My best friend died this morning

[Russky2Participant 3100]

Anonymous wrote:

Perfectly acceptable for you to cry my friend. Go into your room and close the door. Let it all out. Yell, scream, complain, holler cuss words, and listen to whatever music that you think will help you process this. I declare your buddy an Honorary Texan, how about that!!!!

I second that brother.

MGTOW AKBAR

[SESQUI ano estParticipant 2535]

My condolences to you DYD. I’ll have a drink for Edd tonight and more importantly for you. Salut! Remember the best of your friend and tomorrow will be a better day. You are allowed to feel as poorly as you need too. Cry for him and be proud of it. Our thoughts are with you.

Everyday above ground is a good one. Everyday above ground while single...better still.

[AsceticmonkParticipant 857]

grieves silently.
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may God’s friendship help you through this time.
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[PuniShredderParticipant 2268]

F~~~ Bro…So sorry. I’m riddled with worry about my bud as well as he’s a good 300lbs and 45. This sucks…grieve. I’m about the manliest dude I know but when I’m sad the tears f~~~ingflow…I do every emotion to the extreme and there’s no shame.

Be professional be polite but always have a plan to kill everyone you meet.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

Thanks so much guys, really.

Shed a few more tears today. Edd’s brother asked for voice recordings i have of him from wattsapp, so i sent a few. Hopefully he will find it comforting hearing his brothers voice.

I’ve realised more so what an impact this guy had on me. One of the 1st people i spoke to when I got to the UK 3 months ago was Edd. We must have chatted for at least 2 hours over the phone.

An exceptional loss, and im sure his funeral is going to be even harder. A few people have asked if i want to speak at his funeral and ive said sure i will if his family want me to. But im gunna have to try and compose myself there for sure and not crease up because i want to tell his family, especially his parents, about the funny stuff we did. I want it to be uplifting and humorous, as I know Edd would be gobsmacked if he were there looking at all the people at his funeral, and he would prob crack a loud fart to break the sad atmosphere.

Weird thing is ive never met any of his family, but that doesnt matter.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

Saw this news article today about my friend:

http://www.plymouthherald.co.uk/parents-pay-tribute-to-popular-plymouth-music-lover-edward-haddon/story-30429040-detail/story.html

He died from a Pulmonary embolism. How the media know this before me ive no idea but it p~~~es me off.

He complained of a lung infection recently. Was shocked to hear him say that and i told him i hope he was ok and to go to the doctors but i think he already had.

[1MGTOWSpectator 301]

I’m really sorry my friend. Your friend died, but he will always live in the memories of people who loved him. It’s terrible news when a young person passes away. At least, as you say, he died in his sleep, which means he didn’t suffer. That would be worse.

Now as for why the good people die instead of the bad ones, I have the same question myself.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

1MGTOW wrote:

I’m really sorry my friend. Your friend died, but he will always live in the memories of people who loved him. It’s terrible news when a young person passes away. At least, as you say, he died in his sleep, which means he didn’t suffer. That would be worse.

Now as for why the good people die instead of the bad ones, I have the same question myself.

Thanks man. The silly bugger in prob in heaven head banging to metal and banging hot babes haha. Its what he always wanted.

[1MGTOWSpectator 301]

When my grandfather died, I did cried a lot but tried not to fully show it, because I thought that “men shouldn’t express their feelings or else they’re weak”. Silly thought it was. I let myself cry a lot when I was in my bedroom alone in the end of that day. Don’t feel bad about crying, it’s only human. You lost a friend.

Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

I’m so f~~~ing angry at god/life taking him away. I’m atheist but i think Edd was agnostic. Edd had his whole life ahead of him life so many others who are taken before their time. Cant even imagine what it was like for his brother finding him passed away in his bed in the morning.

God bless all here who have lost someone close to them.

You know I’m not a specialist in religion and I’m not a spiritual father to answer that, I’m just a dude, but allow me to tell you this my friend, if it will help you. We shouldn’t be angry with God, he’s not that harsh. You say your friend had a chest infection, no one knows if this infection could be worsen, and thus maybe had terrible moments with pain and suffering from it. Or maybe in the near future he would had an accident and had some very hard times. But he passed away peacefully in his sleep, he might not even felt any pain, who knows. Maybe God prevented him from suffering.

You might think all that stuff are silly and kind of strange. I apologize if it looks like that and if that insults you in any way. Though what I mean with all these is that sometimes we should see the glass half full (if we can in situations like that) and not half empty. It’s nice to know that after our life on earth, nothing is over but instead there’s a new beginning.

Thanks man. The silly bugger in prob in heaven head banging to metal and banging hot babes haha. Its what he always wanted.

I hope he does! 🙂

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

1MGTOW wrote:

You know I’m not a specialist in religion and I’m not a spiritual father to answer that, I’m just a dude, but allow me to tell you this my friend, if it will help you. We shouldn’t be angry with God, he’s not that harsh. You say your friend had a chest infection, no one knows if this infection could be worsen, and thus maybe had terrible moments with pain and suffering from it. Or maybe in the near future he would had an accident and had some very hard times. But he passed away peacefully in his sleep, he might not even felt any pain, who knows. Maybe God prevented him from suffering.

You might think all that stuff are silly and kind of strange. I apologize if it looks like that and if that insults you in any way. Though what I mean with all these is that sometimes we should see the glass half full (if we can in situations like that) and not half empty. It’s nice to know that after our life on earth, nothing is over but instead there’s a new beginning.

I get what you’re saying man.

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