My Ex hit the Wall….. HARD

[BeerParticipant 11832]

The most amazing thing about the wall to me is how fast it hits women. You can take a picture of your average male every year on his birthday from 20-40 and while we obviously age during that period, its not like 1 to 2 year gap where we go from looking 20 to looking like s~~~. Women though…most of them, the attractive ones anyhow, you can very distinctly point out a 1-2 year period where they go from hot to unf~~~able. Its just like wtf…how much meth did they do this year…only its not meth, its the wall. Some of them are just unf~~~able to begin with so its just irrelevant when those ones hit the wall.

[Jack HarperParticipant 2863]

Beer wrote:

The most amazing thing about the wall to me is how fast it hits women. You can take a picture of your average male every year on his birthday from 20-40 and while we obviously age during that period, its not like 1 to 2 year gap where we go from looking 20 to looking like s~~~. Women though…most of them, the attractive ones anyhow, you can very distinctly point out a 1-2 year period where they go from hot to unf~~~able. Its just like wtf…how much meth did they do this year…only its not meth, its the wall. Some of them are just unf~~~able to begin with so its just irrelevant when those ones hit the wall.

Ain’t it the truth.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

My ex always looked younger than her age and was thin, and she was 11 years younger than me on top of that. But she is hitting the big 40 soon. Not sure how much she’s aged in 3 years but knowing her mother and sister she should be packing on the weight.

If she hasn’t officially hit the Wall, it should be creeping up on her soon.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

It needs to be said. And it’s LONG overdue. I have met men that are in their 80’s. And they look AMAZING for their age. I have met women in their 70’s and they are still f~~~able! Even cute.

But what I notice right out of the gate is that these people are HAPPY and are a Pleasure to be around! I mean even almost giddy at life. I don’t think a picture tells all the details, but it sure is easy to see these people. And it does make me wonder why so many people choose the burn out lifestyle. The short term gains are just not worth it in my opinion.

In fact, there is nothing that can be said about these people that are going to change their minds. Some people just live a better life then others. I think it is a peace that resounds with them. Like they are in tune with nature. And those that wish to go outside of their own nature seem to live a very shallow life.

I will tell you as a man today, I don’t feel old. Or Ugly. But there is never a day I don’t wish to make something better about myself or do good for others. In fact, PEOPLE seem to be almost angry that you are happy. People like just like you. For all of the things I have in my own life, and all of the bad, there is always so much good out there.

I actually walk with my head up high. I don’t have to be anyone’s servant. But I CHOOSE to do good things. And I make the world around me the one I want to live in. It may be as small as just keeping the business that I frequent clean, or help out. But it’s all in my head. How I see things is just how I see things.

I know if you really do happen to have a greater calling in life, it shows on the outside of your body. And all this time, men are told that they are the ugly ones. How strange? Only an UGLY person on the inside and out would say such things.

The wall for women is quite real. But in fact, all those adverts we see of Men and Women deep into their retirement years shows a life of happiness. Something few men and even Fewer women enjoy. The part that should amaze you is that when women are in that place where others would kill to have that life, she only is happy when others feel suffering.

It’s your soul I think. And I think it shines bright on the outside. If your’s is worrying about the detriment of others? It will show. Of course, a healthy bit of You deserve it sure is not a bad thing. But it’s not a good idea to gloat about it.

I have seen the people I knew just turn into ugly ducklings. Why? It is the life they live. And it does make you wonder. Why do people do that to themselves? But in fact, they are who they are. Almost like they were born to be miserable. Almost like Fate.

Gravel pit talks about this Manifest destiny thing. Or that your path is predetermined. In a small way it may be true. In fact, you can look to numbers and math to be able to predict these things. The unsettling part of all of this is that no one wants to see that. Or believe that he or she has no choice in what he or she does. It makes you feel like what is it all for really if you do not really call the shots. But in fact, you may have already called them. You are just living this life as you may be determined previously in some other life, or form of life/Sprint/entity.

I think once you come to terms with that, you understand why there are some people who show their youth late in their years on earth. I know this Indian guy who is in his 90’s and still does construction and contract work. He looks not a day over 50. More like 40 with how some men age today. Clean him up, and he would be an easy 40. But that’s just what doing a hard days work brings you. And taking care of your body and what you put into it.

It’s one of the reasons why I like to tackle problems on my own. And WHY there is such a good feeling after doing so much strenuous work. It’s really sad for women. All they have to do is be sex kittens, and take care of their families and themselves, and they can live a great youthful life. But instead, they choose the Drama lifestyle. TO be wicked and cruel to others. That’s no life.

Call it what you will, but your life and how you live it does show up on your face. In fact, many women who had kids all the way up their 40’s seem to be doing damn well in the looks department. They never gave up working out (chasing kids) or just spending time doing wonderful things in life (giving their man a great massage) , or being happy and content with their life they have.

You see this with Gay couples. They sure don’t act or look old as they get older. Not like their Slave counterparts. In fact, it seems that most men mistakenly seek a better fuller life doing things that destroy their youth and vitality. All with the notion of Duty or self respect. While never questioning WHY?

There is a big difference in living for life, or living for the reason of filling up your time and counting down your days.

TFM just released a video that spoke about Emotional happiness. He coins it the Hedonic Treadmill. And I think more men get in this trap due to the way our world works. Once you seem to reach your goals, you just kind of give up on life. And then it shows and manifests itself physically through age of your body.

I would keep the Wonder in your life. I’m just saying women? They are nothing to wonder about.

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[WPLParticipant 2390]

My ex aged gracefully during the 12+ years we were together. When she left to go live with “Chad” at 39, she could have passed for late 20s. The 3-ish years since have not been kind to her. Last time I saw her, she seemed really stressed and sad, and I’m sure that’s a big factor. For a while after, I felt bad for her. I had to remind myself that I’d been willing to put up with almost anything (EXCEPT her fuc*king other men) to make the marriage work — and she was the one who checked out (to go fuc*k another man). And, if her “new life” didn’t turn to be so idyllic as she’d imagined, well… that’s on her.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Beer, women, paint & sheetrock are remarkably similar. Even after going on flat, you pick it up.

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[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Sometimes its the little things in life. I am feeling so good now, drinking some hot tea, and I took one of those really hard massive s~~~s a few minutes ago, one of those that is almost like a spiritual experience.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

I feel ya Ranger. I think Randy Marsh would agree. When you slide one out perfect and walk away a few pounds lighter, you’re closer to God for sure.

[Branched offParticipant 10935]

Ranger One wrote:

Sometimes its the little things in life. I am feeling so good now, drinking some hot tea, and I took one of those really hard massive s~~~s a few minutes ago, one of those that is almost like a spiritual experience.

Yeah the ancient greek philosophers coined the phrase catharsis to illustrate how purging the emotions through watching tragedy leaves you feeling cleansed like taking a big dump. In a way that ties back to seeing your ex hit the wall. Its her tragedy but it leaves you feeling like thanks to the messy break up you just shat something worth s~~~ting out of your life and now you have a load off your mind.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3767]

Great long post, iMickey.

I remember reading a study/survey/whatever asking people in their 70’s if they could go back to being 20 years old, what would they do differently.

The most common answer was: “I’d work a lot less”. So yeah, too common are the people who work like crazy until they’re 65, old, tired and worn out only to die a year later…

Enjoy life now, you crazy fuc.kers !

If I were to die soon, I’d be fine with it. I’ve done awesome things in this life and will do even more if the universe allows me.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Mgtow men simply just don’t have the same worries that other men do or will in the future. 🙂

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[BeerParticipant 11832]

iMickey503 wrote:

And it does make me wonder why so many people choose the burn out lifestyle. The short term gains are just not worth it in my opinion.

Definitely…I plan on living at least until 80. Why would I want to peak in my 20s? Sure I want to enjoy things in life as I age, but at the same time I’d like 20 year old me to be setting up 30 year old me to enjoy life, and 30 year old me to be setting up 40 year old me to enjoy life. I want to keep exercising, doing what I can to keep myself healthy, and setting myself up for financial security, where as so many of my fellow millennials, and I’m sure older generations weren’t much different, just want to have fun right now and don’t consider the consequences 5, 10, or 20 years down the road.

I hope the first day I get the feeling my best days are behind me is not until I’m an old fart that gets diagnosed with some terminal illness or locked up in a nursing home.

SpiderHerder wrote:

I remember reading a study/survey/whatever asking people in their 70’s if they could go back to being 20 years old, what would they do differently.

The most common answer was: “I’d work a lot less”. So yeah, too common are the people who work like crazy until they’re 65, old, tired and worn out only to die a year later…

Its a double edged sword. I’ve also heard a big regret a lot of older people have is not starting to invest earlier in life to better benefit from compounding returns. You can’t really do that without working hard and passing up on some fun and toys early in life. I don’t want to be the 70 year old who ends up regretting having done nothing but working my entire life…but I also don’t want to be the 70 year old who has to work until I drop dead or end up in a nursing home because I never saved anything.

I know a lot of people who work lots of overtime now to buy big houses, cars, boats, motorcycles, etc…and in the end its just more money they have to spend on taxes, maintenance, and insurance…so they work a lot to have nice things they rarely get to enjoy because they work a lot. If I work any overtime at work, its right straight to the early retirement fund. I’m ok throwing a day away picking up an extra shift right now if it means I shave a week off my retirement date on the far end. I’m not ok working overtime if I have to do it just to keep afloat…that means I’m doing something very wrong financially and living beyond my means.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22534]

Beer wrote:

iMickey503 wrote:

And it does make me wonder why so many people choose the burn out lifestyle. The short term gains are just not worth it in my opinion.

Definitely…I plan on living at least until 80. Why would I want to peak in my 20s? Sure I want to enjoy things in life as I age, but at the same time I’d like 20 year old me to be setting up 30 year old me to enjoy life, and 30 year old me to be setting up 40 year old me to enjoy life. I want to keep exercising, doing what I can to keep myself healthy, and setting myself up for financial security, where as so many of my fellow millennials, and I’m sure older generations weren’t much different, just want to have fun right now and don’t consider the consequences 5, 10, or 20 years down the road.
I hope the first day I get the feeling my best days are behind me is not until I’m an old fart that gets diagnosed with some terminal illness or locked up in a nursing home.

SpiderHerder wrote:

I remember reading a study/survey/whatever asking people in their 70’s if they could go back to being 20 years old, what would they do differently.
The most common answer was: “I’d work a lot less”. So yeah, too common are the people who work like crazy until they’re 65, old, tired and worn out only to die a year later…

Its a double edged sword. I’ve also heard a big regret a lot of older people have is not starting to invest earlier in life to better benefit from compounding returns. You can’t really do that without working hard and passing up on some fun and toys early in life. I don’t want to be the 70 year old who ends up regretting having done nothing but working my entire life…but I also don’t want to be the 70 year old who has to work until I drop dead or end up in a nursing home because I never saved anything.
I know a lot of people who work lots of overtime now to buy big houses, cars, boats, motorcycles, etc…and in the end its just more money they have to spend on taxes, maintenance, and insurance…so they work a lot to have nice things they rarely get to enjoy because they work a lot. If I work any overtime at work, its right straight to the early retirement fund. I’m ok throwing a day away picking up an extra shift right now if it means I shave a week off my retirement date on the far end. I’m not ok working overtime if I have to do it just to keep afloat…that means I’m doing something very wrong financially and living beyond my means.

I know people working so hard and stressing themselves out in their early 50s they’ve shot their kidneys, or are so stressed out they are giving themselves migraines and have thought about suicide because of the pressure. But because they have money coming in they are deemed by women to be “successful”. They are burning out and are going to die early and never enjoy what they worked for, but the women only care because their wallet is going to be dead and it’s poor me for a few weeks until they start looking for the next wallet.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22534]

iMickey503 wrote:

Mgtow men simply just don’t have the same worries that other men do or will in the future. 🙂

And by you saying that, it doesn’t mean they don’t have worries, or even some serious ones. it’s just all the worries that come along with women, nope. And that’s quite a bit.

Plus all the fricking relationship bs baggage is and emotional tampon bulls~~~ is gone too./

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[the roadParticipant 3125]

My most recent ex was slowly hitting the wall. She started developing acne in her 30s and it continued to get worse as time went on. She also started gaining weight. She’s doomed since she’s half mexican and based on how her hog beast mother looks. She tried to keep her weight down but it made her look skinny-flabby.

I would have stayed with her even though her looks were fading but she had some serious bipolar s~~~ going on. Later on I found out that she was on Zoloft for her “anxiety” and she had been hiding that fact from me for years. I found out because she accidentally admitted it to me on a day that she flipped out for no reason. We didn’t live together so I could never check her medicine cabinet but at the same time I’m glad that we never moved in together.

So not only did she hit the wall in the looks department, she hit the wall in regard to her mental stability. The last time I saw her was from something I saw online. She was with some dude and I felt bad for him because I know how unhinged and uncaring she is. She lasts about 1-2 years before her relationships fall apart from her craziness. She was the poster child for AWALT. She displayed all the stereotypical bad traits of women and then some.

#MANOUT

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22534]

the road wrote:

My most recent ex was slowly hitting the wall. She started developing acne in her 30s and it continued to get worse as time went on. She also started gaining weight. She’s doomed since she’s half mexican and based on how her hog beast mother looks. She tried to keep her weight down but it made her look skinny-flabby.
I would have stayed with her even though her looks were fading but she had some serious bipolar s~~~ going on. Later on I found out that she was on Zoloft for her “anxiety” and she had been hiding that fact from me for years. I found out because she accidentally admitted it to me on a day that she flipped out for no reason. We didn’t live together so I could never check her medicine cabinet but at the same time I’m glad that we never moved in together.
So not only did she hit the wall in the looks department, she hit the wall in regard to her mental stability. The last time I saw her was from something I saw online. She was with some dude and I felt bad for him because I know how unhinged and uncaring she is. She lasts about 1-2 years before her relationships fall apart from her craziness. She was the poster child for AWALT. She displayed all the stereotypical bad traits of women and then some.

If theres one common theme its that all women hide serious s~~~ from guys. Because they know they are dealbreakers. If they were a corporation they could be sued for lying to shareholders, lying to customers, covering up known problems, misleading, misrepresentation,…

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

If they were a corporation

The Bunny Ranch would be a Gay themed chuck e Cheese that only served dollar tree fruit cake.

Who’s NEXT? 🙂

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[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

Branched off wrote:

When you see an ex who has hit the wall you feel great relief that you cashed out when you did. Its not usually like you won anything but you sure cut your losses.

Yup, it’ like selling a car and then seeing it 6 months later on the side of the road broken down…. or dumping a stock and then it tanking.

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

Ranger One wrote:

it should be creeping up on her soon.

Yeah… it creeps up on them like a lightening left hook to the jaw.

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

@iMicky503

Wise words for sure. I don’t obsess about my ex’s predicament. I’m too busy living and looking forward and every year that passes makes me want “things” less and to “do” more things that enrich me or someone else who needs it but doesn’t feel entitled to it.

My Ex is always concerned about her looks or how she appears to others. She gets validation from others and that must be a miserable life to lead.

A cornerstone of MGTOW is living for the betterment of oneself and those around him, but not at the cost of serving a self centered vajajay.

You touched on something really important. When you take care of yourself for physically and spiritually the right reasons, your appearance or aura reflect that self care. It is just a side-effect of doing what is right for yourself.

Sorry to wax philosophic! I swear I’m not smoking anything.

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