MGTOW for 15 years, Living the dream now.

[SisyphusParticipant 4]

Thanks for sharing your story.

I’m interested in the spanish speaking part of the philipines; could you give me some info on that? Could someone get by in there just by speaking spanish or is it just a marginal part of the population who maintains the language?

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

Dude if you keep on sleeping with different women and they think you’re going to marry them and you don’t they will get upset. You might get your throat slit.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[NoTimeForQuittersParticipant 6]

“I’m interested in the spanish speaking part of the philipines; could you give me some info on that? Could someone get by in there just by speaking spanish or is it just a marginal part of the population who maintains the language?”

Zamboanga is the main place that speaks ‘chavacano’, which is a dialect that is about 80% spanish language.  But that’s about it, that one and surrounding area.   But one great thing about the PH is that everyone there is taught English and Tagalog, so getting by with just English is not a problem.

Any dude who would turn his back on pussy is just one horny night away from going gay.

[NoTimeForQuittersParticipant 6]

“Dude if you keep on sleeping with different women and they think you’re going to marry them and you don’t they will get upset. You might get your throat slit.”

That’s a very limited view of what a lot of us expats do in the PH.  The main error in what you’re thinking is that these women are being led on, thinking that marriage is on the table.  That’s what amateurs do and end up getting their ass beat by her brothers or leaving the island on 15 minutes notice.

But those of us who know what we’re doing, it’s all laid out in the beginning with these women.  They know it’s quid-pro-quo/P4P.   There is no shortage of women who accept being either a part-time g/f or full-time mistress in exchange for paying their college tuition or money for their boarding house.  And that’s not even counting the FWB’s women I’ve had.  No money involved, just women who don’t want a b/f but still want someone they trust to get laid once a week.  I’ve been with more women in 3 years than I’ve had in 49 years in the usa, over 30 last time I kept track.  And I’m on good terms with just about all of them to this day.  There’s been no ‘throat-slitting’.  Pffft!   Most of them I could call, let them know I’m in town and what room I’m staying at and they’ll show up for a good romp.  🙂

Best thing you could do is travel and see for yourself how it all works.  Don’t let people fill your heads with simple ideas like it’s all going to end with “getting your throat slit”.  You stand a better chance of being shot while getting car-jacked at an intersection.   Women in the PH, Thailand, Vietnam.. they know the score and if a man wants sex without a relationship, he can have it and marriage is NOT part of the negotiations.

Any dude who would turn his back on pussy is just one horny night away from going gay.

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

We are MGTOWs here not PUAs .Roosh preaches about the same thing and we have all heard enough from him.You would be a popular commenter at Return of Kings.

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[NoTimeForQuittersParticipant 6]

“We are MGTOWs here not PUAs .Roosh preaches about the same thing and we have all heard enough from him.”

I’m against all that PUA bullcrap.  it’s not necessary overseas.   And even in the West it only attracts bimbos with issues.  Just some basic courtesy is all that’s needed overseas.

What I don’t get is why several men here seem so quick to toss out the baby with the bathwater.  ‘Women’ are not the problem.  Sex is not the problem.  Feministic-minded women are the problem.   Who really thinks that giving in to a sexless life is somehow a ‘win’ for MGTOW?  It’s both insane and unnecessary to give up on a healthy sex life as a way to deal with bitchy, selfish women in the west.

There’s a wonderful world of women out there.  If men are dissatisfied with what’s in the west, it’s because they wanted a much different type of woman.   And I’m here to say that if men want a good woman to marry, they can be found in the PH.  And if he wants non-committal women in their 20’s or 30’s.. there’s that too.

Am I missing some kind of celibate or gay undertone that men would rather prefer over a life that has great experiences with women?  Or are some men so bitter and hurt that they’ve thrown in the towel and would rather just rub one out over having a beautiful woman that is nothing like a western woman?

A fulfilling sexual life is out here.. I know, I’ve been living it along with tens of thousands of other expats.  It’s real.  It’s there.  Why the dragging of feet on this?  Unless they prefer the previous options mentioned.

Any dude who would turn his back on pussy is just one horny night away from going gay.

[DurdenParticipant 1051]

@Reekay

Some guys just don’t want to deal with women’s s~~~ anymore and are for the most part celibate in terms of women. That does not mean if a girl comes around they won’t f~~~ her or even jack off to good porn. But many do not and have a very fulfilling life without sexual interactionYou also have guys here who like having sex with women but will not put up with their s~~~. We have a very diverse group here. That’s really the thing about MGTOW. I recommend watching Terrence Popps explanation of it on Youtube. He does a very entertaining job of doing it and goes into the scale towards the middle.

/video/terrence-popp-on-mgtow/

It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything

[RennieParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

serenity is much more rewarding than the misery of dealing with bats~~~ crazy nutso women!

Some of the best and most memorable times of my life have been when I was by myself, which surprised me because I always thought I would hate it…until it tried it.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

Enjoyed Sunset, Starfish, Sea Urchins; a Walk with Lyn and Enjoying the Balance i.e. ‘dropping the blender’ videos. The ultra clear resolution of your camera made the walk along the beach very beautiful.
Personally, as far as finding new lovers or wife here at home or in distant exotic locations, I see any relationship as loaded with pitfalls. I hold the belief that there simply are no nawalts in existence. For me, turning and walking away is the only alternative. Loneliness is not an issue ..although we have a 40 mile group bicycle run scheduled today (and yes, there will be female cyclists) this is a rarity. Usually I prefer solitude and live & work completely alone ..by choice. I feel very fortunate to even have that option. I’m satisfied with the path I’ve taken, yet, I truly wish you well on your adventure.

[NoTimeForQuittersParticipant 6]

“Enjoyed Sunset, Starfish, Sea Urchins; a Walk with Lyn and Enjoying the Balance i.e. ‘dropping the blender’ videos. The ultra clear resolution of your camera made the walk along the beach very beautiful.

“Personally, as far as finding new lovers or wife here at home or in distant exotic locations, I see any relationship as loaded with pitfalls. I hold the belief that there simply are no nawalts in existence. For me, turning and walking away is the only alternative. Loneliness is not an issue ..although we have a 40 mile group bicycle run scheduled today (and yes, there will be female cyclists) this is a rarity. Usually I prefer solitude and live & work completely alone ..by choice. I feel very fortunate to even have that option. I’m satisfied with the path I’ve taken, yet, I truly wish you well on your adventure.”

 

Glad to hear you’ve found your bliss.  Even with the PH I’m the first to say it isn’t for everybody.  I’d just not want any guy to throw in the towel thinking there isn’t an alternative.  But not wanting to deal with women anymore, while it’s not my choice.. I’m sure for some it brings some much needed peace and tranquility to their life.

I once dated a manic-bipolar for 4 months.  I blame myself partly.  She was a nympho with great skills and, back in my early 30’s, I let that cloud my judgment.  I should have dropped her after the first lay but.. I kept going back for more until she made my life a living hell.  After doing my own relocation program to escape her and her hellish harassment, I took about 9 months off of women.  I studied magic, did some small local shows and began studying and doing investing in the stock market.  But, for me, after 9 months of living out on a horse ranch in the country.. I was ready to get back in the saddle again.

Any dude who would turn his back on pussy is just one horny night away from going gay.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

hmskl’d wrote:

Enjoyed Sunset, Starfish, Sea Urchins; a Walk with Lyn and Enjoying the Balance i.e. ‘dropping the blender’ videos. The ultra clear resolution of your camera made the walk along the beach very beautiful. Personally, as far as finding new lovers or wife here at home or in distant exotic locations, I see any relationship as loaded with pitfalls. I hold the belief that there simply are no nawalts in existence. For me, turning and walking away is the only alternative. Loneliness is not an issue ..although we have a 40 mile group bicycle run scheduled today (and yes, there will be female cyclists) this is a rarity. Usually I prefer solitude and live & work completely alone ..by choice. I feel very fortunate to even have that option. I’m satisfied with the path I’ve taken, yet, I truly wish you well on your adventure.

 

I used to bike at least 4 hours a day unless there was too much snow during the winter.  Most people are just wimps.

 

So these women in the PH are disease ridden.  Not much different from the whores in North America.  If you’re that desperate I guess PH is a good alternative.  Crime is high in PH with plenty of cons artists a lot more than North America.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

I follow thinking-ape aka Stardusk. Women are an addiction just like a drug addiction. I don’t jack off to porn or anything. I have better things to do. I’m try to give up many attachments and sex is one of them. No longer p~~~ed off at women just don’t care about them anymore. I am angry about society who don’t give s~~~ about men so society can kiss my ass.

I know why PH women look at white men like they are f~~~’in gold. You will end spending on money on them. I’m not stupid I watched your videos. Just to be blunt you can take your site and ram up your ass because we don’t need another PUA wannabe. Oh wait you’re too fat to be PUA, lazy f~~~.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[NoTimeForQuittersParticipant 6]

“So these women in the PH are disease ridden.  Not much different from the whores in North America.  If you’re that desperate I guess PH is a good alternative. ”

 

You do realize that when you write something like that, you show a complete ignorance on what life in the PH is like, let alone the women.  All you’re doing is showing that your hatred for women is something you have yet to deal with and overcome.  You’re not ready for a solid, healthy relationship with women with this sort of attitude and perspective.  You’ve let the crappy bitches of america beat down your will.  They’ve won by isolating you from the good women in this world.  They did it by convincing you the women of the world are all whores, even women you’ve never met.

Maybe.. maybe, one day you’ll get over this bitterness and enjoy life again.  But until then, saying stupid things like you just did just shows how much your perspective in life has been damaged.  Not only have you turned into a little boy who says, “I’m going to take my ball and go home.”.. you’ve lost any b~~~~ to really live life.  To the point that you have issue with anyone else, like myself, who is now enjoying what a real relationship should be like.

You blindly accuse me of being one of these lame PUA even though that’s not even close to what I’m about.  I don’t need that ‘game’ bulls~~~.  I have a hot, sexy, 22 year old girlfriend who treats me like a king.  A king.  I enjoy that every day.  And you.. you haven’t got dick in your hand and you think your life is something people want?  Pfft.  You are so happy in your self-pity you can’t see s~~~ what’s going even when someone like me points the way.

When it comes to living life like a Man.. if you want to be a quitter, go ahead.  But not me.

Any dude who would turn his back on pussy is just one horny night away from going gay.

[SteveParticipant 462]

The other side of the coin if I may. I’ve dated women from:

Indonesia – wanted me to spit on her face during sex, had a long term boyfriend, tricked me for money for an abortion.

Singapore – wanted my money, wanted my money, wanted a mixed baby, wanted my money.

Malaysia – wanted my money, wanted a mixed baby, wanted a mixed baby.

China – wanted my money, wanted my money, came at me with a knife, wanted my passport.

Modern women are modern women, it doesn’t matter where they are from. They have TV, Internet and know the game.

Just because the asian woman has a tighter body and cry like porn girls when you f~~~ them it DOESN’T mean that they aren’t calculating c~~~s. Infact comparing European and North American versus Asian that I have dated I would say the Asians are waaaaaaay more cunning and sly.

NAWALT?! That’s just the magic of the 22 year old pussy sympathy f~~~ing the old Westener for his money / passport / mixed baby.

 

 

[Anonymous 11]

[SteveParticipant 462]

Oh f~~~ that’s funny! You cruel bastard C’pig!

[Anonymous 42]

WTF CPig? My little pony?

This personifies me to a tee! Where are the girls? THEIR ARE NONE! That’s the point! I’m sure glad I had my gender in the MAN SLOT when I was a kid! I remember riding my minibike in the morning (I scavenged and rebuilt), and doing cool stunts with my screaming demons in the afternoon. Now that I’m all grown up, I’m finishing my muscle car, and flying model aircraft and doing all kinds of aerobatic cooool stunts!

If growing up means slaving for a woman, slaving for a divorce court’s decree, slaving for children you can’t see, slaving away your life on the whims of a bat-s~~~ nuts narcissistic s~~~-house fly infested woman, count me the f~~~ out! I’m a kid at heart, I love my life simple and easy to understand.

Putting a woman in my life is tantamount to shoving an anvil through a wood chipper!

 

[Anonymous 11]

Hey Tower, great to hear from you. I used to wake up hung over as a teen on Saturday mornings in the 80s hating that very commercial with a seething passion. I figured it was a snarky response for this Unicorn parade.

I played with pellet guns, randomly mixing various chemicals and fire as a boy.

Tower, you know there are guys into “My Little Pony” these days. They call themselves Bronies. I used to savage my niece for playing with them back in the 80s. We live in some f~~~ed up times.

[NoTimeForQuittersParticipant 6]

The other side of the coin if I may. I’ve dated women from:

Indonesia – wanted me to spit on her face during sex, had a long term boyfriend, tricked me for money for an abortion.  Singapore – wanted my money, wanted my money, wanted a mixed baby, wanted my money.  Malaysia – wanted my money, wanted a mixed baby, wanted a mixed baby.  China – wanted my money, wanted my money, came at me with a knife, wanted my passport.  Modern women are modern women, it doesn’t matter where they are from. They have TV, Internet and know the game.

……………………

I see the pattern.  I’ve seen it a lot.  But what I have also seen is lots and lots of expat guys who are either happily married (in and out of the PH with their filipin wife) for 10+ years.. and also happy committed bachelors who rotate and get all the sex with none of the drama you listed.  What I’ve also seen is that when I talk to these guys who got lied to and bled for money is that they are taking the low-hanging, easy fruit.  The amateur-pros and bar-girls.   They only know how to attract women with their wallet.. and then complain that the bitch was only after their wallet.  It would be hilarious if it wasn’t so sad.  They have no clue how to sift out and find the ‘good girls’ who never pull that s~~~.  End result?  After dating one opportunistic bargirl after another getting the same result, they conclude they “all” are greedy whores.  The real problem is they are picking the wrong women to f~~~ because they’re either looking for a quick lay or not even interested in a good woman/relationship.   “If you sleep with dogs, you catch fleas.”  It’s that simple.

But if a guy wants to write off ALL women and be bitter, closed-minded to change.. it’s fine by me that the good-girls never meet such guys.  These kind of men are damaged goods who wouldn’t know how to appreciate a good woman if she fell into his lap.

Any dude who would turn his back on pussy is just one horny night away from going gay.

[Anonymous 11]

Reekay, no disrespect intended. I’m glad you found nirvana for yourself. However, you won the lottery. You come off sounding c~~~y and preachy to us, but I will assume you’re intending to give us some hope. I did not fall off the back of the turnip truck yesterday myself. My experience and the experiences of my many friends are very, very similar.

Conclusion: Modern women are f~~~ed up for the most part. Unicorns are few and far between and for all purposes do not exist. Women are expert manipulators so even your young 3rd World hotties have it in them.

Tread carefully.

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