Phobia is an irrational fear of something safe (like safe tight spaces, safe darkness, household spiders, non-venomous snakes, etc – assumed perception of crippling danger when there is none), while fear of commitment to a s~~~ty person is completely rational feeling.
The situation described has nothing to do with fear at all – rational or irrational. It’s cold and calculated pump and dump. The only fear that PUA has – is the fear of a rejected bitch going crazy and doing something stupid. It is not in any shape or form a “relationship phobia”. Relationship haven’t crossed his mind at all. A poor snowflake is butthurt she’s been played and admits to her stupidity in print. She so self-absorbed, she cannot even comprehend how a man wouldn’t want a relationship with such a bright and beautiful nurturing columnist like her – it’s impossible! LOL
Women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are gatekeepers of relationships.
Suggesting that top quality men who won’t stay with you have a relationship phobia is as idiotic as suggesting that top quality women who won’t sleep with you have a sex phobia
Let’s reverse sexes and sex and relationship and see if it makes any sense:
Women with Sex PhobiaWhy are so many of them unable to give it up?
Having started as a promising flirt, the hopes come to a sudden end because the woman is terrified of sex…
There are women who have no idea about which way their life is going. To veil their insecurity, they try to seduce as many men as they can. They almost make an art out of living this way, while naive men believing in attraction walk right into their trap eagerly. After a few minutes, the woman starts to behave differently – and then he suddenly disappears. Of course, instead of thinking that the woman is terrified of sex because she does not know who she is, the man is wondering what is wrong with him, and how he drove off this wonderful woman.
Fears
These women usually feel too strongly compelled to give it up, which the man experiences as if the woman could read his mind. However, it is just a game that she plays to raise her status. The woman needs seduction to prove herself in her own eyes, to make herself believe that she can get what she wants. Nevertheless, her true personality comes to light after a while.
A “sex phobic” often does not know who she is and what she really wants. Most of the time it all goes back to problems in her childhood. Her slutty behaviour is nothing but a compensation and disguise for her problems. If a woman is unable to be a good lay to a man, it is mostly because she is still morbidly attached to her father, and views him as “The man”, or maybe she still have not been able to get over a great love in her past.
Unfortunately, if a man sleeps with such a woman, she is unlikely to change for his sake. To do so, she would have to realize that she has problems, and she would have to work on her personality, solving her problems, and finding her place in the world and society.
Why me?
A man who is attracted to such women is usually very dissatisfied, therefore he is looking, perhaps unconsciously, for a partner who makes him feel like a real man. He expects her to have multiple orgasms in order to strengthen his self-confidence. That is why when the sex is over, he is blaming herself instead of the woman.
7 signs of a woman with sex phobia
She is overwhelmingly attractive.
She is dressed slutty and flirts
She leads him on and then tells “Let’s be friends”
She doesn’t respond to your texts and calls
She tells him she is a NAWALT, and scolds her rude fellow women.
She tells you she has a boyfriend right off the bat, and that the two of them are a match made in heaven.
proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome
Rockmaninoff 3 years, 3 months ago.
