My Cousin Just Got Engaged

[Remove me!Participant]

He’s been married before, but no kids. He has a good job, and I am seeing A LOT of red flags only a red pilled guy can pick up on.

I told a couple of close family members I’m gonna have a talk with him, they know exactly my views on marriage. They said they wish I wouldn’t.

I’m not sure if I should. I’ve known my cousin my whole life. I’m about 100% sure he will not listen to me plus he already knows my views on marriage. So I’d probably just be repeating myself to him.

Just wondering, should I just let this one go? I’ve already had red pilled talks with him, but he’s gonna do it anyway.

Like a bird on the wire, like a drunk midnight choir, I have tried in my way to be free.

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

You have said your piece. You can lead a horse to water but you cannot make it drink. Just prepare a room for him – sooner or later he will need it.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[Anonymous 54]

Ive got Nephews getting married.

They dont invite me.I only hear about it afterward.haha.

They will be the 3rd Generation of alimony payers….

Ive never had one once of luck red pillin guys.

I wouldnt even try with my Family.

Theyll remember .

[TheSpiceParticipant 2644]

Some of us have to go through the flames before we learn. I did… multiple times.

The problem is the myth of NAWALT. He’s sure this cupcake is special.

If you could show him AWALT, maybe he’ll wake up. That’s what woke me up.

Whatever you decide, good luck. It sucks to watch friends or family get screwed over when you know they could avoid it if they just believed you.

"I've been thinking about what it would be like if we got back together."
"You know it's too late for that."

[Anonymous 42]

If you go to the wedding and don’t object you’ll be a hypocrite.

I would go about my own business, I also have family that’s angry at my unwillingness to be enslaved, they’re actually offended at my views that a man doesn’t owe women Jack S~~~!

They’re actually brainwashed that it’s my duty to provide for a woman and give up half my s~~~!

F~~~ that circus, not my clowns!

Not one of them will say a single f~~~ing word about women serving men! They’re brainwashed by gynocentrism and shamed by feminism to consider anything about a man.

I love my life, why would I want to throw it away on someone else that has no consideration for me other than automatic cash and prize mule for life?

[It’sallbsParticipant]

They won’t listen Jd and you’ll just get a load of s~~~ and aggrevation from the family that you don’t need.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[TwistParticipant]

Is there going to be an open bar?

[Anonymous 54]

Anonymous wrote:

If you go to the wedding and don’t object you’ll be a hypocrite.

Can you imagine actually standing up and objecting!
Lay a bunch of red pill logic on the Congragation! Hahah

We should crash weddings and do that!

[JB BooksParticipant 3182]

As your cousin’s already been to the rodeo once before,he ought to know better. Don’t say anything more because he’s not going to listen. If you feel like it, go to the reception, have a good time and leave when you want.

We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham

[Anonymous 42]

Anonymous wrote:

Can you imagine actually standing up and objecting!

Not only can, but will!

I’m never stepping into another voting booth and I’m never setting foot in another wedding, both lead to slaughter!

[UntamedParticipant]

Remove me! wrote:

Just wondering, should I just let this one go? I’ve already had red pilled talks with him, but he’s gonna do it anyway.

He’s a bluepiller. He won’t listen to you and will more than likely get mad at you for telling him the truth.
If you’re gonna get s~~~ for trying to help, what’s the point?

Twist wrote:

Is there going to be an open bar?

Exactly.
Go have a good time and maybe you’ll meet a hoe there that you can pump’n’dump, at least your day would not have been in vain.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[WallyParticipant]

If he knows your views, respects you, and you remain silent that may say more than repeating yourself. If he has any awareness he will be asking himself why you didn’t say anything, a little doubt in the back of his mind.

Go have fun either way, free food and drink.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[DocParticipant]

Remove me! wrote:

He’s been married before, but no kids. He has a good job, and I am seeing A LOT of red flags only a red pilled guy can pick up on.

I told a couple of close family members I’m gonna have a talk with him, they know exactly my views on marriage. They said they wish I wouldn’t.

I’m not sure if I should. I’ve known my cousin my whole life. I’m about 100% sure he will not listen to me plus he already knows my views on marriage. So I’d probably just be repeating myself to him.

Just wondering, should I just let this one go? I’ve already had red pilled talks with him, but he’s gonna do it anyway.

It’s a tricky one that JD.
On the one hand your Red Pill talks have fallen on deaf ears.
On the other I don’t think it hurts to speak frankly to him.

I went to see my cousin last evening. The one we discussed. Despite the situation he is still prepared to have another woman at some point. He’s had the worst realisation possible about the nature of a woman and lost everything yet he still says he craves the company of a woman.
Crazy.

I certainly ain’t done talking to him. Many things to discuss.
So to draw a parallel – I think if I were you I would be telling my cousin straight – do not marry.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

Just speaking for myself, I wouldn’t press too hard. As much as we’d like to help other men when we see them heading for trouble, we all have to make our own mistakes in life.

Sometimes information can be transmitted at a faster rate then it can be received. When that happens then there is no real communication………no matter how good the information being sent.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[743 roadmasterParticipant]

Some have to learn the lesson with a brutal hit. Can not change it by warning up front.

mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

[Prophet MicahParticipant 1972]

“Leave marriage to the retards of civilization.” – unknown

Sorry, there’s really nothing you can do about it. Go ahead and have a heart-to-heart with him but don’t plan on him listening or even thinking about your words later. I do recommend you try to talk to him but only for your peace of mind that you tried. In the end, these purple/blue-pilled simps must die in order to be reborn MGTOW.

(just my thoughts on the matter)

Good luck.

No Wife - No Strife

[AwakenedParticipant 35204]

I can’t add ANYTHING to this thread just like you can’t tell your cousin ANYTHING that you haven’t already told him.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 18]

Remove me! wrote:

He’s been married before

he he

Can I go in your place?

[Anonymous 43]

If you talk the cousin out of getting married, how are you gonna bang a bridesmaid in the coat closet at the hall?

Seriously dude, cousin is long gone…he wants the woman, and she wants the wedding. You already took a run at him, and he shook it off. I have the same problem with my brother. He is hell bent on running off to his internet landwhale girlfriend and the landwhale’s landwhale useless daughter.

[AwakenedParticipant 35204]

Anonymous wrote:

He is hell bent on running off to his internet landwhale girlfriend and the landwhale’s landwhale useless daughter.

Don’t you just shake your f~~~ing head ??? These Men find these f~~~in Train Wrecks and put on their captain save a Ho capes and charge right into Self- Destruction !!

It’s really hard to Understand Men that have already been married at least once that just keep jumpin right back into one disaster after another ???

Just what’s going through their Mind, “Well, this fire that I’m jumpin into this time won’t be as HOT as the last one ???”

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

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