Members Homage – Sometimes You Need a Break

[KeymasterKeymaster]

2015.05.12. Sometimes you need a break

Gents, you have been most gracious in your site appreciation. You guys should know how much you mean to us too. Occasionally a member will choose to step away for a bit, and it’s actually surprisingly hard to take – especially after being so active. It’s a good feeling to care, even when it pains.

Triklops, Crazy Canuck, Vile Nord, Willy (that’s not mentioning nearly enough) are all missed and still appear occasionally, but you really should know MGTOW.COM has a piece of your souls in it. Plato was the first to ever post – which was so exciting for us! – and he came back to wish us kudos on all the recent improvements. VileNord’s dedication to breathe life into a new forum was totally unbelievable – not to mention his silver tongue. Canuck brought relevant news & information as if he were CNN.

And every time Cap shows up to drop a hamster nuke….
Well, I was connected to him long before he knew I even existed. A thumbs up just isn’t enough.

You really are this website. When you guys are active and step away, I / we notice and it’s not easy. Apt to mention an example… when “Soulman” made an exit there for a while, it was damn-near soul-crushing when it seemed so absolute that he wouldn’t return. But he did, and we were all thrilled. The dude is a ray of sun around here and still manages to inspire in spite of what he’s been through.

Sometimes, you need a break and you should give yourself one too. We get that.

ElmoSpeed wrote to say he was disappointed when he came across some vile images someone tried to post (still have no idea what he is referring to), but he was really p~~~ed. Thicker skin is required, but this he couldn’t unsee. So the good – and bad – really affects everyone. We aim for incomparable website and community that’s really first class and fun to use – so that message was shattering. We all know it’s just as much fun to enjoy a little red-pill rage together, but when a member leaves, it can be gutting on a personal level. It’s as heartfelt as the joy of their arrival.

In case you notice some holes for in a thread where DOLLA-D used to be, he requested to be removed for a personal reason he didn’t share. It was difficult to hit the button since he was such a pleasant addition. His relaxed smile was everywhere. We exchanged messages and he was very upbeat with only positives about his experience here…but had a need to ghost for a bit. Said he would be back. Alerted him it would mean no posts he left would be attributed to him, but that’s the way he wants it. (deleted users get an “anonymous” label.)

With no intent to create or fuel drama or make a big deal out of it, I just want to keep this quiet thread to pay homage and inform as users may come and go. This isn’t a graveyard or anything. Just to answer questions or make a statement if you have any on this topic relating to members. We came and created with the lightest of hearts and its all intended to be very uplifting to – quite literally – save men’s lives, futures and fortunes.

I couldn’t be more sincere in thanking you for everything you do to maintain the kind of atmosphere we set out to create, for your efforts in welcoming new members, and helping out other men. You are the pulse of this place.

We wish you every tremendous success on your journeys.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[RennieParticipant]

Don’t forget the late ListenUp, haven’t seen him in over 2 months.

Sometimes I do also feel that I need to step back for a bit, but usually that’s only for a couple of days.

[Anonymous 1]

@keymaster

 

A couple of days ago, I wanted to start a new thread thanking you for this site, but decided not to because I don’t want to seem corny.  If I am not mistaken, I believe someone might have already done so. I was too lazy to search for it.  Now seeing you make this thread make me wish I have done it.  You are pretty damn awesome. haha Thank you.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Hey thanks @RyuHadoken. Yes a few called the thread “Site appreciation”.
We’re very grateful for that, and for your comment. Happy to have you here.
Big future ahead!

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

Cheers Rennie for your reminding. You know, the other day when I was logged in, I wondered about what ListenUp might be up to, so yeah in that sense I thought of him and remembered some of our interesting and inspiring exchanges we had. He was also one of the first few people who welcomed me here when I first joined on the forum… My  shout out to him: Be good buddy and I hope to see ya again in here eventually…!

 

Ned T.

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[RoyDalParticipant]

Part of going their own way is, well, doing what our absent friends did. I wish them well.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[mgtow_85Participant 752]

I didn’t go “ghost”. I had computer problems. LOL.

My laptop is now 7 years old and is starting to slow down and isn’t as effective or as much in working order as it was 18 months ago. Takes me 30 minutes for the laptop to power up after I turn it on. I have only a 50 percent chance at getting an internet connection, so if it doesn’t have one, I gotta turn it off and start all over again to get one. LOL. I hadn’t been on here for three weeks, so that was quite a sabbatical I took!

Plus, I work overnight shifts at my job and sleep through most of the day. My weekends are generally the only free time I have for much internet browsing. So I hope no one has gotten concerned with my absence on here so far. I’m still here…and not going anywhere!

Except right back to work after I catch some sleep in a little bit. Ha ha!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Yes of course I was referring to everyone! Listen UP , TOWER(!), Brain Pilot, RoyDal, Harpomason, HRPufNStuf, Cap, Experienced, Wave, Chaos 85, Ned, Rennie you know you all are. I couldn’t even begin to list everyone. The list is too long and distinguished. (Like my Johnson). Didn’t want it to be a mystery when Dolla-D’s posts had an anonymous label next to them.

Hoping those who are GTOW will do a fly-by and buzz the tower once in a while.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[DakotaParticipant 341]

Sure enough.  But there’s also this…I recently went away on business for two weeks and was so busy I barely had time to keep up on my porn addiction, let alone post.   By the time I got back, the whole site had transformed.  Gotta love the Gynocentric Bulls~~~ Genie!...[KM, can you turn the GBG into an Add-On tool bar for Firefox that allows me to report gynocentric violations, because I’d like to report THE WHOLE F~~~ING INTERNET!]

It’s strange how you get to know guys here and miss hearing from them, even when you don’t agree on a thread every now and again.  I do wonder about that Willy…I just know he’s in heaven kicking gynocentric-ass!

KM…can’t say enough about the site.  It blew me away when I stumbled upon it the first time and it just keeps getting better.  The fact that you haven’t kicked me out yet, and others, just proves how serious you are about letting men say it like it is.  Men bring a lot of their frustration with this f~~~ed-up world we live in and dump it on your doorstep.  After all this time here, I’m still surprised not to see the usually boiler-plate statement following my internet posts… “your comment was deleted because one feminist uni student from Berkley found it offensive.”  

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Dakota wrote:

was so busy I barely had time to keep up on my porn addiction, let alone post.

Nice.

And thanks for the kind words. Much bigger plans ahead.

Dakota wrote:

I’m still surprised not to see the usually boiler-plate statement following my internet posts… “your comment was deleted because one feminist uni student from Berkley found it offensive.”

Well, if this is good enough for The Washington Times……

http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2015/may/9/saida-grundy-boston-university-professor-white-mal/

…. then members here won’t have anything to worry about.

So who gives a f~~~ what a feminist finds “offensive”.
They think fresh air is misogyny.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 42]

Keymaster wrote:

quite literally – save men’s lives, futures and fortunes.

@KM, That’s why I’m here, mostly to warn others of the dangers in this relatively new social paradigm, I’ve known too many men slaughtered by this misogynistic legal system, just the other day I went to court in support of a close relative, I noticed a leaflet rack with all kinds of pamphlets addressing FEMALE problems, from rape to SNAP(food stamps), I’m going back at the end of the month I’ll grab some pamphlets and post them here, anyway I listened to testimony from 4 different women wanting restraining orders issued against you know who, MEN! Every one of them opted for the maximum 1 year, another woman 39 yr old, was there for embezzling, she wrote and cashed herself a few checks from some suckers account.

Rennie wrote:

Sometimes I do also feel that I need to step back for a bit, but usually that’s only for a couple of days.

@Rennie, You’re good egg, I wonder about Ninja James from time to time, he greeted me when I first arrived, I started reading like crazy when I found all this affirmation that lined up perfectly with my own experiences! Sometimes I see statements here that are so profound, but yet they have a slot to reside in my mind along with a life experience that supports it.

We can all agree we’re sick of all the bulls~~~, lies, and corruptions we have tolerated from the feminazi left! In here real guys get together and shoot the s~~~ without the presence of WOMEN! That’s what makes it so unique………..Thanks MGTOW.COM, you guys (WE) do SAVE LIVES!

[– Deleted on Request –Spectator 936]

KeyMaster:

 

Prof. Grundy is another good reason why the university tenure system must be abolished.

 

[Anonymous 11]

This is the only forum on the internet where it’s just like hanging around my male friends who do not bow before vaginas. This place makes me laugh, become angry, and most importantly learn. I felt alone until I discovered this place.

Our collective experiences in dealing with women are an incredible resource especially for the younger guys fortunate and wise enough to partake. We are the tip of the spear tearing down gynocracy. Being here is kind of like being in a peloton as we go faster as a group and the leaders of the moment can just always drop to the back of the pack and relax in the draft behind the other MGTOWs.

There is still so much work to be done. It is exhausting fighting against ignorance and bigotry. Whenever you feel weak and tired, look at any young boy as a big part of this battle for me is about securing his future to be a free proud man. As for the manginas, let them rot in peace. As for the White Knights, may they learn to stop fighting against wind mills.

[Vector VikingParticipant 413]

CP, Man, I wish I had more male friends irl who don’t bow before vaginas! Right now it’s basically just my brother and I. I’m thankful to even have that much. Makes me even more thankful that I can log on here whenever I feel like it.

 

[JinParticipant 77]

Right back at ya keymaster. I really do love this site. However, it is sad how people come and go…would’ve liked to met some of the guys you were mentioning.

"Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it"

[jack reacherParticipant 751]

Great post Keymaster.

I also feel the need to step away from time to time. Sometimes reading about the s~~~ that happens to males in a gyncentric society, or reading about the pervasive and unchallenged misandry can be a little overwhelming. Other times it is good to step back and let new members voice themselves, as often they have to work through the same learning curve as the rest of us. And as RoyDal pointed out, there is almost a planned obsolence inherent to MGTOW groups. There will inherently be a turnover within the MGTOW world as new men take the red pill, and more experienced MGTOW finally step away. Though,like others, I also greatly appreciate having a place to go to share thoughts with other men in a self regulating environment.

I see myself in a few years stepping away from participating in and supporting the gynocracry, getting away from the city and becoming more self sufficient.  When one steps away from the gynocracy, he can focus on more essential things than being fodder for that system. It could well be this is the ultimate measure or indication of MGTOW success.

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

It’s always been great to come on here either on my days off and/or after work and just vent, laugh, yell at the screen, or truly read and be humbled by other lives and nightmares some Men have lived. If anything this site is a breath of fresh air, and a place for Men to see that there is hope, and a light at the end of the tunnel.

 

I apologize for being away for awhile as well, due to a career change and time consuming schedule. No excuse though, like i said awhile back. If I just help one dude out, or inspire one person to grow and become better, I’ve done my duty!.  Mad Props to You Keymaster for dropping insane knowledge and just downright honesty in your posts.  I feel a lot of Men need to hear what You as well as other Men here have to say.

 

Thank you Keymaster and other Admins for making this site great, as well as an awesome place to kick back and let us Men be what we are, MEN. You guys do a great job, and the site looks like a million bucks as always. To me MGTOW is more then just an acronym, it’s a lifestyle, a lifestyle that can’t truly be explained, it just has to be LIVED.

 

So with that, I wish All of You the best!, stay cool!.

 

-Deus Ex Machina

 

 

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[Vector VikingParticipant 413]

One thing that I’ve become aware of recently is how the introductions thread on here is constantly filling up. Only the old guard on here could tell if that’s a new thing or not, but it seems to me like we’re growing, and fast. There are more of us out there that might not even know it, like the guy who just posted his intro that he’s been MGTOW for 4 years without knowing what MGTOW is. Exactly like me, even down to the time frame before I happened upon some MRA and AVFM youtubers, who I thought were leaning in the right direction but didn’t quite “get it” in a complete sense. They’re still clinging to NAWALT fantasies and fairy-tales, or taking refuge in irrational misogyny. Over here we’re just realistic about how to live better lives on our own terms. Point being that when a platoon grows into a company, and that company grows into a battalion, you’re gonna need a whole s~~~load of sergeants. I hope the more experienced guys that are taking breaks come back and help provide the leadership that we’ll need as we continue to grow.

[Anonymous 9]

Great site man.

Sadly, most of them probably ended up in relationships or marriage. If that’s the case then the rhetoric here is just too uncomfortable to digest.

 

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Keymaster wrote:

Didn’t want it to be a mystery when Dolla-D’s posts had an anonymous label next to them.

I noticed ListenUp’s posts are also unattributed now (I think).

Maybe the site needs another user status category: retired. That way members can bow out if they need to without all the confusion as to who wrote what when while scrolling back through the archives.

I think scrolling back through the archives can be very useful for young pre-enlightened men new to MGTOW, and as they are probably already in a confused and unhappy state, the less additional confusion they see while trying to mentally organize the wisdom here the better.

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