Normally I’d put everything into one big reply, but this deserves its own response.
Yeah she’s very religious, which didn’t stop her from having pre-maritial sex because… (well when does it ever these days?)
Let’s consider that little gem for a moment. She’s supposedly “very religious”… but still has premarital sex. So she’s religious except for when it benefits her to not to be. So she cannot keep faith with her GOD when it doesn’t benefit her, but she still expects you to believe she will remain faithful with you?
This says nothing about her religion, but everything about her character. And what is says is not good. Now I don’t pay much mind to religious matters. I don’t care if a woman is religious or atheist or whatever, but if she claims to be religious, she damn well better BE religious. Religious toleration is a virtue. Tolerating hypocrisy is not. Need I say it?
#NoHymenNoDiamond
I told her like 50 times in the conversation that the only appeal women have today is offspring.
And too bad for her, thanks to the feminists and the tender years doctrine, even offspring are now off the table. As a man you don’t get to have children. You only get the bill. Don’t take that bill.
She finds it shocking that I would “plan” for our divorce. She finds it defeatist. I told her, 60% of the time you’re going to ruin my life. Why should I not plan for something that is the most statistically probable?
Really? When she’s already proven she’s 100% likely to be unfaithful to her GOD? Again, if her GOD can’t rely on her, what chance have you got?
Rest assured that should you make the mistake of marrying, cohabitating, or procreating with her, she WILL throw your ass under the bus the moment she thinks she can benefit from it. She’ll come up with some self serving excuse like, “You’re not the man I fell in love with,” or whatever, but she WILL do it. Do not give her that chance.
I directed her to the feminist movement and told her to rant against them if she’s ever upset, they’re the reason.
Except to her that doesn’t matter. The only thing that ultimately matters to her is your stuff and how she’s going to get her hands on it.
Rest assured, I’ll be wrapping that s~~~ up again. (No I don’t rely on her BC.)
Unfortunately that’s not nearly good enough. Trust me, she can get her hands on some needles, or pull a condom out of the trash, or just find someone else to knock her up instead. There are only two ways to be certain, and with a faithless woman you NEED to be certain. Either break up with her. Immediately. Or get a vasectomy (but don’t tell anyone about it). The important thing about the vasectomy isn’t the procedure itself, but rather the paperwork that comes with it that LEGALLY PROVES you are not the father of whatever spawn she manages to cook up. Being able to prove in court you’re shooting blanks is far more critical than merely shooting blanks, because right now there’s nothing to stop her from saddling you to 216 monthly payments for some other man’s child.
In the meantime, I strongly recommend keeping your condoms under lock and key, flushing any used ones, and leaving a decoy filled with hot sauce in the waste basket in case she tries a little DIY insemination. I recommend Frostbite brand; it’s white color makes it look just like the real thing… at least until it hits delicate membranes that is.
And get a vasectomy. I cannot recommend that strongly enough. You are already in her crosshairs. Unless you get some real protection, LEGAL PROTECTION, and get it fast, it’s only a matter of time before she pulls the trigger on you.
She said she’ll “bring it up again at a later date”
Yeah. The moment she announces her “Oops!” pregnancy.
Women like sex more than men. Obviously.
Absolutely. But they like men’s stuff even more. And will stop at nothing to get it.
Darth Sin 4 years, 3 months ago.
