Monkey branching ex-girlfriend story

[lawyaman2018Participant 86]

Here is my brief situation, first time being monkey branched:

Dated my ex for almost 3 years. I’m a lawyer (30/M), she was in college (20/F). Dropped out of college and I took care of her, we lived together, traveled together, bought her everything her heart desired and we spent nearly all our time together. Definitely a 9/10 girl looks-wise. However, very clingy, insecure, needy, etc. Looked to me to completely fulfill her happiness. No job (except for the part-time job she got at a very shady strip club 2 months prior to break-up – this is where she met new guy), no real friends, etc. She was head over heels about me and talked all the time about getting married. Also, I am her first love and the longest relationship she’s ever had.

We had our fair share of disagreements/arguments, but nothing really out of the ordinary. There literally wasn’t a day that went by during our 3 years together that we didn’t talk/text. Literally spent all of our free time together when I wasn’t working or travelling for work. She was always worried that I’d end up leaving her for someone better. Constantly thinking I was cheating, trying to catch me cheating, etc. We had a small “break-up” end of September 2017, though wasn’t really a break up. We still talked all the time and got back together a week later. Right after that is when I think she began seeing new guy Chad.

December 2017…the signs were there, I had been in and out of town a good bit and long story short caught her cheating. Told me she had fallen in love with new guy just the week prior, and was leaving me for him. Said she loved him and her feelings with him were different with him than they ever were with me. But, also told me the “I love you and always will but I’m just not in love with you anymore” line. Also told me we’d still be together if it wasn’t for new guy.

Caught me off guard, considering we’d been ring shopping a couple weeks earlier. I sort of went beta, spilled a little of my heart to her and asked (might say begged) her to give us a chance, which she said no. After that point, I never mentioned getting back with her or asking for a second chance. We texted a few times the next couple days, then no more. I traveled again for the next month (for work) and found out she had basically moved new guy into our place with her. I go back, kick him out, and she stays in the spare room until she finds a new place to live, which was about three weeks ago now. While she was still living in my spare room, we talk in passing but nothing really substantive and I never ask for her to back. Unfriended her on all social media, deleted all our texts and trying to forget about her.

Her new guy is divorced with 2 kids, was homeless until he moved in with her at her new place, doesn’t have any education (HS dropout), long criminal history and no job. She went from living in a nice ass condo in LA with me, who paid for literally everything and spoiled her royally, and treated her well, to living in a studio apartment in the ghetto on an air mattress supporting this loser who she “is in love with”. She’s now working two menial jobs to support herself and him. Already were talking marriage after a couple weeks of dating.

The moment she moved out three weeks ago, I’ve gone strict NC. Neither I nor any of her family think new guy will last (he’s the complete opposite of everything she’s always said she wanted in a guy) and her family wants nothing to do with him.

Chances she contacts me again? I’m trying to move on and have been on a few dates since, but am preparing myself for that moment when she realizes she ****ed up and wants me back, which all friends and family say will happen.

Thoughts as to whether I’ll hear from her again? I know way better than to take her back, but I’m curious as to whether you all in your experience think she’ll be back around eventually.

[Anonymous 13]

She’ll be back.

BUT

YOU can never go back.

One chance, per woman, per lifetime.

NO EXCEPTIONS.

Besides, she just another cheating disloyal WHORE.

Hey ho, same s~~~, different day.

AWALT.

[lawyaman2018Participant 86]

I know way better than to go back. Been there done that before with an ex years ago. It never works out the second time.

[Anonymous 13]

Reverse monkey branching is a thing.

[lawyaman2018Participant 86]

I’ve heard of it happening quite often, especially when the new guy is a loser chad, but never had any experience with it. Probably because I’ve only dated 2 girls. Should have never stopped living the player life…

[Remove me!Participant]

This would probably be best in the intro forum.

Like a bird on the wire, like a drunk midnight choir, I have tried in my way to be free.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22503]

Oh she will be back, 100%.

Do not let her physically back in your premises. She will call cops and lie you raped or hit her. You see her pull up, you call tbe cops a trespasser is on your property. Record everything if she shows up, do not say one word to her. Capture her saying everything for the cops and your lawyer.

Not exaggerating. She kmows you are loaded and have assets and she wants them.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Remove me!Participant]

May 7th, you trolling us?

Like a bird on the wire, like a drunk midnight choir, I have tried in my way to be free.

[Maximus AureliusParticipant 351]

Make sure there is Nothing in your place that is or was ever hers… I’m close enough to your area if you need help changing locks or removing her DNA from your place, give me a shout…
Prepare for her to make contact at sometime, but don’t lose sleep over it!

Good luck! find some Rebound pussy and move on as fast as you can LawMan!

Meditating on the Wisdom & Truths of Man, Isn't just a Philosophy, but a Calling......Be willing to be Called a Man!

[Anonymous 11]

Don’t, like, do it again.

[lawyaman2018Participant 86]

Maximus Aurelius wrote:

Make sure there is Nothing in your place that is or was ever hers… I’m close enough to your area if you need help changing locks or removing her DNA from your place, give me a shout…
Prepare for her to make contact at sometime, but don’t lose sleep over it!

Good luck! find some Rebound pussy and move on as fast as you can LawMan!

Thanks, man! She actually left quite a few things here (tons of clothes, etc). They’re all in garbage bags in my closet, thinking of taking them to a consignment store or something. Other than that, every single memory of her is gone. All pictures, etc. I’ve gotten quite a bit of rebound pussy, even as recently as last night, so I’m doing ok. Still, it would be nice to know that she at least misses me, even though I wouldn’t take her back, you know?

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

Oh she will be back, 100%.

Do not let her physically back in your premises. She will call cops and lie you raped or hit her. You see her pull up, you call tbe cops a trespasser is on your property. Record everything if she shows up, do not say one word to her. Capture her saying everything for the cops and your lawyer.

Not exaggerating. She kmows you are loaded and have assets and she wants them.

Women are psycho, I’ve dealt with my fair share of them. She was never demanding money-wise, but she knew that I was there to take care of her and give her what she wants. Now that she’s responsible for not only her bills but those of a chad with the maturity of a 5 year old, I’ve gotta imagine it’ll get old. Is it bad that I just really want the “s~~~, I totally f~~~ed up here” admission from her?

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Dated my ex for almost 3 years. I’m a lawyer (30/M), she was in college (20/F). Dropped out of college and I took care of her, we lived together, traveled together, bought her everything her heart desired and we spent nearly all our time together. Definitely a 9/10 girl looks-wise. However, very clingy, insecure, needy, etc. Looked to me to completely fulfill her happiness. No job (except for the part-time job she got at a very shady strip club 2 months prior to break-up – this is where she met new guy), no real friends, etc. She was head over heels about me and talked all the time about getting married. Also, I am her first love and the longest relationship she’s ever had.

You’re a lawyer, and you didn’t recognize her behavior as a series of red flags immediately? Even if you’re not a divorce lawyer, but a practitioner in another field of law, you’re exposed to human behavior on a daily basis. Everything about her clingy, insecure, needy behavior should have sent you running to the hills. But the part that baffles is for for a girl you consider a 9/10, that she would be all those things. Most women who fit that category are not. For a multitude of reasons. Chiefly being that they have no shortage of guys hitting on them. In public, and online.

The fact that you were providing for a woman with no job (who is a 9/10????), that you weren’t even married to? WTF were you thinking? You’re not her parents. It’s not your job to be her provider in life. Her so called “head over heels” act was exactly that. An act. You aren’t “head over heels” over someone and taking your clothes off for money to other horny guys. And let’s face it. This was not “spur of the moment”. This was planned. A likely chance is that she was screwing around on you (while you were working your ass off and she was at home). The fact that you avoided marriage is your miracle. This chick would have tried to clean you out down the road.

We had our fair share of disagreements/arguments, but nothing really out of the ordinary. There literally wasn’t a day that went by during our 3 years together that we didn’t talk/text. Literally spent all of our free time together when I wasn’t working or travelling for work. She was always worried that I’d end up leaving her for someone better. Constantly thinking I was cheating, trying to catch me cheating, etc. We had a small “break-up” end of September 2017, though wasn’t really a break up. We still talked all the time and got back together a week later. Right after that is when I think she began seeing new guy Chad.

Women play the cheating card all the time. What you need to understand is, it’s all projection from women. It’s all projection to cover up the fact that they, themselves are the ones who have been cheating. So it gives them some sense of justification for their behavior by framing you as the accused. Which was proved by the fact she DID cheat on you with the guy she met at the strip club. It’s a good bet he wasn’t the only one.

Caught me off guard, considering we’d been ring shopping a couple weeks earlier. I sort of went beta, spilled a little of my heart to her and asked (might say begged) her to give us a chance, which she said no. After that point, I never mentioned getting back with her or asking for a second chance. We texted a few times the next couple days, then no more. I traveled again for the next month (for work) and found out she had basically moved new guy into our place with her. I go back, kick him out, and she stays in the spare room until she finds a new place to live, which was about three weeks ago now. While she was still living in my spare room, we talk in passing but nothing really substantive and I never ask for her to back. Unfriended her on all social media, deleted all our texts and trying to forget about her.

This is where you fked up. Once you caught her cheating, you should have kicked her to the curb. You lost your power in the relationship, and your respect from her by playing the beta simp roll. How pathetic of a man who relegates himself to a bitch, kissing the ass of a woman who respects her relationship so little that she would sleep with someone else. The minute you played that role, you were toast. She has no respect for you at that point. You should have kicked her out immediately. Her living situation isn’t your problem. And fk her for moving her f~~~ pal into your place. Let them go live together somewhere else. Not your problem.

Her new guy is divorced with 2 kids, was homeless until he moved in with her at her new place, doesn’t have any education (HS dropout), long criminal history and no job. She went from living in a nice ass condo in LA with me, who paid for literally everything and spoiled her royally, and treated her well, to living in a studio apartment in the ghetto on an air mattress supporting this loser who she “is in love with”. She’s now working two menial jobs to support herself and him. Already were talking marriage after a couple weeks of dating.

You gave her everything she wanted. That’s where you went wrong. But it doesn’t matter. If you give her everything she wants, she gets bored and resents you. Don’t give her what she wants, and she resents you for not providing. The fact is, she wanted someone “new and exciting”. This guy was the prototypical “bad boy”. Bad boys are always more exciting than guys who have their s~~~ together. Says a lot about her, and women like her who would rather be with and f~~~ a guy who doesn’t have a pot to p~~~ in or a window to throw it out of, vs the guy who has his s~~~ together.

The moment she moved out three weeks ago, I’ve gone strict NC. Neither I nor any of her family think new guy will last (he’s the complete opposite of everything she’s always said she wanted in a guy) and her family wants nothing to do with him.

Chances she contacts me again? I’m trying to move on and have been on a few dates since, but am preparing myself for that moment when she realizes she ****ed up and wants me back, which all friends and family say will happen.

Thoughts as to whether I’ll hear from her again? I know way better than to take her back, but I’m curious as to whether you all in your experience think she’ll be back around eventually.

Of course not. Because the people close to the situation with any semblance of intelligence see this guy as a deadbeat. Oh well. Not your problem. Women always come back thinking they fked up. Because for them, the grass is always greener on the other side, until they get there and determine it’s not. You should fully expect her to come crawling back. Your response should be to ghost the bitch!

[Maximus AureliusParticipant 351]

lawyaman2018 wrote:

Thanks, man! She actually left quite a few things here (tons of clothes, etc). They’re all in garbage bags in my closet, thinking of taking them to a consignment store or something. Other than that, every single memory of her is gone. All pictures, etc. I’ve gotten quite a bit of rebound pussy, even as recently as last night, so I’m doing ok. Still, it would be nice to know that she at least misses me, even though I wouldn’t take her back, you know?

I do.. and Congrats that you do as well!

But she may never miss you! …..It was Never about you!!!

Now drop her s~~~ off anywhere, tomorrow! Not your problem..
If she asks, just tell her you don’t know what she did with her s~~~…
Enjoy!

Meditating on the Wisdom & Truths of Man, Isn't just a Philosophy, but a Calling......Be willing to be Called a Man!

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

I stopped reading at strip club. Stage 5 Cuckery

Sovereignty above all else.

[RogueParticipant 258]

Sorry to here what happened to you. But I am not surprised. Most definitely you will reach out to you after the Love Bombing ends. Money is a strong motivator in women and when she figures out her Chad doesn’t have any, she will came a calling..

This is also LA, where money rules and success rule. Hell ya she will be back..

Dont do it, dont take the bitch back.. Once a cheater always a cheater…

Ghost her ass.

BTW, if you want to be happy for the rest of your life dont, make a pretty women your wife.. Get a Dog…

[GoodKid44Participant 1524]

Listen to the advice on here. You don’t realize how lucky you are. Had you married this idiot you’d be writing us from jail or from under a bridge.

You’re lucky she took pity on a guy like you. She could have set you up and made your life a living hell. She’s a coward (but most women are) in leaving it up to you to catch her cheating.

You really think you were that smart to catch her? That all of a sudden she slipped up? Either she got lazy (because she stopped caring) or she wanted you to catch her so she could have good reason to leave you (women are literally retarded and need weird exjses to move on to the next guy).

Why do you think she kept accusing you of cheating? She’s probably been cheating for a while (previous boyfriends etc) and emits that sort of narrative on to others.

You dodged a bullet man. When she does come back you won’t see it coming. The shame and the guilt she’ll be packing to unleash onto you. Stand strong.

Women will always be the victim in their own eyes no matter how responsible they actually are for their actions. Sadly the government seems to agree 99% of the time as well.

You’re going to be alright bro. If we were there right now you better believe we’d be helping you celebrate. Here’s a cyber drink on me for your new found freedom 🍻

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

Are you still in close contact with her family? You mentioned a few times what her family thinks about the new guy. Like you have discussed her and what she is doing, with her family.

I did that for a while during my separation before we divorced. Like I wanted her families validation that she was wrong and crazy for leaving me.

But once I was really done with her, and moved her out of my life, then I was done with her family too, and her friends, all those connections to that life.

That’s when I started getting healthy.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[lawyaman2018Participant 86]

Maximus Aurelius wrote:

lawyaman2018 wrote:

Thanks, man! She actually left quite a few things here (tons of clothes, etc). They’re all in garbage bags in my closet, thinking of taking them to a consignment store or something. Other than that, every single memory of her is gone. All pictures, etc. I’ve gotten quite a bit of rebound pussy, even as recently as last night, so I’m doing ok. Still, it would be nice to know that she at least misses me, even though I wouldn’t take her back, you know?

I do.. and Congrats that you do as well!

But she may never miss you! …..It was Never about you!!!

Now drop her s~~~ off anywhere, tomorrow! Not your problem..
If she asks, just tell her you don’t know what she did with her s~~~…
Enjoy!

Thanks, man! And you’re right, she even admitted in the breakup that it really had nothing to do with me/us, it was just that he was so f~~~ing amazing! Lol dumb bitch.

Rogue wrote:

Sorry to here what happened to you. But I am not surprised. Most definitely you will reach out to you after the Love Bombing ends. Money is a strong motivator in women and when she figures out her Chad doesn’t have any, she will came a calling..

This is also LA, where money rules and success rule. Hell ya she will be back..

Dont do it, dont take the bitch back.. Once a cheater always a cheater…

Ghost her ass.

BTW, if you want to be happy for the rest of your life dont, make a pretty women your wife.. Get a Dog…

Once a cheater, always a cheater is right. That’s a quote she always used to use when we were dating, saying her mom had told her that. Guess she will fit right into that stereotype, long road ahead for girls like her.

GoodKid44 wrote:

Listen to the advice on here. You don’t realize how lucky you are. Had you married this idiot you’d be writing us from jail or from under a bridge.

You’re lucky she took pity on a guy like you. She could have set you up and made your life a living hell. She’s a coward (but most women are) in leaving it up to you to catch her cheating.

You really think you were that smart to catch her? That all of a sudden she slipped up? Either she got lazy (because she stopped caring) or she wanted you to catch her so she could have good reason to leave you (women are literally retarded and need weird exjses to move on to the next guy).

Why do you think she kept accusing you of cheating? She’s probably been cheating for a while (previous boyfriends etc) and emits that sort of narrative on to others.

You dodged a bullet man. When she does come back you won’t see it coming. The shame and the guilt she’ll be packing to unleash onto you. Stand strong.

Women will always be the victim in their own eyes no matter how responsible they actually are for their actions. Sadly the government seems to agree 99% of the time as well.

You’re going to be alright bro. If we were there right now you better believe we’d be helping you celebrate. Here’s a cyber drink on me for your new found freedom

Very true, I’ve been married once before and never wanted to do it again, but I probably would have married this girl if she stayed around, so I guess I do have her to thank for that. And you’re right, women see themselves always as the victim. No matter how much you do for them or how hard you work or try, they will always find fault with you and blame you for all the wrongs.

Romulus wrote:

Are you still in close contact with her family? You mentioned a few times what her family thinks about the new guy. Like you have discussed her and what she is doing, with her family.

I did that for a while during my separation before we divorced. Like I wanted her families validation that she was wrong and crazy for leaving me.

But once I was really done with her, and moved her out of my life, then I was done with her family too, and her friends, all those connections to that life.

That’s when I started getting healthy.

I talked with them quite a bit in the month after the breakup, they were reaching out to me a lot, expressing their disbelief that she would leave me and all I gave her for the loser chad. They weren’t very happy at all, even told her that the new chad wasn’t welcome in their home, ever. But, I haven’t talked to them in a bit. I’m really doing pretty good moving on, but I know if/when I hear from her, it’ll be a bit of a setback.

[GoodKid44Participant 1524]

Sad to say, if he was talking with her family, those days are over with.

Even if they’re paying you 1 million dollars a week you ghost on the whole scene. Don’t even look back.

[Oz-BlokeParticipant 3233]

No offence, but she is one stupid monkey. She missed the lowest branch on the tree and slammed her monkey-vag hard on the ground.

#ManOut

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