My 15 year old daughter and her Chad

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

I know my kids well, as I’m sure you know your daughter, so I’ll tell you what I do when I see they are about to make an unavoidable mistake.
I know there is nothing I can say or do to stop them except forbidding them to do it, so, since I don’t want to be the bad guy, I explain to them in detail what will happen, how they will get hurt and what they have to do after. I also tell them that it is now their choice to make and that I have done my duty as a parent to inform them of the dangers. After, I make damn sure that I am close by ready to be there for them and mitigate any damage.
This has greatly strengthened my relationship with my kids. Not only am I the cool dad that lets them do crazy s~~~, I am also ‘almost’ always right and their best friend who makes it right and is there for them when they fail.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

TaxGuy wrote:

I’m talking about the relationship advice.

Everyone gets their heart broken at some point. Better young when they’re still resilient, as you said… just be ready for it when it comes for her. He’ll do something dickish to her to make her dependent on him and she’ll have to either push him away or let him do something she is uncomfortable with to try to keep him (not necessarily sex).

If you see her emotions change and she’s not talking to you about it, check in with her mother and make sure at least one of you is there for her.

The one thing I would be most concerned about with a young girl is that she will change her personality to hang onto a boy who raises her social value. When her hair changes, start watching for changes in music and clothing and head them off if they get too extreme… stage something if you have to but get her away from the guy before the change takes hold.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Talk about how great of a guy he is and how you wish them well,she will dump him in a week.Remember part of the drama is the disapproval which in itself drives her to him.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To Give wrote:

Talk about how great of a guy he is and how you wish them well,she will dump him in a week.Remember part of the drama is the disapproval which in itself drives her to him.

Excellent point. 50% of what young girls do is designed to make them more popular with their friends and the other 50% is to p~~~ off their daddies.

As a dad, the best way to have your daughter avoid bad influences is to befriend those guys yourself first. Find the douchebag kids in your daughter’s school and recruit them to a team you can coach. Get to know them, become buddies. Slip them some heart medication to kill their little sex drives!

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Stargazer wrote:

TaxGuy wrote:

I’m talking about the relationship advice.

Everyone gets their heart broken at some point. Better young when they’re still resilient, as you said… just be ready for it when it comes for her. He’ll do something dickish to her to make her dependent on him and she’ll have to either push him away or let him do something she is uncomfortable with to try to keep him (not necessarily sex).

If you see her emotions change and she’s not talking to you about it, check in with her mother and make sure at least one of you is there for her.

The one thing I would be most concerned about with a young girl is that she will change her personality to hang onto a boy who raises her social value. When her hair changes, start watching for changes in music and clothing and head them off if they get too extreme… stage something if you have to but get her away from the guy before the change takes hold.

Doc, you nailed it. The one good thing is that she can’t lie to her mom. And she can’t hold anything back either. That may change in the future, but she has never been able to hold back from mom. Part of that is because mom is a narcissist and has to control everything, so she has always hammered it into their heads to tell her everything. There will come a day when they will figure that out and stop, but for now it is to our advantage.

As usual, the hardest part of this will most likely be talking sense to her mother.

Order the good wine

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

The problem is, wanting to f~~~ Chads is biological for women, they can not help it. The lizard brain wants the best genes possible for any potential children so they go for the Chads as this makes the gina tingle. Lets be honest, these bad boys are exciting and for women a boring, mundane life is the worst possible punishment.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[Anonymous 3]

I understand guns are generally legal in the United States (as opposed to here in Britain), so assuming they are also legal in your locale, I would make sure you’re conspicuously cleaning a large gun (a rifle or some such) as Chad walks in the house.

Then, in your best Texas drawl, say: “Do you like shootin’ Chad?”

Regardless of Chad’s reply, then follow-up [aiming the rifle around the room now – make sure it’s not loaded]: “Yep, these are good for home security and keeping away the wrong type. Did [your daughter’s name] mention about Tommy? No? Pity that one, I shot him, blew his right leg clean off. Did a couple of years in the joint for it. But I had to do it. I won’t have anybody messing with my little girl”.

[AttonParticipant]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intrauterine_device
She absolutely must use one of these, don’t budge or compromise on that. IUD’s are almost pretty much fool proof and a girl her age can get one. She almost certainly will engage in unprotected sex, I call bulls~~~ on everything she said where she is not going to do so. She will and this is an insurance policy that will cover part of the damages.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[RennieParticipant]

This gun brandishing stuff might actually cause them to avoid Dad and the house.

But it won’t keep them from doing stuff with your daughter somewhere else. Like Atton said, it’s probably going to happen regardless of whether you like it or not. It’s in their nature to destroy themselves.

[Masculine_ManParticipant 2735]

Taxguy I had a similar issue with my niece. The best way to approach this is to be as noncommittal as possible. Don’t show disapproval but be realistic. Praise her on her dedication to remain a virgin and not giving into peer pressure. Let her know a special guy will appreciate that. I recommend sitting with her, the mom and a doctor to go through STD education. The blue waffle images always scares them away from Chads.

At the end of the day, don’t drive yourself nuts. People have to learn on their own. We did.

If it costs you your peace of mind, then it is too expensive.

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