MGTOW Advice

[AttonParticipant]

The grass just gets greener and greener

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

Anonymous wrote:

You don’t need to measure your self worth by what you can do for women.

I’d like to add to this: you can have value, as a man, without a woman’s approval (or the approval of your society). Your life belongs to you and you have a right to structure it in a way that solely benefits you.

Also: the character traits that you develop when you overcome the hardships of life will help you reach your goals. If you experience failure, don’t let your emotions blind you from an important life lesson that can be learned from it. You didn’t know any better. Forgive yourself and do better.

We live in the kind of world where men must have a strong resolve to get whatever it is they want. There will be all sorts of people giving you s~~~ tests to see if they can get the best of you, and there are forces of nature that will sabotage your efforts. DON’T LET THE WORLD GET THE BEST OF YOU. Just continue on your life journey throughout the rocky roads and detours until you find what you are searching for.

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Two roads diverged in a wood, and I–
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.

—Robert Frost

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[VarunParticipant 2981]

-> Be content. Do not compare yourself with others.Comparison is the key of all happiness. You only need so much in life.

-> Learn to be independent……..ike really independent. People might think earning your own bread and place is the perfect example of independence. But its not. You still need people to cook your food, fix your pipes, car, commute you to work/school (even though you pay for it).

My idea of independence is when a person can survive even when he gets stranded on a lonely island with only rocks and trees. You know what I’m talking about.

-> Respect should be earned, not demanded. You know you are really respected when even your sword enemy acknowedges your prowess/skill.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

Don’t let anyone shame you into anything and don’t let anyone tell you that you cannot be selfish with your own life. You need to take care of you first. The world can take a number and wait.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

Learn the power of “no”.

No, you will not be moving into my house because getting a woman in is always far easier then getting a woman out.

No, you will not be getting a ring from me. Marriage is worst legal contract that people regularly sign. It is an invitation to financial ruin or even worse. The only men who might I might consider it a reasonable option for are gay, and I suggest they leave it on the shelf.

No, you are not going to have kids from me. Men do not ejaculate sperm into women, they blow a wad of blank checks into them. Don’t take my word for it- ask any man who deals with “Child Support”. This forum is full of their horror stories.

No, I will not be spending money on you. Support yourself, I have to. Remember, Feminists tell us a “woman don’t need a man”. This, I will accept and not argue against but instead act accordingly. Equality, enjoy it !

No, my personal autonomy is not up for grabs. Blowing me does not give you any right to tell me how to live. Remember, eating a woman’s pussy doesn’t mean she has to obey you.

No, there will not be any toleration for s~~~-testing, means-testing nor any other kind of “Testing”. “Test” me and I will DTBN (Dump The Bitch Now).

No, I don’t care if you wonder “where are all the ‘good’ men”. That is not my problem.

No F~~~s Given.

Stay in the position to be able to say “no” in asserting your own sovereignty and making it stick. Listen and learn from the men who have been through it themselves. I am damn glad I did.

Frank V.

Never married, no kids, no regrets.

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

“Muh Vagina !”
“No, that does not constitute a reasonable argument.”

Frank V.

[EndOfDatesParticipant 51]

I was going to say:

Break out of the programing that your worth as man is what you can provide a woman.

But I see that has been echoed many times already. For me, that was the Red Pill.

[CatsPawParticipant 423]

-Do not keep people who make you unhappy around you “for the sake of having people around you”, learn to be selective.

-Learn the difference between being mean and honest.
-Make sure to always have some time in the week for yourself and what you want (for me thats Sunday).

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

You do not owe a relationship to anyone.

You are free to abandon any relationship, with any person, for any reason whatsoever… or, for no reason at all… just because you happen to feel like it.

Do not participate in undefined relationships. And if the relationship is defined by the state, by lawyers, by a woman… then it is undefined.

Your ability to produce and provide makes you a target. Anyone who offers you a relationship is already aware of this. You should always be aware of this. Don’t ever act as though you are not aware of this.

You have the right to say ‘no’, and this right is very strong. But like any source of strength, keeping it strong requires exercise. So exercise it often.

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[VarunParticipant 2981]

One more thing I’d like to say is that: be kind to people, whenever you can. I know it will not sit well with many of you, but it is a great way for feeling content and happy. Be nice to the people who are negative towards you, and by doing that you will not lower your self-worth; rather you will make them feel ashamed for their actions. Schadenfreude at its best.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[davidmParticipant 17]

prostitution

[davidmParticipant 17]

thats the answer. Then it becomes clear

[mesohuntParticipant 65]

Diffuse the anger side of your journey.

When you see something blue-pill that makes you angry, compare it to how you are or are planning your MGTOW existence and take joy that you don’t have to be trapped in that anger.

Stick to your plan to get to whatever MGTOW level you are aiming for, don’t let societal pressure or bad mouthing from anyone bring you down. Life is 20% what happens to you and 80% how you react to it. Don’t let c~~~s who don’t understand live in your head.

Don’t bother arguing with SJW’s whenever possible. It will just make you angry, get you labeled and cause you mental anguish. Same goes for posting on social media. Getting dragged into these arguments is a waste of your peace.

Begin to see the humor in blue piller stories, because you know that s~~~ doesn’t apply to you. This is my favorite way to pass the time while hanging out with others. Just smile and listen to the story while you say to yourself “Thank f~~~ing god that is not me”. Outwardly, offer little or no opinion on their story beyond something like “Damn, that sux” or “Whatchagonnado?” those are two of my favorites. Once those interactions are done, it then clears your mind completely. If you had gotten into an argument that could poison your mood for hours or days… not worth your time.

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

There is a reason marriage vows say
“For richer or for poorer,in sickness and in health till death do you part”.
Because people KNEW about hypergamy.They knew about it since long ago in ancient times.

We have been LIED TO!!

Contemplate that for a while.

Those vows are nothing more than a lock on screen door on a tigers cage.
Only there for show for the foolish.

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[Ash NrahkParticipant 199]

Study these definitions, narcissism, sociopath, phycopath, Jezebel spirit, projection, gas lighting.

You sir might have just saved my sanity thank you.

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