Men with “relationship phobia”

[guiParticipant 825]

The word phobia in modern society just became an euphemism to say that someone won’t do/react as told.

They try to get you agree to bad deals and to giving special rights to certain classes of people deemed as minorities and if you don’t you are a something phobic.

If they have to resort to euphemism in order to spread their message that says a lot about their honesty and the transparency of their goals.

Pity and contempt are siblings. You only feel pity for those you consider weak.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

It’s not a “PHOBIA”. Women only CALL it that.

A phobia is a FEAR of something.

But they can’t call it a “phobia” because it doesn’t take “courage” too be in a relationship/marriage. It requires stupidity. Consider a woman’s idea of a relationship…. where an unmarried man is expected to not bang other chicks and pay for everything.

What IDIOT would ever sign up for that?

“You have a commitment phobia”.

“You have a shut the f~~~ up, blow me and get the f~~~ out phobia. “.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[SkeptiskParticipant 3679]

Phobia? Really!! Is that all they can come up with?

Isn’t it more like in this picture?

"Expecting to find a decent woman on a dating site is like dumpster diving and expecting to come out with a gourmet meal." Won'tGetFooledAgain

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

Not so much a phobia as a ho-bia.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

sidecar wrote:

It’s not “relationship phobia”.

It’s called being “pumped and dumped”.

Because that’s all most women are good for.

Get used to it laydeez.

Its funny how pumping and dumping works. They are always happy when they are getting pumped. They are not happy when they are getting dumped. If they do the dumping to monkey branch to a perceived higher status male, they are happy though lol.

They just hate it when they are in a situation where the guy basically says your vagina isn’t good enough to keep me around, see ya!

[Oz-BlokeParticipant 3233]

That old adage ‘Why buy the cow when you just want the milk?‘ is so true, but still women don’t get why more-and-more men avoid the trauma of marriage, children, divorce and child-support – all disguised as life’s preordained ‘rites of passage’. F~~~ that ‘passage’ and the societal programming that promotes it. The shaming language of MGTOW will only increase in a desperate bid to lure us back onto the plantation. Like fuel on the fire, it only makes us stronger in our resolve and exposes the dirty tactics employed by the gynocracy –

#ManOut

[HitmanParticipant]

typical shaming tactics.
pay it no mind, as it will continue.
it’s the MEN’S fault, after all…
women never could have done anything to drive the men away…

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

narwhal wrote:

It’s not a matter of being ‘unable’, the word you should be using is ‘unwilling’.

Excellent.
Women don’t get it. It’s not that we’re unable to maintain a “normal relationship”, it’s more accurate to say we don’t want a “normal relationship”. My last “normal relationship” cost me a house, a car, and a pension plan.
In my last “normal relationship” my loving spouse who claimed to be morally and spiritually superior ran off with a member of the clergy.

It’s not a fear of relationships sweetie. It’s a fear of being financially destitute. I would prefer not to live in a tent after some bimbo takes my house.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Prefer Peace to Piece wrote:

Excellent.
Women don’t get it. It’s not that we’re unable to maintain a “normal relationship”, it’s more accurate to say we don’t want a “normal relationship”. My last “normal relationship” cost me a house, a car, and a pension plan.
In my last “normal relationship” my loving spouse who claimed to be morally and spiritually superior ran off with a member of the clergy.

It’s not a fear of relationships sweetie. It’s a fear of being financially destitute. I would prefer not to live in a tent after some bimbo takes my house.

So true man. I was talking to a coworker the other day who I’m pretty friendly with who often teases me about being single and is always trying to give me advice on how to “pick up chicks.” He said to me “I don’t get it man…you have to like sex like the rest of us, why do you not even try to date?”

I laid it out for him…named a few divorce raped coworkers we both know, and said I know a lot more guys just like them, and I don’t want to end up that way. I live cheap and save most of my income so I can retire in my 30s, at which point I can bounce around South America, Asia, and Eastern Europe and pretty much f~~~ and endless supply of 20 something year old women as I’ll be filthy rich by their standards. Maybe I don’t get much pussy now, but I’m playing the long game…I’ll get much more(and hotter) pussy over the course of my life time than I will if I get married when the odds are almost 100% that I’ll end up divorce raped or stuck with a wife that lets herself go and becomes so fat seeing her naked makes me dick limp.

I don’t think he’ll ever question my lack of dating life or give me advice on how to get women again. He’s on a second marriage, working his ass of picking up all kinds of overtime, and living paycheck to paycheck trapped with kids to a heavy woman. I could see it in his eyes as he processed what I was telling him that he realized I wasn’t a failure with women, I simply want to win at life…by the time I’m his age, I’ll be financially independent to the point I’ll hopefully never work another day in my life out of need for money, I’ll be having sex with hot, fit, younger women, and I’ll be living a life of leisure and seeing the world rather than spending way too much of my life punching a clock.

[GnosticParticipant 2491]

I have a phobia with the slave contract. I am not ashamed of that. Next.

There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.

[AttonParticipant]

When you are at the mercy of the tyrant that is a woman no fear is irrational.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[bladeParticipant]

Yer i got a real f~~~ing phobia.Never want to be gang banged in a court system.bye bye ladies i am done.

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Anonymous wrote:

I have a phobia about sticking my dick in a wood chipper.

Yep, you obviously don’t know how to please a woodchipper. You’re insecure because you don’t know what buttons to press or what angle to adjust the chute to. A real man would ENJOY watching his dick get eviscerated. In fact some chippers are better than others, you just need to find the right one.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[ZoidbergParticipant 965]

Thanks, people, you made me smile.

I wish I could just stop giving a f~~~ about s~~~ like this once and for all.

[ZoidbergParticipant 965]

OldBill wrote:

Seeing as it’s a local newspaper and seeing as the article is “infotainment” rather than actual news, that the piece was almost certainly written on spec by a freelancer for a wire service. That same article most likely appeared in other small papers the same week and will keep appearing for a few more years.

The source was a women’s magazine also owned by the newspaper’s publisher; the author was not named. You are probably right, though: same s~~~, different newspaper.

[OldBillParticipant]

Zoidberg wrote:

The source was a women’s magazine also owned by the newspaper’s publisher; the author was not named.

No byline and the same publisher owns both outlets where the piece appeared? That’s the smoking gun, Zoiberg. It’s definitely a piece of copy work produced on spec by a freelancer.

You should look into the publisher and see how many other small newspapers they own. I’ll bet you dollars to donuts that the piece appeared in those rags too.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Big BossParticipant 4496]

I have subscription to mass media phobia.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Beer wrote:

I could see it in his eyes as he processed what I was telling him that he realized I wasn’t a failure with women,

Oh it’s much more than that.

He realized you aren’t a failure with women, but he is.

Success is not a matter of how many women a man gets. Success is counted by how many women fail to get him.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

the short version of this article: If you won’t sign the slave contract, you are phobic (aka irrational coward).

short version of my response: If I’m a phobic coward, why would a woman even care if I was willing to commit to marriage with her? It isn’t as if she’d be interested in an irrational coward for marriage, is it?

All those monks in monasteries all over the world… None of them are ever called names like this. Those monks take a vow of poverty and have no money.

They are therefore left alone.

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

It’s all pure projection anyways.

Men aren’t afraid of commitment any more than they are afraid of a $200 cheese sandwich. Why would anyone be afraid of a sandwich? But $200 is way too much to pay for a cheese sandwich, especially if you don’t know it it’s gone moldy on the inside. The unimpressive sandwich simply is not worth it, so men walk away.

On the contrary, it’s women who are afraid. They are afraid of rejection. Abandonment scares the p~~~ out of them. They are terrified of being alone. Every single one of them dreads the thought of growing old and dying alone.

So when men refuse to assuage that fear of theirs by refusing them, women simply cannot handle it. Rejection completely freaks them the f~~~ out. But their egos will not permit them to admit they, themselves, might be responsible for their predicament. So they flail around desperately hamster wheeling up a way to try to make it men’s fault. And since fear is topmost on their minds, they decide men must be afraid as well. Afraid of commitment.

To cope with their own failure they project their fear onto men.

But that doesn’t make it true. It doesn’t even make any sense. But it is what they’re doing when they say men are “afraid of commitment.”

But that is not our problem.

On a related note, if you want to see a women get completely emotionally crushed, watch what happens when a man she accuses of being “afraid of commitment” turns around and marries some other woman. Suddenly she can’t pretend the problem is him any more. I’m not recommending any man actually do that. I’m just pointing out that it leaves women devastated.

And that is still not our problem.

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