My Cousin Just Got Engaged

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22514]

Remove me! wrote:

He’s been married before, but no kids. He has a good job, and I am seeing A LOT of red flags only a red pilled guy can pick up on.

I told a couple of close family members I’m gonna have a talk with him, they know exactly my views on marriage. They said they wish I wouldn’t.

I’m not sure if I should. I’ve known my cousin my whole life. I’m about 100% sure he will not listen to me plus he already knows my views on marriage. So I’d probably just be repeating myself to him.

Just wondering, should I just let this one go? I’ve already had red pilled talks with him, but he’s gonna do it anyway.

If he already knows your views and he did this anyway, don’t bother, it won’t change anything. You can always pray he wakes up and/or comes to you for advice.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

Three cousins’ weddings over the years. In total cost me about a thousand dollars .. and all ended up badly. Was expensive learning experience.
What did I learn .. my thousand dollar contribution went to some female run tuxedo outfits, motels and restaurants that smiled all the way to the bank. I also burned up quite a bit of gas driving to these outdoor wedding soap operas.
Never, again, ever. Ever!

[AutoliteParticipant]

Remove me! wrote:

Just wondering, should I just let this one go? I’ve already had red pilled talks with him, but he’s gonna do it anyway.

Yes,you should let it go. You’ve already done the ‘due diligence’ thing so pushing it any further might just create animosity.

After one marriage he should have figured it out for himself anyway. Be aware that he may never figure it out no matter what you say.

I know a guy, who after being financially eviscerated in a divorce from his forth wife, just got married again to his fifth. Some guys are just too far beyond hope to even worry about anymore…

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[GoodKid44Participant 1524]

Why are you telling other family members about this? Have a talk with him and keep it between the two of you. Unless your other family members are also mgtow you’re only coming off as the guy who’s trying to cause drama and hate on the status quo.

What good thing could come from telling these other family members about this, besides p~~~ing them off?

It’s bad enough your cousin will probably ignore your warnings but to get other family members involved?

And yes, if your cousin is red pill then I’m a feminist. He’s as blue pill as they come bro. You need to stop lying to yourself and come to terms that he was never going to be saved.

Find another drinking buddy because to your cousin pussy still rules everything around him

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Remove me! wrote:

He’s been married before,

Remove me! wrote:

So I’d probably just be repeating myself to him.

If being married (and divorced) once already didn’t teach him his lesson, talking to you certainly won’t.

Some men insist on learning the hard way. Some men never do learn.

The only thing to do at this point is to find out the time limit for a long term marriage where he is.

For the betting pool.

Oh, and make damn certain to tell him: “I told you so,” when this one drags his ass into divorce court too.

[AutoliteParticipant]

The internet has been around for like what, over thirty years now? Any Western male older than 12 should already know that marriage is a horrible and foolish mistake. Having to actually explain this today to a guy is like having to tell them that sticking their face into a deep-fat fryer is not a good idea.

Speak your mind if you must be just remember that “you can’t fix stupid”…

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Autolite wrote:

jd anderson wrote:

Just wondering, should I just let this one go? I’ve already had red pilled talks with him, but he’s gonna do it anyway.

Yes,you should let it go. You’ve already done the ‘due diligence’ thing so pushing it any further might just create animosity.

After one marriage he should have figured it out for himself anyway. Be aware that he may never figure it out no matter what you say.

I know a guy, who after being financially eviscerated in a divorce from his forth wife, just got married again to his fifth. Some guys are just too far beyond hope to even worry about anymore…

5th wife?

Proof of (severe) mental illness.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[MonkParticipant 16988]

Remove me! wrote:

Just wondering, should I just let this one go? I’ve already had red pilled talks with him, but he’s gonna do it anyway.

He’s on a suicide mission to nowheresville.

Say nothing. Just sit back and watch him burn.

[Deadly RaverParticipant]

Some people aren’t going to listen to warning signs until after they’ve faced the danger. I hope he’ll be the lucky one that escapes the worst of it, but we’ll be here when and if he doesn’t.

Learn from the past, Control the present, and you will know the Future.

[OldschoolParticipant 2481]

Jd, you said what you need to. Let it go.

Get a vasectomy.

[surfdude12Participant 4103]

Remove me! wrote:

He’s been married before, but no kids. He has a good job, and I am seeing A LOT of red flags only a red pilled guy can pick up on.

I told a couple of close family members I’m gonna have a talk with him, they know exactly my views on marriage. They said they wish I wouldn’t.

I’m not sure if I should. I’ve known my cousin my whole life. I’m about 100% sure he will not listen to me plus he already knows my views on marriage. So I’d probably just be repeating myself to him.

Just wondering, should I just let this one go? I’ve already had red pilled talks with him, but he’s gonna do it anyway.

A man once walked into a bar and saw a guy who had a banana in his ear.

He thought “I wonder if I should tell this guy he has a banana in his ear?” Then he thought “None of my business”

But after he had a couple of drinks, he said to the guy “Excuse me sir, but you have a banana in your ear”

The guy replied: “What?”

“You have a banana in your ear”

The guy said back “Speak up, I can’t hear you!”

And the dude yelled “YOU HAVE A BANANA IN YOUR EAR!!!”

And the main said back “TALK LOUDER!! I HAVE A BANANA IN MY EAR!!!”

(that story perfectly explains how some people can’t be helped. Not only will they not listen to you telling them they have a problem, many of them KNOW they have a problem, but still reject advice)

[AutoliteParticipant]

Deadly Raver wrote:

Some people aren’t going to listen to warning signs until after they’ve faced the danger.

Some people will never admit that they were wrong even when they know (and it’s quite obvious) that they were wrong. That’s why JD just needs to ‘let-it-go’. His cousin might even already know that MGTOWs are right but he will get married again rather than admit being wrong.

It’s an ego thing and I’ve seen this before. People will often get very p~~~ed at you just for being right even when they know that they’re wrong. It’s just a f~~~ed-up aspect of human nature…

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