My fallen brother

[the roadParticipant 3125]

Found out the the wife of one of my best friends left him over a month ago. I had no clue until a week ago, he kept it very silent.

They were high school “sweethearts” who split up but later reconnected in their mid 20s. At that point, she had been married and had two kids. My buddy “loved” her so much that he got an apartment with her right away and started playing daddy and got her knocked up soon after. He s~~~ his pants but went along with it.

He started trying to make more money and over time he opened up a family business that continues to pay him a decent wage. She barely worked of course and benefited from him making more money.

About 10 years ago she started acting like a skank around all of us. She left him after some s~~~ went down. We heard through the grapevine that she was banging two of his homeboys but we had no “proof” of it, only rumor. Also found out that she was f~~~ing some repair guy that would come around to her work. Again, no “proof”. A friend of a friend also overheard one of her phone conversations where she was erratic and said “What do you want me to do, have an abortion?”

My buddy and his whore wife got back together and suddenly it’s announced that she’s pregnant. Many of us told him that this s~~~ is fishy as f~~~ and that she must have done something s~~~ty. He essentially told us all: “I believe her over anyone else”.

About 10 months later, her 4th child is born (which is his 2nd). It became the talk of our group of friends that this child looks exactly like one of the guys she was supposedly f~~~ing around with. My buddy stayed with his whore wife and supported this child that looked nothing like him. He mentioned a DNA test once and never followed through with it.

I stopped hanging out with him because she was always a major bitch and had him scrambling to split time with her. If I was over at their house, he would leave me hanging out in the back while he went in to watch a TV show with her. WTF?

He slowly morphed into what she wanted. A whooped dog that would do her bidding. He bought her two homes, cars, a hot tub, vacations, jewelry, fancy dinners, etc…

Now here we are, she left him after paying off all her credit cards with their joint bank account, moved out, got an apartment, maxed out the credit cards to buy furniture and told him that she isn’t in love with him and isn’t attracted to him.

He’s spent every night since then living in misery, drinking at least a case of beer a night (he’s a big guy who can put them down), and smoking 2 – 3 packs a day.

The part of this that really irks me is that through all of this, his first instinct was to go on a dating site and start looking for another woman…

#MANOUT

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Tragic tale, the going on the dating site is due to the social programming , I know 2 guys who would have married anything with a c~~~.

They both married women with children from a previous marriage, used soiled worn out fat whores.. why ?

The fear of being alone , the need to comply.

For some that fear, instinct, training overrides any rational thought process.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

It is tragic & a reminder of so many red flags. No matter how much you do/get/give them, it ain’t never ever enough to even satisfy them, let alone anything else beyond that.

the road wrote:

The part of this that really irks me is that through all of this, his first instinct was to go on a dating site and start looking for another woman…

It sucks to see a man set a blaze like that & turn right around and fast march right back into the inferno.

Some of us had to be burned a few times, slow learners, stubborn, pussy whipped, and so on & so forth.

Many would have thought me a lost cause, but somehow I finally got out of it. Hope your fallen brother gets up & wakes up.

[Oz-BlokeParticipant 3233]

Your friend the walking-wallet cuckold has learnt the hard way. As to bouncing straight to online dating, Forrest Gump said it best – “Stupid is as stupid does”. Child support is a killer – I’d be getting a DNA test on that fourth child ASAP.
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#ManOut

[RorschachParticipant 2083]

the road wrote:

He slowly morphed into what she wanted. A whooped dog that would do her bidding. He bought her two homes, cars, a hot tub, vacations, jewelry, fancy dinners, etc…

Wow it must be so nice to be showered with such lavish gifts. I’d never know what that was like because i’ve never known a woman that would buy me a house or car. I’ve barely met any that could even do it if they wanted to. If you cant or wont buy me a house or car then dont expect me to buy you one. If I can’t treat her as an equal and I cant treat her as less than I am then I have two options. Treat her as shes better than me or walk away. Thats where going your own way wins everytime. Why would you want to treat anyone better than yourself? As good as, sure why not.. but better?

The accumulated filth of all their sex and murder will foam up about their waists and all the whores and politicians will look up and shout "save us!"....... and i'll look down and whisper "No."

[SkeptiskParticipant 3679]

I don’t think he can be saved. He’s too much of a blue pill to even start going his own way.

"Expecting to find a decent woman on a dating site is like dumpster diving and expecting to come out with a gourmet meal." Won'tGetFooledAgain

[the roadParticipant 3125]

Skeptisk wrote:

I don’t think he can be saved. He’s too much of a blue pill to even start going his own way.

I’m hoping not. Even though he and I don’t get together that often anymore, I still consider him to be one my best friends. I won’t give up on him yet. I’ve dropped a few mini red pills on him to see how far he’s ready to take it and he retreated back a little because, as is obvious, he’s just not ready. I also sent him a link to redonkulas.com so as to mix in a little humor with Terrance Popp but he never replied on whether he watched anything or not.

I won’t push him right now but I won’t give up on him yet either.

#MANOUT

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

the road wrote:

I won’t push him right now but I won’t give up on him yet either.

Well, seeing your resolve here, I wanted to add something that may help with this endeavor.

When I thought about looking into the online dating scene, I saw something that really turned me off to it.

I was watching the comments section of one of these sites, forget which one, but it was for hookups, I actually saw one female type in chat that she had got her man, now off to make babies.

I had some that had left me msgs to hit them back if I was interested, and since I was not a paying member, I could not reply.

After I saw that even on a hookup site it was still about having babies, I dropped it like a hot rock.

I don’t know if it will help him, I just know it turned me off to it.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

These are the men of 2016 and beyond that we have to deal with.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[Jim01Participant 6678]

the road wrote:

Skeptisk wrote:

I don’t think he can be saved. He’s too much of a blue pill to even start going his own way.

I’m hoping not. Even though he and I don’t get together that often anymore, I still consider him to be one my best friends. I won’t give up on him yet. I’ve dropped a few mini red pills on him to see how far he’s ready to take it and he retreated back a little because, as is obvious, he’s just not ready. I also sent him a link to redonkulas.com so as to mix in a little humor with Terrance Popp but he never replied on whether he watched anything or not.

I won’t push him right now but I won’t give up on him yet either.

I used to be like that but now I don’t bother anymore.

People like him will throw you under the bus for a whiff of fanny so no matter what you do to try to help him, at the end of the day it won’t matter.

you said yourself how stupid he is getting straight back into dating….how can you help someone like that? It is like sticking food in front of an animal and asking them not to eat it – pointless

[TwistParticipant]

the road wrote:

He’s spent every night since then living in misery, drinking at least a case of beer a night (he’s a big guy who can put them down), and smoking 2 – 3 packs a day.

Not as dramatic as suck starting a 12 gauge, but probably a way more common method of suicide.

When everything that mattered to you is yanked away by the one person who was supposed to have your back, its understandable.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Skeptisk wrote:

I don’t think he can be saved. He’s too much of a blue pill to even start going his own way.

Thats my observation with some guys, no matter how many times they get skinned by a women they look again and again, programming simple as that.

[Anonymous 1]

Single mother with 2 kids after a divorce=red flag=run.

[TwistParticipant]

Buller100 wrote:

Thats my observation with some guys, no matter how many times they get skinned by a women they look again and again, programming simple as that.

Einstein, right? Doing the same thing over and over hoping for a different outcome?

Pray for him – he has to see it himself.

[Tao-SkyParticipant 129]

The women I meet on dating sites are for hookups under the umbrella of a condom. I’ve screwed up at times but always managed to pull out in time and minmize losses. I would say maybe 1 in 100,000 women is even fit for cohabitation (and I have not found her).

From a spiritual point of view women are a destructive distraction, but if the desires hit you hard like it does me at least never rely on them emotionally, spiritually or otherwise and protect yourself in these areas.

All blue pills need to go through a painful transition where they learn to dirive happiness from themselves, having gone through this I can tell you it’s quite painful and prone to relapse but eventually you can emminate happiness from inside and the universal enlightenment.

Watch Terrence Popps video series to laugh your ass off while on said journey.

[SolidusXParticipant 854]

Wow this guy is beyond help in my opinion, the warning signs were everywhere but he got pussy blind and went off the deep end. There really is nothing you can do at this point but move on bud.

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

[TaxGuyParticipant]

I just did a favor for a friend of mine this weekend. He got divorced last year and is now seeing a new chick. She is way below him and pretty weird, but for some reason he hangs out with her. I want to just punch him in the head to wake his dumb ass up, but I know it wouldn’t do any good. He is in full on White Knight mode right now. He is the best thing that’s ever happened to her. But from the outside looking in, it’s SO obvious that he is White Knighting.

I’d dropped a couple red pills on him too but it didn’t take. Straight back to the plantation….

Order the good wine

[the roadParticipant 3125]

I honesty think he’s a lost cause myself. Still, I hope not and it’s no skin off my back to continue dropping red pills in our conversations.

#MANOUT

[Anonymous 1]

the road wrote:

The part of this that really irks me is that through all of this, his first instinct was to go on a dating site and start looking for another woman…

That’s the most worrying part – willing to go from the frying pan to the fire. It doesn’t get anymore blue pill.

A friend of mine is going through chemo, but contunied to go on tinder dates. He met a single mum and things started well at first, but the c~~~y side came out. On one occasion they went shopping for a full day and when they arrived back at hers, my friend sat down and the c~~~ hit the roof, totally lost her s~~~ and hurled a a bunch of vile s~~~ at him about being lazy – he has a f~~~ing brain tumour.

Anyway he eventually ended it with her and what does he do next? ….you guessed it. Straight back on tinder. I pleaded with him not to.

[Tao-SkyParticipant 129]

Some blue pill drones are truly sad, I know a guy whose had many horrible relationships yet refuses to listen to red pill wisdom and is considering going to the next level with a girl who had his s~~~ packed up in his truck one night because of a text she misinterpreted. He’s gone to the love drug and won’t listen until a catastrophic event occurs. That’s how dangerous love addiction is I wouldn’t listen to anyone until I ended up in front of a judge for an order of protection.

Some guys are just snacks destined to be consumed by the black widows of the world.

Sad but our efforts are best spent on those guys who are savable.

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