Married men suffered from dead bedroom sexual voilence

[Dirtydog73Participant 232]

Chuddox wrote:

I think most married men are fine with the lack of sex from their wife. Many probably welcome it. What bothers women is that those men stop pussy begging. Those women don’t have the same degree of control that they used to. These men start looking elsewhere for satisfaction (not just sexual), and they find it. Women (who can never seem to be satisfied with anything) in general don’t seem to have this ability. They stay dissatisfied in perpetuity. They then wonder what is point of being married if they can divorce and get money and have Chad at the same time. They think this will make them happy. So they take his money, and his kids, and most of his stuff, and then chase after Chad in search of happiness which is, of course ever elusive. She’s older now, so she is in the position of a man where her finances (his old finances) are now more attractive to a jobless Chad then her actual looks. When the money dries up, so does the affection from Chad (Hows does that feel bitch? Its what you just did to your ex) and soon enough she is broke, post wall, with no skills and no prospects. Meanwhile the kids are grown, the support has dried up, and the man is now living happy and free. Kind of poetic.

What a wonderful future……..my ex is about half way thru this story right now.

Fed, Fucked, Appreciated. The three simple things men want, but women will never grasp.

[GonzoZiiByrnnarParticipant 195]

Well Im not married but Ive been in a relationship for 8 years now. I love the dead bedroom syndrome, she hates it. I always took care of myself, and I told her I wasn’t big on sex. When she started taking less care about her appearance and without the possibility for kids, I became completely disinterested. We might have sex once month and I dread it. Our arrangement has become completely financial and “food” based. I hint to her nicely the reasons, but Ive never flat out told her. One day she’ll ask and I will tell her the truth she doesn’t want to hear. That will probably be the day she decides to leave. Oh well. I like being a hermit, never was a booty hound, and never will be.

Rule Of T.A.W.E.D. Trust a woman = Death

[experiencedParticipant]

Dirtydog73 wrote:

narwhal wrote:

Mine right there.
In the end it got mechnical….there was good connection and the ability to orgasm together etc all the good stuff….then it went downhill.I would come home from a two week stint away at work ,and yeah she would be up for it ,but she was

Laydeez grab their scoped rifle and aim upon hearing of a man who has a two week on two week off schedule.
You are prime beef.
She thinks “I only have to put up with him” half the month.
Yet she has financial support all month.
And while you’re gone …

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

experienced wrote:

Dirtydog73 wrote:

narwhal wrote:

Mine right there.
In the end it got mechnical….there was good connection and the ability to orgasm together etc all the good stuff….then it went downhill.I would come home from a two week stint away at work ,and yeah she would be up for it ,but she was

Laydeez grab their scoped rifle and aim upon hearing of a man who has a two week on two week off schedule.
You are prime beef.
She thinks “I only have to put up with him” half the month.
Yet she has financial support all month.
And while you’re gone …

F~~~ experienced.

I never considered that would be premeditated in the mate selection process. Makes sense – for military guys it’s not so much the man in uniform but the continued resources and not having you around so she can ride the carousel.

I was away from home a lot with a compressed schedule. Great opportunity to have a few boys on the side. Sickening.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[aeragoanParticipant 1186]

Mr. Spock wrote:

It is true. After the first year of marriage it wasn’t bad. I had sex every other day but every year that passed after that, the frequency of sex would become less and less. By the 7th year I was getting sex once a week and every once in awhile a 10 day sexless streak would show up. I tried telling my wife how disappointed I was in the decline of sex and she justified it with several comments;

“Jesus, you act like you NEVER get laid!”

“What’s your problem, you still get laid more than most guys your age.” I was 38 at the time.

“Well, I’ve talked to other married couples and it’s normal for the frequency to go down as you get older.”

I also started cheating around the 4th year of our marriage and one of the factors was the declining sex.
For those reading this who are on the fence about MGTOW, marriage does not guarantee sex. Before you get married she’ll be every porn star you ever witnessed all rolled up into one. She’ll do that just so she can get you to believe that THAT is what the rest of your life is going to be like with her and all you have to do is get married or at least let her move in with you.
Don’t take the bait. The moment you say yes is when she’ll start saying “no” and there isn’t a thing you can do about it without it costing you some major bucks.
And she knows it too.

I am sorry for you dude..thats why it is called sexual manipulation or sexual voilence

[experiencedParticipant]

Eyeswideopen wrote:

experienced wrote:

Dirtydog73 wrote:

narwhal wrote:

Mine right there.
In the end it got mechnical….there was good connection and the ability to orgasm together etc all the good stuff….then it went downhill.I would come home from a two week stint away at work ,and yeah she would be up for it ,but she was

Laydeez grab their scoped rifle and aim upon hearing of a man who has a two week on two week off schedule.
You are prime beef.
She thinks “I only have to put up with him” half the month.
Yet she has financial support all month.
And while you’re gone …

F~~~ experienced.

I never considered that would be premeditated in the mate selection process. Makes sense – for military guys it’s not so much the man in uniform but the continued resources and not having you around so she can ride the carousel.

I was away from home a lot with a compressed schedule. Great opportunity to have a few boys on the side. Sickening.

Many vets keep vet registration plates to get out of being given speeding tickets.
Gold digging where’s’ll park next to vet’s cars and “happen by” their car at the same time as you’re at your car. (sarcasm) Of course this is just sheer coincidence. I need to grow up and stop thinking this way (sarcasm/ 🙂 ).
Bulls~~~ – it’s not me, they see $$$$ in terms of medical/dental/retirement/commissary/BX -PX etc.
I bite my tongue wanting to ask, “Is your car paid off?” “Is that even an option?”

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

Experienced;

Totally makes sense.

It’s so elementary it just never occurred to me as a pre calculated, pre meditated act. Obviously, my brain has man-wiring, and it would never occur to me to mooch off anyone else. I guess I am still a little naive/idealistic.

I am taking the stance that if a woman is interested in me, she wants something either directly or indirectly. Its the detail of the scam that I sometimes find shocking.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

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