My best friend died this morning

[Anonymous 6]

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

He was really special. Unique.

I know exactly what you are talking about. I have ONE friend who is a MGTOW. We both view this world on the exact same page. It is RARE to have a friend on this level, especially in this psycho-social world we live in. Nothing is better than having someone to talk to, who truly understands you on a deeper level and someone who’s agenda goes above and beyond money, power and fame.

You do not need to feel shame/embarrassment, real men are more sensitive than women, but we find a way to move forwards like men. The best poets in history were men. There is a Japanese saying which describes after a rainfall, the earth hardens. We men build strength through adversity.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[black_knightParticipant 2602]

I feel for you mate. Ten years ago an old schoolfriend of mine was killed instantly on a building site – he was only 28. Though at the time he wasn’t a regular mate, as we’d drifted apart, I remembered the times we knocked about together in our teens, riding our bikes and talking about our ambitions, and the girls we’d shagged on the golf course, lol. I wept as his coffin went in the ground, and there’s no shame in that. A few of us old school mates were there, and we all wept, as did one of their dads.

I don’t know what else to say as I’ve never experienced the death of somebody really close. Although the idea of making the film and dedicating it to Edd sounds really touching. Just make sure your acting is a bit more convincing than the shell garage fall though!

All the best mate.

[Chase PesosParticipant 2136]

Our condolences bro, live like he would want you to.

Chase a check, never chase a chick...

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

First time ive cried like a little girl in a long time.

Uncontrollable tears and utter disbelief. Only last night we were planning a future of movie making together. 10 years ive known this bubbly full of life man. Hours spent talking about life, women, he was like the brother i never had. I’ll never meet anyone like Edd again, ever.

He had just gotten back from Spain and i was annoyed i hadn’t heard from him in a while and he said he was ill from a chest infection. Only last night we bid each other a goodnight and he died in the early hours of this morning in his sleep. My guess is a heart attack as hes a big boy but his family have been in too much shock to give the reason why. Maybe they dont know either.

Why the f~~~ do all the good people die young and the SCUM live long prosperous lives?

God bless you Edd, I love you man.

DYD,
My sincere condolences to you on the loss of your best friend. I can remember how such grief feels as I have had that happen to me as well.
There are 2 times a man should be allowed to cry. Extreme grief, & extreme happiness. I cry at funerals and sometimes at weddings when those close to me bet married. (poor guy!BUT, I am happy for him/them)
In those 2 situations, no one thinks you are a sissy b/c you cry. An outpouring of grief/happiness are good on the appropriate occasions.
Time heals Bro,But the memories never fade!

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[joetechParticipant]

My sincerest condolences. Only the good die young.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[guiParticipant 825]

My condolences brothers. Stay strong and know that we are with you. Yes, only the best die early. I always had that theory that scum gets to live more in order to drag more people in their paths but anyway we must keep fighting.

Pity and contempt are siblings. You only feel pity for those you consider weak.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

Thanks so much guys.

Went round my uncles earlier to get away from this house and i tried my best to stay composed but when my auntie gave me a hug, it all flew out, muffled sobbing, into her shoulder. God damn. I haven’t cried like that ever I don’t think.

I can’t shake this dark feeling I’ve felt all day since hearing the news. I hope tomoro is a better day.

The fact his death was so sudden makes it all the more upsetting.

[black_knightParticipant 2602]

Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

Thanks so much guys.

Went round my uncles earlier to get away from this house and i tried my best to stay composed but when my auntie gave me a hug, it all flew out, muffled sobbing, into her shoulder. God damn. I haven’t cried like that ever I don’t think.

I can’t shake this dark feeling I’ve felt all day since hearing the news. I hope tomoro is a better day.

The fact his death was so sudden makes it all the more upsetting.

Don’t worry about crying man, your best mate died literally within the last 24 hours. It shows you’re very human. This will go on for a while, you’re in shock. Cry it all out, and stop worrying about being composed. Give yourself at least a few days, perhaps even a week to process the shock and let it sink in.

Bro-hug coming through your screen.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

black_knight wrote:

Don’t worry about crying man, your best mate died literally within the last 24 hours. It shows you’re very human. This will go on for a while, you’re in shock. Cry it all out, and stop worrying about being composed. Give yourself at least a few days, perhaps even a week to process the shock and let it sink in.

Bro-hug coming through your screen.

Cheers man. I have a bad tendency to dwell on negative things an im sure i will be thinking about Edd’s passing for a long time to come.

Damn you Eddie come back!

[Russky2Participant 3086]

DYD, sorry to hear about your friend. Good friends are always hard to find and keep close. Unfortunately life is the biggest c~~~ of them all…there is no reason why good people die like this. Maybe life is throwing a s~~~ test at us just to see how we will react. We are here for you though! Keep that in mind.

MGTOW AKBAR

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

Russky2 wrote:

DYD, sorry to hear about your friend. Good friends are always hard to find and keep close. Unfortunately life is the biggest c~~~ of them all…there is no reason why good people die like this. Maybe life is throwing a s~~~ test at us just to see how we will react. We are here for you though! Keep that in mind.

Thanks Russky. Yeh life is so f~~~ing unfair.

[black_knightParticipant 2602]

Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

black_knight wrote:

Don’t worry about crying man, your best mate died literally within the last 24 hours. It shows you’re very human. This will go on for a while, you’re in shock. Cry it all out, and stop worrying about being composed. Give yourself at least a few days, perhaps even a week to process the shock and let it sink in.

Bro-hug coming through your screen.

Cheers man. I have a bad tendency to dwell on negative things an im sure i will be thinking about Edd’s passing for a long time to come.

Damn you Eddie come back!

There’s nothing negative about crying. Especially not in the immediate shock of something so tragic and unexpected. Go easy on yourself mate. If you feel really strongly about keeping composure in front of others, then at least come here and cry as you type your posts. You’ve got to let your grief out, otherwise you’ll always repress it, and that’s not good. So do it here.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

black_knight wrote:

There’s nothing negative about crying. Especially not in the immediate shock of something so tragic and unexpected. Go easy on yourself mate. If you feel really strongly about keeping composure in front of others, then at least come here and cry as you type your posts. You’ve got to let your grief out, otherwise you’ll always repress it, and that’s not good. So do it here.

Thanks man.

[Anonymous 11]

I’m very sorry DYD 🙁

He was too young. It’s not unmanly to cry over death. That’s straight from the mouth of ChauvinistPig who was raised under the heavy influence of John Wayne.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

Anonymous wrote:

I’m very sorry DYD

He was too young. It’s not unmanly to cry over death. That’s straight from the mouth of ChauvinistPig who was raised under the heavy influence of John Wayne.

Thanks C-pig. I will miss my friend for a long time.

[Deadly RaverParticipant]

I’m sorry for your loss man.

Learn from the past, Control the present, and you will know the Future.

[JVBParticipant]

I’m sorry for your pain and loss brother. You need to carry on. That’s what Edd would of wanted.

Peace is > piece.

[Anonymous 1]

That’s horrible news, DYD. I’ve lost a few friends to suicide over the years. Grief has to run its course. Its not unmanly to cry, I learned that from War Veterans. It shows that you care and honors his memory.

[Anonymous 6]

Perfectly acceptable for you to cry my friend. Go into your room and close the door. Let it all out. Yell, scream, complain, holler cuss words, and listen to whatever music that you think will help you process this. I declare your buddy an Honorary Texan, how about that!!!!

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