. We talked about it one day. I was purple pill, always had been in the past so I was relatively aware of the statistics and problems, but ultimately wasn’t completely against it. Told her yeah probably, I would do it to make you happy blah blah. Then the next day, she told me she thought about it and really didn’t want to marry me because she was very irritated by the idea of trivializing and bringing what we had down to such a superficial level. As much as she wanted a wedding, she couldn’t put me through it and would rather keep it between us.

    So yes, they all know what’s up deep down.

    #125321
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    Sidecar
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    Sidecar – you nailed it.

    Thanks. I really need to put that paragraph into a file for easy cut-and-paste, because I dont’ know how many times I’ve repeated it here and elsewhere. Could save me some typing in the long run, because the truth bears repeating.

    #125333
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    Sidecar
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    Normally I’d put everything into one big reply, but this deserves its own response.

    Yeah she’s very religious, which didn’t stop her from having pre-maritial sex because… (well when does it ever these days?)

    Let’s consider that little gem for a moment. She’s supposedly “very religious”… but still has premarital sex. So she’s religious except for when it benefits her to not to be. So she cannot keep faith with her GOD when it doesn’t benefit her, but she still expects you to believe she will remain faithful with you?

    This says nothing about her religion, but everything about her character. And what is says is not good. Now I don’t pay much mind to religious matters. I don’t care if a woman is religious or atheist or whatever, but if she claims to be religious, she damn well better BE religious. Religious toleration is a virtue. Tolerating hypocrisy is not. Need I say it?

    #NoHymenNoDiamond

    I told her like 50 times in the conversation that the only appeal women have today is offspring.

    And too bad for her, thanks to the feminists and the tender years doctrine, even offspring are now off the table. As a man you don’t get to have children. You only get the bill. Don’t take that bill.

    She finds it shocking that I would “plan” for our divorce. She finds it defeatist. I told her, 60% of the time you’re going to ruin my life. Why should I not plan for something that is the most statistically probable?

    Really? When she’s already proven she’s 100% likely to be unfaithful to her GOD? Again, if her GOD can’t rely on her, what chance have you got?

    Rest assured that should you make the mistake of marrying, cohabitating, or procreating with her, she WILL throw your ass under the bus the moment she thinks she can benefit from it. She’ll come up with some self serving excuse like, “You’re not the man I fell in love with,” or whatever, but she WILL do it. Do not give her that chance.

    I directed her to the feminist movement and told her to rant against them if she’s ever upset, they’re the reason.

    Except to her that doesn’t matter. The only thing that ultimately matters to her is your stuff and how she’s going to get her hands on it.

    Rest assured, I’ll be wrapping that s~~~ up again. (No I don’t rely on her BC.)

    Unfortunately that’s not nearly good enough. Trust me, she can get her hands on some needles, or pull a condom out of the trash, or just find someone else to knock her up instead. There are only two ways to be certain, and with a faithless woman you NEED to be certain. Either break up with her. Immediately. Or get a vasectomy (but don’t tell anyone about it). The important thing about the vasectomy isn’t the procedure itself, but rather the paperwork that comes with it that LEGALLY PROVES you are not the father of whatever spawn she manages to cook up. Being able to prove in court you’re shooting blanks is far more critical than merely shooting blanks, because right now there’s nothing to stop her from saddling you to 216 monthly payments for some other man’s child.

    In the meantime, I strongly recommend keeping your condoms under lock and key, flushing any used ones, and leaving a decoy filled with hot sauce in the waste basket in case she tries a little DIY insemination. I recommend Frostbite brand; it’s white color makes it look just like the real thing… at least until it hits delicate membranes that is.

    And get a vasectomy. I cannot recommend that strongly enough. You are already in her crosshairs. Unless you get some real protection, LEGAL PROTECTION, and get it fast, it’s only a matter of time before she pulls the trigger on you.

    She said she’ll “bring it up again at a later date”

    Yeah. The moment she announces her “Oops!” pregnancy.

    Women like sex more than men. Obviously.

    Absolutely. But they like men’s stuff even more. And will stop at nothing to get it.

    #125343
    OldBill
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    Normally I’d put everything into one big reply, but this deserves its own response.

    Excellent summation, sidecar.

    Exsliventxs, please heed sidecar’s advice. Your idiot girlfriend is a clear and present danger to you. It’s only a short step from pressuring you to marry to presenting you with an Ooops pregnancy ultimatum. What’s more, she’ll rationalize trapping you as being for your own good. If she’s able to justify premarital sex with her supposedly religious beliefs, she’ll damn sure be able to justify enslaving you in a marriage.

    It’s time to send her packing. Actually, it’s well past time to send her packing. After all, she’s just one cum sponge out of billions and one that’s become rather dangerous to you and your life.

    Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

    #125438
    Atton
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    Take XSDBS’s advice and make a U turn.

    A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

    #125455
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    Darth Sin
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    I simply fail to understand why men who a GTOW, men who understand what women are like, still choose to pursue romantic relations~~~s. I mean, in a few years you can get VR and robots that will give you better sex than most women can so why bother romancing them at all ? How are they useful to you ?

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