MGTOW Etiquette

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

I was asked for a donation recently and I would have responded a lot differently before I went MGTOW…I live in a small town and my friend’s wife was taking up a collection to help a single mother. I responded by asking “Why is she single”…to which she replied (with a puzzled look) “What do you mean?”. I said “Well is she single because she got caught fooling around on her husband or did she initiate the divorce because she just wasn’t happy? Or was he abusive or cheating on her? She replied with an “I don’t know”. I finished the exchange by telling her I don’t give money to single mothers without knowing why she is single in the first place. Being a single mother in itself not a valid reason to be charitable towards her, and even less so if she brought her misery on herself. I think her hamster is still processing that.

Key master Wrote: That’s awesome. Today – just hours ago – I stepped out for a bit and saw a neighbour I don’t know very well. “Good evening”, I said . (I never say “hi”)…. bitch says “can you do me a favor?”. That’s her response to “good evening”? All I could think was classic t~~~. This will be fun.

ME: “depends. What’s in it for me?”

SHE: Breaks into a smile because she thinks I am kidding. “can you hold the door for a minute while I run and get a bag out of my car?

ME: “You wanna use me as a doorstop? What’s in it for me?”

SHE: “you get to hold the door open for a lady!”

ME: “A lady would have responded with good evening when I opened with that. But you responded with “can you do me a favor?” That’s not very lady like”.

SHE: “WELL, EXCUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUSE MEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!”

ME: “Better. Have a pleasant evening, Miss.”

I’m not sure if it’s allowed, but I hijacked these post from another thread (My apologies). Mind you the topic wasn’t really aimed towards the particular subject, but I thought it more efficient to start off a thread with those post.

With that in mind, I’ve been sitting back lately thinking about this stuff. If certain situations or things warrant a response, how would a true MGTOW respond or react? I know we are all our own individuals, but there is a common factor here. Looking at the previous quote, what are some other circumstances, situational responses we would consider MGTOW without making it evidently/ readily apparent?

This should be fun!

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

I won’t stop and help a woman with a flat on her car. I won’t let them out of a side street.

I won’t give a woman priority in anything.

I would help if she was injured but only because she’s a human being and not a woman.

The exact opposite for men.

Sorry girls …. go find a white knight …. there’s loads out there …. just don’t bother me.

[RoyDalParticipant]

ILiveAgain wrote:

I won’t stop and help a woman with a flat on her car.

That’s what cell phones are for. Keep driving. Call the auto club or cops and let the experts deal with it.

There was a rash of car jackings in my area. The scam was:

1) An attractive woman would be standing by the side of a road with her car hood up.
2) Sir Simpleton the white knight would stop and offer aid. (By the way, Sir Knight, did you stop to wonder why she doesn’t have a cell phone?)
3) Her accomplices would appear out of nowhere and drive off with both cars and all his money.

Easy as one two three!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

If you want to go the manners route, you are going to need to formulate strategies on what outcomes you want, and adjust your behavior that way.  For myself, I am trying to ghost through my personal life, so I see people as people, don’t make demands on anyone I am not hiring for service, and try to go about my life.  I will say thank you and so on, and be a decent person.  I don’t feel a need to peac~~~ as a badboy either, to get attention. I am not trying to score with the world.

In regards to this, having standards that work in as many contexts as possible, helps, and your ability to communicate these to others, and not worry about the outcome, will be of benefit.  You may lose some people along the way, but at least that helps filter out the chaff.

For myself, I hold doors and help others, without regards for them, if I have time.  Strangers also seem to hold doors for me, so go figure.  Call it karma.

 

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[Anonymous 25]

I will make a point to help a man. I will make a point not to help a woman. They expect it so I’m not going to give it to them.

I was only holiday a few weeks back and some woman couldn’t get the umbrella up on a sun lounger. I was walking past and she asked me if she could do it, I said no I haven’t a clue and kept on walking.

I don’t let women out of a side street either. I try and see whether it is a man or woman driving so I can choose whether or not to let the person out.

Go find a white knight.

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

IGMOW (I Go My Own Way) wrote:

If you want to go the manners route, you are going to need to formulate strategies on what outcomes you want, and adjust your behavior that way.

I can definitely understand that rich. I look at both KeyMasters’ and dagigisup’s quote and there is something definitely there. It’s almost as if they had taken the time to let logic sink in and spat it out verbally. When you think about it, their responses weren’t rude. But the were completely logical, rational, and jabbing all in the same token. It’s goddamn priceless and I want them to bottle it and sell it for a premium.

ILiveAgain wrote:

I won’t stop and help a woman with a flat on her car. I won’t let them out of a side street.

That’s a definite plus. Often when women speak with me, right there in the middle of conversation. Two thoughts come to mind. The first being I wonder how she rides the carousel. The second immediate following thought is  I wonder what kind of bulls~~~ I’ll have to deal with to get there.  Then I just decide to walk away as my level of tolerance has long been at a minimum.

The key then, I guess, is as Rich suggested and suppose a pre-position and slowly evolve into that. It’s as though every encounter with a woman lies the ability to practice it in motion.

In fact.. here’s yet another MasterPiece from KeyMaster-

Keymaster wrote:

Are you kidding? Of course! And it is comical! But it’s also pretty sad. Especially when you consider something *must* be wrong with you if you’re not shackled to a female. But it really gets hilarious when women will assume this whenever you’re not trying to bang them. It’s so off-the-chart arrogant. Can you imagine if you assumed every woman who didn’t want to have sex with you is a lesbian? “What are you a DYKE?” It’s preposterous. When a gay assumption comes up, I have a stock response: “Well, I could certainly be gay long enough for YOU to blow me. Who’s first?” (then watch the expression on their faces) Agree and amplify. The beauty of them being so conditioned is it’s easy to beat them at their own game. You have that on your side. If an attractive woman suggests it, just say “let’s find out!” and motion her to the bathroom, or tell her to take her t~~~ out, open her mouth and drop to her knees. “You can tell me how gay I am with my b~~~~ on your chin. That would be funny.” It may shock you how many will go for it. Whatever you do, don’t call her again though. Use her like a sperm dump – once. She doesn’t even deserve a repeat. Then she will be forced to accept you don’t want anything to do with her as a person. You can even amplify it further. “Mind if I film you blowing me with my phone, so I can beat off to it later? That would be hot.” NOW if she disagrees and backs off, you get to say “What are you, a LESBIAN?” then exit laughing. More importantly… if you get the “stink eye” it means they hate gays. I call them out on that. When they sling a homo-eqsue epithet which is intended as a hurtful insult, it reveals them as gay-hating. Point it out, right in front of other people. “why do you hate gays so much? You use “gay” as an insult. I thought you were just liberal leftist. But now you’re a bigot.” They panic. I did this at a dinner party and humiliated them just perfectly. It’s great fun. Be creative. Use your imagination here. They did. It’s absolutely SICK in this hyper-sexualized society, how people what to know if you’re “gay or straight” before wanting to know anything else about you. They don’t make efforts to find out if you’re kind, trustworthy, honorable, hard-working, how you like to spend your spare time, if your talented, accomplished, how many languages you speak, how many musical instruments you play, or any of your values and interests… they are obsessed with who you’re screwing. Are they really that uninteresting? Say this out loud whenever possible and reduce them to pulp.

S~~~ is so Epic and just Raw/Real, it needs to be immortalized in a book. I swear.

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Do not look at, talk to or help them in any way. You will get nothing in the end. And it will keep you out of trouble.

Thus endeth the lesson.

Fuck this planet.

[clint englandParticipant 341]

I’m pretty much the same as the above in my outlook in how i deal with the world on a day to day basis. I don’t give women the petty little privileges they have come to expect but that’s not to say i’d ignore a women who was injured. They are as ILiveAgain said still human beings, it’s just they are a product of their environment as am i.

I’m well past the hate stage i’m glad to say, it still does peeve me a little just how much a white knight is willing to help or more to hope to get laid with a women but hey, to each his own.

Personally i do what i can ie: no holding doors open etc. But by the same token i’m not looking for a war every time i go into the supermarket. For me it’s more about being subtle and giving little cues to the ladies that i may be a man but this guy is not your little door matt, and No the little head isn’t thinking for the big head so much these days.

So move along sister, and take your box of tricks with ya! x

[Elgos_GrimParticipant 254]

I think the two things I say to women the most whenever they insist on bothering me:

‘How exactly is that my problem?’

And:

‘Go do it yourself then.’

[Anonymous 5]

I say the same thing to females… “Why can’t you do it?”.

This forces them to think and they hate that. They either admit that they are too  weak/stupid or they get mad because they are just lazy as f~~~ and expect the man to do it.

Either way, I win,

[HitmanParticipant]

i give nothing to c~~~s.i dont really care to help them ..they should help me ! f~~~ them.literally and figuratively..

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