MGTOW or Marriage ?

[Anonymous 6]

hi, I’m 28 years old, i thought i was looking for fulfillment in my life but now im having second thoughts, i met some girl in Thailand, i care about her alot i do not love her, but i care about her alot, i was single for about 10 years then i thought about having some sort of fulfillment in my life then realized while i was looking for fulfillment i was already free, she wants to get married and have children, but i am afraid i do not want that,  and why complicate my life, i am happy enough being  single, why complicate it? why sacrifice all of that? i met her a year ago but now i have just been starting to realize mgtow and now am at a crossroads, do i continue down this path or do i stay single? she says she promised she will never hurt me or cheat on me, but selfishly i think  deep down it will happen anyway, do i stay on this path or have a “happy” family with her or do i stay single and forget about the whole thing?

please some advice

[WrexgodParticipant 60]

Plenty of women said the same thing man, if you’re having thoughts of backing out NOW then imagine when you already put a ring on it…

Just don’t do it and walk away

[a bananaParticipant 288]

DO NOT MARRY HER

for your own sake, even if she doesnt divorce there are so many men in “cheaper to keep her” marriges

its just not worth the risk man, you say you’re happy now, why screw it up?

[Anonymous 6]

Thanks for your reply, its a long distance relationship anyway, and im as free as a bird anyway she is not pregnant or anything like that, she promises me i love you forever and i will never cheat on you, but my instinct is telling me to hit the road.

[a bananaParticipant 288]

you do as you please

but i would bounce and not talk to her again, the marriage thing scares me tbh

soon she’ll get baby rabies

[Lord VatsParticipant 379]

How can you be sure she isn’t doing it for a citizenship?
If a girl tells you that she would never ever cheat on you, then you should seldom believe her.
What marriage laws would you be subjected to? American or Thai?

@keymaster
Please take a look here.

[Anonymous 6]

its just not worth the bother, she loves me bla bla bla and yet i pay for everything? f~~~ her

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Lord VatsParticipant 379]

Anonymous wrote:

and yet i pay for everything? f~~~ her

Your tone changed quite quickly! Aren’t you in a long distance relations~~~? How do you pay for everything? What exactly do you pay for?

[treelville..miamiParticipant 893]

Do you bro, but if your instincts tell you otherwise then you should probably go your own way. Getting married is a carreer choice for these broads they’re all lazy crazy opportunists.

"The wounds of honor are self inflicted"

[MOWsince95Participant 1446]

“she says she promised she will never hurt me or cheat on me”

Ask yourself this:  What are her consequences if she breaks that promise, and what are your consequences?  Her consequences are that she gets half or more of anything you have or ever will have, and you will be her bitch from now till whenever.  Your consequences are that you are f~~~ed eternally.

Now ask yourself:  What do I get out of marrying her?  Chances are you don’t truly get jacks~~~ except for some fleeting notion that you helped a damsel in distress, a poor little f~~~ing maiden in a 3rd world country who neeeeeeds you – a notion that will quickly fade to reality once she secures her US citizenship, nags your ass nonstop, f~~~s you over, takes your s~~~, and you are paying her to f~~~ other dudes, and for the apartment and bed she is f~~~ing them in.

That last part …. is a virtual guarantee.  I don’t even wager, but I will on that because there is zero chance of losing.

 

 

 

If you are MGTOW when you are young you have no heart.
If you're not MGTOW when you are 20 you have no brain.

[Anonymous 6]

Thanks guys for replying, any sane man would forget about the whole thing, i was just looking for something to complete my life, some girl thousands of miles away who promises to love you and never cheat on you is a f~~~ing very long shot, why take that risk?

[Lord VatsParticipant 379]

@mowsince95
She won’t get a citizenship that easily. A Green Card maybe, but not the US Citizenship (considering that she’s in Thailand/NR alien).

Gentlemen, I smell a gynocentric presence. Let’s call in the cavalry on this one. Stop responding to this thread now! We’ll have our fun when this is in the litterbox.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

i am afraid i do not want that

You’re not “afraid”. You’re just being sensible. The only risks reasonable people are willing to take are CALCULATED risks. One weighs the costs and benefits of those risks. As it is , a marriage contract fails a cost/ benefit analysis. So whatever has led you to think “fear” plays any role, you can block out of your mind. She may use scare tactics on you too: “You’re afraid of commitment”. … which is complete bulls~~~. You’re just SENSIBLE.

she says she promised she will never hurt me or cheat on me

Did she actually put it to you like that? Because thats an interesting tactic in itself.

• “I won’t hurt you….”
• “I would never divorce you….”
• “I won’t rob you…”
• “I won’t cheat on you….”
• “I’m not that kind of person….”
• “I’m not like that.”

But guess what:

/audio/awalt-all-women-are-like-that/

SHE THOUGHT OF IT. She made a point of saying it. It should already be unspoken and assumed that she won’t. That’s what a loving relationship IS. To use “i would never do that” as a sales tactic is slippery and questionable in itself. It’s NOT A POSITIVE to say “I won’t cheat on you”…. or “I won’t divorce and rob you”. Don’t give a woman points for that kind of statement. It’s LAZY and transparent.

She should be only concerning herself with working to be the kind of person you can confidently KNOW would never do those things without having to say it. It would be like you showing interest in a woman , inviting her back to your place and saying “Don’t worry, I won’t rape you”.

See how f~~~ed up that is?

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[RedHeadedStrangerParticipant 204]

never marry for love, only marry for money.  should you marry her?  is she wealthy?  the answer to both questions is the same.

[MendokusaiParticipant 256]

A lot of these womin from third world countries are just gold diggers with a husband already,just look at the case of that wealthy American a while back that was murdered by his Thai c~~~ and her boyfriend

I would just stick to escorts and massage parlours while travelling because a white Westerner already has a “sucker” sign on his forehead to them.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

Stay away from Chinese, Thai and Philippines women. These women are worse in someway that American women because they are more deceptive and that can scam you.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

the word marriage = i’d turn & run like the wind

[Anonymous 6]

i guess the smart thing to do is just leave her now, it will hurt me for a while but that is nothing compared to the chaos she will cause me if i continue to stay with her and do get married and have children, i think i am going to stay MGTOW forever now

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

There are millions of women  in 3rd world s~~~hole countries online “on the hunt” for men in America , Uk etc for a greencard  who will say and do anything and i mean anything just just to come over here and live.Just call any INS office if you dont believe me.

VAWA has special sections that make it  very easy to get rid of the man once the women have been here for a while.

Think about it why would a woman look for a relationship  with a man who lives 3000 to 5000 miles away?

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[Anonymous 6]

thanks for your advice guys, why risk all that?, i am happy enough on my own and cherish my freedom, i am content already and have an easy life, i work 4 days a week and single life is bliss, i love the simplicity of it but if i stay with her god knows what mayhem will follow, i don’t need her to make me complete, I’m complete already and i am only realizing this now that i have been a MGTOW for 10 years and did not know that there were other guys out there like me that just want to go there own way, staying single is definitely the way to go, she tells me all the time i love you, well that’s great but i do not need your love anymore, i do not need your care i am self sufficient.

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