Anyone ever get the "He must be gay" stink eye?

[IggyThundersParticipant 246]

One thing that happens to me as a MGTOW is the creeping suspicion, looks, and fishing expedition type questions I get from friends and family about my sexuality. Because I am always flying solo or never have, or talk about a girlfriend I must secretly be gay. Does this happen to any of you guys? I actually find it kind of comical. They think that the only reason I would be without a woman in my life is that I must be gay! There is no other alternative! If you go for longer than a year without a woman in your life you are an automatic homo. It matters not if you have had previous relations with women. Even if they were numerous! I really do laugh about it as it is so absurd and shows how conditioned society is.

[TheBardParticipant 974]

Back in high school there were a few people who thought I was gay although it was never anything major and I don’t know where they got it from. In jr year a friend of mine asked if I was gay because I never had a girlfriend at that point.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Are you kidding? Of course! And it is comical! But it’s also pretty sad. Especially when you consider something *must* be wrong with you if you’re not shackled to a female. But it really gets hilarious when women will assume this whenever you’re not trying to bang them. It’s so off-the-chart arrogant. Can you imagine if you assumed every woman who didn’t want to have sex with you is a lesbian? “What are you a DYKE?” It’s preposterous.

When a gay assumption comes up, I have a stock response:
“Well, I could certainly be gay long enough for YOU to blow me. Who’s first?”

(then watch the expression on their faces)

Agree and amplify. The beauty of them being so conditioned is it’s easy to beat them at their own game. You have that on your side. If an attractive woman suggests it, just say “let’s find out!” and motion her to the bathroom, or tell her to take her t~~~ out, open her mouth and drop to her knees. “You can tell me how gay I am with my b~~~~ on your chin. That would be funny.” It may shock you how many will go for it. Whatever you do, don’t call her again though. Use her like a sperm dump – once. She doesn’t even deserve a repeat. Then she will be forced to accept you don’t want anything to do with her as a person.

You can even amplify it further. “Mind if I film you blowing me with my phone, so I can beat off to it later? That would be hot.”

NOW if she disagrees and backs off, you get to say “What are you, a LESBIAN?” then exit laughing.

More importantly… if you get the “stink eye” it means they hate gays. I call them out on that. When they sling a homo-eqsue epithet which is intended as a hurtful insult, it reveals them as gay-hating. Point it out, right in front of other people. “why do you hate gays so much? You use “gay” as an insult. I thought you were just liberal leftist. But now you’re a bigot.” They panic. I did this at a dinner party and humiliated them just perfectly. It’s great fun.

Be creative. Use your imagination here. They did.

It’s absolutely SICK in this hyper-sexualized society, how people what to know if you’re “gay or straight” before wanting to know anything else about you. They don’t make efforts to find out if you’re kind, trustworthy, honorable, hard-working, how you like to spend your spare time, if your talented, accomplished, how many languages you speak, how many musical instruments you play, or any of your values and interests… they are obsessed with who you’re screwing. Are they really that uninteresting? Say this out loud whenever possible and reduce them to pulp.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

Why do you care if anyone thinks you’re gay because you no longer date women? People like to judge others and try to control them. Behind closed door nobody knows what goes on for sure.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[IggyThundersParticipant 246]

<cite>@crazycanuck said:</cite>
Why do you care if anyone thinks you’re gay because you no longer date women? People like to judge others and try to control them. Behind closed door nobody knows what goes on for sure.

I dont care and I dont recall ever saying that I did. Actually I said I find it comical. I was merely posing a question to see if anyone else had experienced the same thing. Also, a little correction. I still would date women. She would just have to be very impressive. I have not sworn females off for the rest of my life.

[Total LeeParticipant 1573]

Not as bad as before I’m at the age(42) where if I’m not married it is assumed I’m divorced. Got more flack in my 20 s about it if I showed up to an event alone, people would wonder but now I dont feel it at all. I just don’t give a s~~~. These people can’t be taken seriously, they are really screwed up. A barren childless woman is a different thing than a 42 year old man. Lap it up and let them think your gay. The wife of one of my married pals said ‘you better hurry nobody wants 55 year old man’. Told her she was lying cuz nobody wants a 55 year old woman, but George Clooney announced he’s getting married. (what a total fool btw)

[TheBardParticipant 974]

It’s absolutely SICK in this hyper-sexualized society, how people what to know if you’re “gay or straight” before wanting to know anything else about you. They don’t make efforts to find out if you’re kind, trustworthy, honorable, hard-working, how you like to spend your spare time, if your talented, accomplished, how many languages you speak, how many musical instruments you play, or any of your values and interests… they are obsessed with who you’re screwing. Are they really that uninteresting? Say this out loud whenever possible and reduce them to pulp.

I find it funny how we are always told that it is no ones business if someone is gay or straight because it doesn’t matter, but the minute any celebrity comes out it is all over the news. There could be a story on the live news that the cure for cancer had just been found and all of a sudden we could hear “this is a breaking news alert, we just have confirmed Joseph Gordon Levitt is gay. We now take you live to our celebrity reporter to speculate on how long he has been wanting to come out and what his future gay plans are”. Also even though women love gay guys I feel they only love gay guys when they would have no interest in dating them if they were ever straight. When a woman throws the gay accusations out she is probably upset that she can’t control that man with her vagina she might as well make him look bad.

Why do you care if anyone thinks you’re gay because you no longer date women?

I don’t now, but back in high school I cared because I didn’t want the girls at school to actually think I was gay and I would never get a date. Of course it wouldn’t have mattered too much because I never got any dates back in high school lol.

[McQueenParticipant 77]

When a woman throws the gay accusations out she is probably upset that she can’t control that man with her vagina she might as well make him look bad.

No “probably” about it. If she even sniffs that her manipulations will never work, you have to be gay. You just have to be.

@iggythunders

You will get the “gay stink eye” whenever your not with a woman. People always look at the guy by himself as difficult to peg. As soon as you are walking with / talking to / seen getting out of your car with a woman, you have this automatic checkmark , stamp and validation above your head. Without it, they get all nervous and confused and don’t know what to make of it. Is he gay? Is he divorced? Is he available? And the favorite “Whats wrong with him?”. They know men are hard to find so to see one straight off by himself and they think it’s impossible. No woman would allow this. A man on his own? Impossible. Women are perfect. He must be gay.

This thought process shows women to be the most shallow and stupid bipeds ever to roam the earth.

[TheBardParticipant 974]

<cite>@mcqueen said:</cite>
No “probably” about it. If she even sniffs that her manipulations will never work, you have to be gay. You just have to be.

Then everyone here must be really really gay lol.

[RobertParticipant 18]

I don’t mind if people think I’m gay. I wouldn’t consider it an insult either, even the person hates gay people. That’s something inside their head that is of no consequence to me. I do find your responses funny as hell and damn clever @keymaster! These boards are great!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Leave them guessing. The “gay” card came in handy during a break up. I’ve used it a few times. “I don’t think we should see each other anymore”.

   “What? why not?”
   “I’m gay.”
  “OMG you’re SO not gay.”
   “Yes I am! I love what you’re wearing by the way…”

… and then I went and talked to another chick.

(S~~~, I’m hilarious.)

It gets interesting when you tell a woman you’re gay, they refuse to believe it. When you call her out or don’t put up with her s~~~, she accuses with a “what are you GAY?” as if you couldn’t possibly be straight. Doesn’t matter what you tell her, she will believe whatever she wants anyway. She will believe anything to avoid accepting she is just impossible to be around.

Thanks Robert. Happy you like it here so far. More soon. Busy as hell on it.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[VileNordParticipant 766]

@keymaster

You’ve bested my icons! I suppose simple ALT code magic no longer cuts the mustard!

Lust for comfort suffocates the soul

[KeymasterKeymaster]

YES! (smiles loudly)

I actually forgot, when building the site, we implemented “font awesome” across our site for all of our social icons etc. It’s an industry standard now. Creating countless images is time consuming. Plus, they are vector shapes, so they scale nicely.

Here is the cheat sheet for the classes.
http://fortawesome.github.io/Font-Awesome/cheatsheet/

It was a great idea, so I thought I would try it out. Owe you one.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[VileNordParticipant 766]

<i class=”fa fa-beer [] fa-5x”></i> fa-5x
I need practice

Lust for comfort suffocates the soul

[KeymasterKeymaster]

(Watch your quotes. Use the plain straight quotes only. Not the curvy ones.)

… and note the font size style parameter which makes it bigger.

Example:

<i class="fa fa-beer" style="font-size:40px;"></i>

Again… notice your quotes, below. Yours are curved. you can’t use those. Copy my code in red. Then paste it exactly like that. And just change “beer” to another class name for another icon on the sheet.

Cheers to you too!

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[VileNordParticipant 766]

Doesn’t translate for me, I probably just suck at it. I copied it from the font awesome example page even, the quotes get squirelly by themselves. Programming a lathe is much simpler!

<i class=”fa fa-beer” style=”font-size:40px;”></i>
Cheers!

Lust for comfort suffocates the soul

[VileNordParticipant 766]

<cite>@iggythunders said:</cite>
One thing that happens to me as a MGTOW is the creeping suspicion, looks, and fishing expedition type questions I get from friends and family about my sexuality. Because I am always flying solo or never have, or talk about a girlfriend I must secretly be gay. Does this happen to any of you guys? I actually find it kind of comical. They think that the only reason I would be without a woman in my life is that I must be gay! There is no other alternative! If you go for longer than a year without a woman in your life you are an automatic homo. It matters not if you have had previous relations with women. Even if they were numerous! I really do laugh about it as it is so absurd and shows how conditioned society is.

I get this bewildered gaze from women every now and again. Mostly from girls working behind the grocery counter ringing up my nuts. The big red beard gets their interest, but the archaic grin is what makes them moist. I intentionally emit an aura of indifference and their pheromone receptors excite. They become flustered and awkward, shy and bashful. They are confused about how they feel and it makes me happy. At least this is how it plays out in my head.

Lust for comfort suffocates the soul

[IggyThundersParticipant 246]

<cite>@vilenord said:</cite>
I get this bewildered gaze from women every now and again. Mostly from girls working behind the grocery counter ringing up my nuts. The big red beard gets their interest, but the archaic grin is what makes them moist. I intentionally emit an aura of indifference and their pheromone receptors excite. They become flustered and awkward, shy and bashful. They are confused about how they feel and it makes me happy. At least this is how it plays out in my head.

Its funny you mention that about your experience with girls at checkout counters. I have a small group of youngling counter fan girls whom I like to tease unmercifully. I am an older rocker/Goth type of guy and these girls are all little Emo/goth chicks or hippie types. Mostly 20-24 I would guess. Because I am always alone and still attractive its get them all curious and hot and bothered.Especially since all the regular customers are just your average looking Joe’s. They want to know more but are too embarrassed to ask. You really want to get under their skin? Just look them straight in the eyes ( a second longer then socially acceptable) when they give you your change. Not in a creepy serial killer type way. Just in a way that says you know exactly what they are thinking. Its priceless to see them wig out and get all awkward. I had this one who was so obviously being a flirt I finally used an old Clint Eastwood type line on her. I said “If you want to go out with me then why dont you just say so?” and then slipped her my number. She turned beat red, smiled and said “OK”. I knew it would never happen and it never did. It was all just some weird fantasy game of the “Older man” she had in her head. Now whenever I go in there she hides or wont even look at me anymore and all her little friends start to giggle. Its great sport!

[VileNordParticipant 766]

Yeah, I think I have more fun f~~~ing *with* women than I do actually f~~~ing them. Most men find it uncomfortable and awkward to look a gorgeous girl in the eyes. A genuine hottie who works behind the counter mostly experiences meekness from guys during her workday. If you can look her dead in the eyes, that is usually all it takes to get her attention. Then the games can begin. I’m not a 6 foot 5 model, but most of the time a girl will notice me this way and it is an ego trip!

Lust for comfort suffocates the soul

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

Sorry for necro’ing a topic, but I’ve heard a handful of such questions/remarks in my life.

1. My mom, who was talking to my brother, saying “you’ll find a girlfriend, I’m sure of it.” Then, she looked at me and added “and I’m sure there’s someone for you as well.” *sigh*
2. At a party where everyone was getting close to being drunk, a couple of them were dryhumping and kissing. I wasn’t one of them. One fat, ugly chick crawls over to me and asks if I want to kiss her. I kinda threw up in my mouth, said “no” and she blurted out “OMG ARE YOU GAY?!”, at which I responded “just for you, sweetheart”, then turned around to get more beer.
3. At Graspop Metal Meeting: a friend and I were roaming the campsite to see if there were more Dutch idiots drinking beer (we were almost out of beer), then started taling to two Swedish chicks. My friend hooked up with one while I just kept looking around for something, I dunno, and the other chick asked him “is your friend gay? Why isn’t he slobbering all over me?”

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