MGTOW – 20 or 20k, it is worth it

[SolitudeParticipant 116]

Gerald wrote:

The errors I was meaning are the “co-habitate error”, the thinking a woman can understand love error, the error of believing we were both as invested in the relationship as the other, the error of marriage…

How blind we are to this in the beginning, yet how blindingly obvious it becomes by the end. Common errors that we are expected to accept. Congratulations to you for moving towards a new beginning.

“The more powerful and original a mind, the more it will incline towards the religion of solitude.” ― Aldous Huxley

[BrujahParticipant 579]

I myself am going through times my friend but I always come back to a place I know where I can gain the knowledge and support of my MGTOW brothers to give me that push I need.

Stay strong and live well.

[EscapedMentalPatientParticipant 1489]

Gerald wrote:

My life is still a mess, it won’t get better for a long time, but I see where my errors were. I see where I strayed from the path. And I see a path out. It isn’t a pleasant path, but truly worthy things are never easy. THIS site showed me that.

You could ensure that the remainder of your entire life is a mess, brother. A waking hell of uncertainty; a cloud of anxiety and a perpetual blanket of fear and self-loathing. You could continue to make choices which will ensure that you’ll never have control over your life, your being and even your faith and spirituality.

Or:

You could take respite in yourself, knowing that you have the fortitude and courage to choose a path of reclamation. Reclamation of your dignity, reclamation of a brotherhood and a sense of self you once felt and were robbed of. Robbed of slowly, like the drip of an expensive candle; wax waning away as the flame burns inevitably to a sputtering, cold-smoked cusp.

You’ve chosen redemption, brother. While this transition will undoubtedly bring challenge, questions and at times pain to your being, you’ve chosen this path among brothers. And we are proud and happy that you’re here.

We hope that you’ll stay. We hope you’ll stay for us. We hope you’ll stay to cleanse away the demons which have ruled your life. Most of all, we hope you’ll stay for you.

Prost, good man. You’re among those who will not bring you shame.

You’re among brothers.

Welcome home sir.

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