My ex-wife still loves me!

[Smitty the Great OneParticipant 1535]

Eric Lauder wrote:

My ex-wife today, exactly two hours ago, said that she still love me, and she wish to try again!
That’s lovely, isn’t it?

Life is too long to play by someone elses rules....

[narwhalParticipant]

I’d just make a list of things that need to happen for you to concern ‘loving’ her like that again.

1 – She must be 100% debt free. Must live within her means. Must have a very solid retirement plan. If she loves you, she would not go into expect you to finance her lifestyle in anyway.

2 – She must make amends for her past transgressions. She has to figure out how to clean the slate so that you are no longer reminded of your suffering by the sight of her.

3 – She must be able to convince you that life with her is better then life without.

4 – She must prove to you that any changes she made are trustworthy, and will not change with time. And that will take time….years even. She’s at day 1.

Asking you to date her doesn’t get the ball rolling on meeting any of these requirements. I have no doubt if you tell her this, she will stop telling you still loves you.

And it’s not like these requirements are unfair by any stretch of the word.

Ok. Then do it.

[Anonymous 1]

Eric Lauder wrote:

Awakened wrote:

They ALWAYS miss what they lost, and in some cases purposely threw away!!

It doesn’t matter the reasons or the excuses, but she lost the human being that has done the most for her, and probably much more then any other human EVER will do for her sorry ass EVER again !! Reality is setting in, and NOW she wants HER life back with you front and center. Unfortunately, her little blue pill man servant has taken a red pill or two and has been awakened to the true female nature of his lil sweetie, and he has left the plantation !!!

Honey, you better open up a Match.com account, and TRY starting over !!!

I always have been aware that separation and divorce are a slaughter for men, even when I was going to marry. I just thought that it wasn’t going to happen to me. And since I haven’t been hurted so much as the average man by the divorce, that wasn’t my red pill.
I always have been aware that women are more interested about money than men, even when I was going to marry.

My red pill process has been very different:
My lawyer telling me that AT LEAST 70% stalking accusations after a separation are false, and it’s more likely to be 80%.
My country signing Istanbul Convention saying that domestic violence is just only male-on-female and discrimination against men is allowed in order to prevent it.
My lawyer telling me that alimonies for cohabitation were coming, and to never live with a woman “because we’re all whores”.
My country passing alimonies for cohabitation.

That’s why I could care less if AWALT or NAWALT: it doesn’t matter, nor even in the slighest.
ALAG: All Laws Are Gynocentric.
That’s the point.
It’s WAY WAY WAY more than the unfair divorce laws: unfair divorce laws can be explained with the importance of motherhood, the best interests of the children, etc.
Saying OFFICIALLY that male violence against women does matter and the opposite doesn’t matter, saying OFFICIALLY that a woman without children deserve alimonies after a cohabitation: those are very different things.
The rabbit hole proved, through REAL laws, to be way deeper than I thought.
And it’s all on paper, it’s law.

Then ALAG means that even an eventual true unicorn would still have all the power over me.
It doesn’t matter if she’s not going to use it because she’s a true unicorn.
She can do it.
Legally.
And laws will keep change, and every time laws will change the new version will be more gynocentric than the previous.
That’s enough for me.
I’ll never give to a woman legal rights over me nor even the chance to benefit from future legal rights over me that aren’t already law.

My italian brother, harsh truth indeed, sometimes I feel too young and wish that all that s~~~ was not true, but if I fool myself and get involved in a marriage I know that I am gonna regret it.

But I have a question, are your sons worth all that you have experienced?

[Anonymous 0]

Nobody mentioned this so far so I will:
Maybe:
She has an STD
She is pregnant
She owes way more than she is telling you
She is about to lose her job and is looking g for a free ride
Just wants to stop working and sees you as an easy mark
Has some health issues you don’t know about ie cancer
Is bi-polar. Always makes the self destructive choice
Maybe the kids are threatening to live with you.

This is not meant to hurt.
But you can never trust her now
Ask her what has changed that she now loves you but not too long ago she was divorce raping you.
This is a trap. Don’t do it.

[TriviumParticipant 1029]

This is just evidence that love is a social construct invented by women to control men.

They know nothing of love… the closest thing to it is empathy and compassion and woman are notoriously bad at both. You don’t have to claim to be better at something if you are actually better at something. Women pretend to love you when they want something from you. Men on the other hand are uniquely capable at showing compassion without expecting reciprocity.

Even when women do something compassionate it’s usually so they can feel good about themselves.

You better watch your six around her… record everything before she notices she’s not getting anywhere and brings on the abuse claims or whatever other crazy s~~~ she can come up with to con you out of your money.

"Listen to all, Follow none"

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Trivium wrote:

This is just evidence that love is a social construct invented by women to control men.

They know nothing of love… the closest thing to it is empathy and compassion and woman are notoriously bad at both. You don’t have to claim to be better at something if you are actually better at something. Women pretend to love you when they want something from you. Men on the other hand are uniquely capable at showing compassion without expecting reciprocity.

Even when women do something compassionate it’s usually so they can feel good about themselves.

You better watch your six around her… record everything before she notices she’s not getting anywhere and brings on the abuse claims or whatever other crazy s~~~ she can come up with to con you out of your money.

This is very true.
Love is a manifestation of loyalty, selflessness and compassion towards men – all of which are foreign to a woman’s psyche.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

Anonymous wrote:

My italian brother, harsh truth indeed, sometimes I feel too young and wish that all that s~~~ was not true, but if I fool myself and get involved in a marriage I know that I am gonna regret it.

But I have a question, are your sons worth all that you have experienced?

Yes.
That’s why we must support surrogacy and then the artificial womb.

Anonymous wrote:

Maybe the kids are threatening to live with you.

My son already said he’s going to live with me when he’ll be 14.
She have no way to stop him.

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[Anonymous 1]

Eric Lauder wrote:

Math wrote:

My italian brother, harsh truth indeed, sometimes I feel too young and wish that all that s~~~ was not true, but if I fool myself and get involved in a marriage I know that I am gonna regret it.

But I have a question, are your sons worth all that you have experienced?

Yes.
That’s why we must support surrogacy and then the artificial womb.

Whatever happens I plan on helping people that were left by their parents or young ones that have lost them. But having a son, blood of my blood, would be awesome in the future.

[RhettParticipant 637]

Eric Lauder wrote:

My ex-wife today, exactly two hours ago, said that she still love me, and she wish to try again!

Like a crocodile doubling back to finish its prey.

Single guys come home, look at what’s in the fridge, and go to bed. Married guys come home, look at what’s in bed, and go to the fridge.......But the best representative of MGTOW is…………… an empty chair,.

[TaoTheMgtowWandererParticipant 263]

Gargamel wrote:

My ex-wife still loves me!… ??????

“Hey xxx, don’t you think we should talk it over?”

“Isn’t there something we should think about one more time…?”

“I guess, I WANTED TOO MUCH the first time?” (Not “I miss you”)

Reverse Monkey Branching attempt failed… Beeeep…

dumb bitch did not realize that his branch is still covered in all the drama and bulls~~~ that she spewed at him before she left. Time for the c~~~ to fall flat on her resting bitch-face. too late bitch, you burned that bridge already.

My peace of mind is worth more then your vagina...cunt.

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