MGTOW Advice

[DDJParticipant 1880]

Brothers,

Bashing women and rockin’ the redpill rage tip is important and sometimes worth a revisit occasionally. However, as MGTOW, what positive advice would you give those newly MGTOW or just learning about it?

I’ll start: You don’t need female companionship to be happy.

Every woman is a slut, if you catch her on the right day.

[Anonymous 54]

You don’t need to measure your self worth by what you can do for women.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Life live for yourself, and only yourself. The world will call you selfish for not willfully becoming a slave to a woman, but who cares. Live life so that when you die, you have no regrets.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

DDJ wrote:

what positive advice would you give those newly MGTOW or just learning about it?

The same thing you would give a brand new driver when first learning how to navigate the roads of life and operate a vehicle.

You don’t teach them how to “DRIVE” on the first day. You teach them COLLISION AVOIDANCE and spotting hazards well ahead – in the classroom. And the seatbelt goes on BEFORE you insert the key into the ignition too.

So what you call “bashing woman” a MGTOW calls “hazard identification and collision / injury avoidance”.

Safety and prevention first.

That’s actually what happened when I got my driver’s license. The instructor tried to trip me up and said “anytime you’re ready”. And I said, “I’m not putting the key in the ignition until you put on your seatbelt”.

I wonder if he thought I was “bashing” him when I said that.

PS. My driving record has not a single blemish on it, and I have never been divorced, or cucked unto fatherhood against my knowledge or consent either. MGTOW collision avoidance lesson number one.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

My advice would just be to make sure you can look yourself in the mirror every morning and lay down with your thoughts at night. It’s fine to have a little red pill rage, but don’t let it dictate your behavior into doing something you’ll regret.

The high road has a lot less traffic, and you’ll be travelling with men. Not a ton of women drivers on the high road….

Order the good wine

[GnosticParticipant 2491]

Women have no power over you unless you allow them. A man is strong when he is above his desires.

There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Always ask yourself: “What’s in it for me?”

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Make “NO” your new favorite word and default response. Rehearse and have it ready. Let others work to turn your “no” into a “yes”. And never give a woman a direct answer to a question unless it is “no”.

EXAMPLE:

“So what do you do for a living?”

You don’t actually answer her directly here – for many excellent reasons. So you have fun with the situation. I used to answer this question directly and it was a mistake every time. Even when I was quite happy to answer!

But now I have a new stock response:

“I’m an astronaut. See that? (points to the sky) That’s my office. “

“REALLY?”.

“No”.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 42]

TaxGuy wrote:

The high road has a lot less traffic, and you’ll be travelling with men. Not a ton of women drivers on the high road

The MGTOW highway has no cars, just intellectual mountain climbers that can see more of the world and its ways than anyone else choking on the smog from all those cars in the valleys below, we see more stars at night too.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

this is a great f~~~ing thread….. Great advice!

my contributions shall be my signature below….

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Anonymous 3]

MGTOW is a peacefully life without drama.
MGTOW is being the owner of your own things.
MGTOW is being the master of your own time.
MGTOW is being respected when you earn respect.

The only way to appreciate the importance of these things is when you don’t have them.

[kbbroilerParticipant 886]

Ask why should you participate in a system that calls you a rapist, criminalizes you, say you oppress women, blames you for everything and hates you all at the same time?

Also, someone mentioned in the thread that make “no” your new favourite word.

This is what I’d say.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

I saw this somewhere

“Chase dreams not women”

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[IAmManParticipant 228]

Question everything.

[BoarParticipant]

Clearly learn to identify and separate your needs from your wants. Once you do that, you can see how few your true needs are. That, I believe, is the basis of self-awareness and the beginning of independence from social conditioning.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

Advice .. Keep your defenses up or you will be run over by the world. Treat your fellow MGTOW’s with respect. Realize you are expendable to the world around you, and because you’re not a 5’8 blonde chick with titty’s and a great ass .. your life has no value to other men, and and certainly not to corporations. This is what we are here to challenge !

And my final point, and no one take this personal because it’s not aimed at any specific person. Don’t nitpick at your fellow MGTOW’s because most of us came here to get AWAY from female behaviors, not to endulge in them.

Kind Regards.

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

Simple mgtow is the reaction of men against women and society brought on by the lies we were fed for decades by our parents, our peers, the TV and the lying ass priest/preacher. Because ever since birth those people have brainwashed us into accepting a false reality in which we are not told the truth about female nature and we are kept in the dark about the true nature of reality

Whether it be teaching us about true love/being a nice guy, chivalry and happily forever after. All of these lies only hurt us in our past and continue to hurt the blue pilled men and boys who get taught them from an earlier age. Since over time the ones who become red pill will discover that its all bulls~~~. So i got 5 beginner mgtow points each mgtow should know

1 Marriage is not worth it. For a man there is no benefit to getting married these days since she is not legally obligated to do anything in the marriage. We can’t call the cops on her and have her thrown in prison for refusing to put out, She can’t be locked away for refusing to cook dinner nor can we force her to do the dishes however she can get the police to arrest you for not paying her alimony, or she could cry rape and domestic violence and have you spend the night in your luxury jail cell. Because if you defend yourself against the bitch then the police will take your guns away. If you defend yourself against the police then its a capital crime so its a no win scenario unless you like the jail cell or the morgue.

2 Being a nice guy is not gonna get you laid instead women flock toward the asshole males whom they say they hate but in reality they are not suckups like you therefore they are more attracted to them (this is how i got to mgtow so young). Also this is part of the reason great men get f~~~ing divorced by their bitch wives while they stay with the abusive asshole men. Your mother lied to you about being nice to girls and respecting girls and buying them stuff because she is putting her fantasy of a man onto you even thou she was the one who had your drunken assholes father kids. So its simple if you date then be an asshole if you don’t date then still be an asshole.

3 A woman’s goal is to get married but its not to work hard in the marriage but rather she now legally has your b~~~~ unless you speak Spanish and you can flee to south america. A woman will try anything to get married because the marriage ceremony is about her and not the man, She gets legal rights to your stuff and money, and she gets respect from her family and friends for being married.

And if the marriage does not pan out then she could simply say you were beating her, cheating on her or raping her to protect her reputation as the angel. Because if she does not show you enough glimpses of her true nature before then to scare you if she will reveal the whole thing after she already got you trapped. As a side note she will pork up after the marriage and get ugly stretch marks from pushing her boyfriends kids out.

4 Nothing lasts forever neither does love which i explained is our brains getting us to reproduce. Love is a chemical high that motivates both men and women to go and reproduce and that is it. While relationships might last till death and the nostalgia will be with you for the rest of your life you have to realize that its not happily forever after in the end. Since all relationships with dissolve with time whether it be getting boring after marriage, fighting in the relationship and our eventually death it will break up one day. But its better to have a breakup before the legal documents of marriage are signed and the bitch takes you to court rather then face alimony and the splitting of your assets.

Finally 5 the court system is rigged against men and that is the reason for mgtow even commonlaw marriage exists in states so even having a kid out of wedlock is now a dangerous task that is why we don’t support cohabitation however if you do it then proceed with caution and know the law.

So these are the 5 things id tell any beginner mgtow.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[Anonymous 18]

Love yourself. Work to improve yourself each and every day.

MGTOW is only one aspect of a man’s life. It won’t solve your problems. It won’t teach you new skills.

It should be one tool in your armament of many.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Excellent thread.

I would say:
1. Learn to ghost. Don’t argue with women. Ignore them.
2. Respect others, particularly men. You can learn a lot by listening.
3. Do good whenever possible.
4. Keep your body and mind healthy.
5. Seek peace.

[raindogParticipant 313]

Some words of wisdom from Marcus Aurelius:

“The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane.”

“How unlucky I am that this should happen to me. But not at all. Perhaps, say how lucky I am that I am not broken by what has happened, and I am not afraid of what is about to happen. For the same blow might have stricken anyone, but not many would have absorbed it without capitulation and complaint.”

“Dwell on the beauty of life. Watch the stars, and see yourself running with them.”

“You have power over your mind – not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.”

“Never let the future disturb you. You will meet it, if you have to, with the same weapons of reason which today arm you against the present.”

“I have often wondered how it is that every man loves himself more than all the rest of men, but yet sets less value on his own opinion of himself than on the opinion of others.”

“Reject your sense of injury and the injury itself disappears.”

“How much more grievous are the consequences of anger than the causes of it.”

“When another blames you or hates you, or people voice similar criticisms, go to their souls, penetrate inside and see what sort of people they are. You will realize that there is no need to be racked with anxiety that they should hold any particular opinion about you.”

“Look well into thyself; there is a source of strength which will always spring up if thou wilt always look.”

“Do not indulge in dreams of having what you have not, but reckon up the chief of the blessings you do possess, and then thankfully remember how you would crave for them if they were not yours.”

“Never esteem anything as of advantage to you that will make you break your word or lose your self-respect.”

“Remember that very little is needed to make a happy life.”

“Nothing happens to anybody which he is not fitted by nature to bear.”

“Think of yourself as dead. You have lived your life. Now, take what’s left and live it properly. What doesn’t transmit light creates its own darkness.”

“You always own the option of having no opinion. There is never any need to get worked up or to trouble your soul about things you can’t control. These things are not asking to be judged by you. Leave them alone.”

“Don’t go on discussing what a good person should be. Just be one.”

“Whatever anyone does or says, I must be emerald and keep my colour.”

“Do not waste what remains of your life in speculating about your neighbors, unless with a view to some mutual benefit. To wonder what so-and-so is doing and why, or what he is saying, or thinking, or scheming—in a word, anything that distracts you from fidelity to the ruler within you—means a loss of opportunity for some other task.”

“If any man despises me, that is his problem. My only concern is not doing or saying anything deserving of contempt.”

“The happiness of those who want to be popular depends on others; the happiness of those who seek pleasure fluctuates with moods outside their control; but the happiness of the wise grows out of their own free acts.”

“Confine yourself to the present.”

“Your days are numbered. Use them to throw open the windows of your soul to the sun. If you do not, the sun will soon set, and you with it.”

“No one can lose either the past or the future – how could anyone be deprived of what he does not possess? … It is only the present moment of which either stands to be deprived: and if this is all he has, he cannot lose what he does not have.”

“Do not disturb yourself by picturing your life as a whole; do not assemble in your mind the many and varied troubles which have come to you in the past and will come again in the future, but ask yourself with regard to every present difficulty: ‘What is there in this that is unbearable and beyond endurance?’ You would be ashamed to confess it! And then remind yourself that it is not the future or what has passed that afflicts you, but always the present, and the power of this is much diminished if you take it in isolation and call your mind to task if it thinks that it cannot stand up to it when taken on its own.”

“When men are inhuman, take care not to feel towards them as they do towards other humans.”

“The time is at hand when you will have forgotten everything; and the time is at hand when all will have forgotten you. Always reflect that soon you will be no one, and nowhere.”

“So you know how things stand. Now forget what they think of you. Be satisfied if you can live the rest of your life, however short, as your nature demands. Focus on that, and don’t let anything distract you. You’ve wandered all over and finally realized that you never found what you were after: how to live. Not in syllogisms, not in money, or fame, or self-indulgence. Nowhere.”

"Free your mind and your ass will follow. The kingdom of heaven is within." -Funkadelic

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