Man finds out his wife has been cheating for 10 years

[ClintParticipant 331]

http://www.hrtwarming.com/46-yeold-banker-finds-out-his-wifes-been-cheating-for-10-years-posts-this-on-facebook/

I’ll say that the guy has make some big mistakes in his life, but to blame himself for his wife cheating on him for 10 years is really just awful. Ideally, a life partner should be making you a stronger person, not sucking you dry and keeping a secret as big as that for 10 years. You have to be dead inside to keep a charade like that going for that long. Look into the eyes of your husband every day and pretend you love them for 10 years. What kind of sick, demented person can do that?

"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you into something else is the greatest accomplishment." -Ralph Waldo Emerson

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Clint wrote:

What kind of sick, demented person can do that?

I’ll tell ya. Ratted a bitch like that out to her husband. He was a good guy. We worked together. And he was BUFF. The dude was WORKED OUT. Not even the bulky muscle stereotype. Just in PERFECT shape… and really just…. well, a “nice guy”. NO WAY would she meet a guy in better shape for a fling. She didn’t screw around because the other guy was “hotter”…. or richer… or more of a jerk. In fact, it was rumored the guy she was shagging was hung like a gerbil too. She screwed around for years – right under his nose – because she could. They even knew each other.

It was as if the ONLY thing that got her off was the fact that it was “secret sex on the side”.

So one day I was working with the “nice guy” and I couldn’t see it anymore. I think what prompted it was something like Valentine’s Day was coming up and he was planning something special for her. So I told him. Of course, I was now “the great big f~~~ing asshole” that came between them. They were married more than 10 years. Two kids. F~~~in’ shame.

He just didn’t deserve it, you know. Not on ANY level.
I didn’t do a goddam thing wrong. Not sorry.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[AFTParticipant 2726]

That facebook post, reads like an ad for MGTOW. Poor delusional Blue Pill chump, hope he finds some Red Pills.

When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

[EntropyParticipant 902]

Geez, its a kick in the stomach every day with this type of s~~~.

I hate reading these stories about the monumental levels of BS women pull, but I’m afraid if I don’t I might someday underestimate one by mistake.

"Compare your lives to mine and then kill yourselves" -BBR

[KeymasterKeymaster]

AFT wrote:

That facebook post, reads like an ad for MGTOW

Damn right. We’ve added it here. /poster/lou/

The sentence that struck hard was “she says it’s because I changed”.
Well, that’s what she wanted him to do. Every man knows that:

• “I hate that old T-shirt you wear from college”….
• “No you can’t bring your favorite chair into our new house”….
• “Will you stop playing those video games, it’s so immature”….
• “Stop doing what you like. I’m bored.“….

Changing him is exactly what girlfriends and wives set out to do.
And then they BLAME you for it when you do.

WEDDING = AILSE + ALTAR + HYMN.

….AILSE……ALTAR…… HYMN…..

“I’ll alter him”.

And everyone laughs because they think it’s “cute”.
This video should be dedicated to HIM:

Women are dream killers is NO exaggeration.
And what do you end up with? A good for nothing cow that won’t even f~~~ you, who you now have to PAY to f~~~ off.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[ClintParticipant 331]

I took a shower and was thinking about it, and it seems like the problem is even bigger than the women. It’s the entire fake life that is sold to us since birth. Everyone is told what they are supposed to do, and if they don’t do it they are some kind of freak. Go to school, go to college, go to a grad program, get a nice career, a wife, 2.5 kids, a house and car, then if you’re lucky you live to 65. THEN FINALLY, you can retire and do what you always wanted! Yipee!

Just one small problem. You’re sixty f~~~ing five before you start doing what you really want to do! If you’re lucky you won’t be plagued with s~~~ty diseases, you have low energy, your body can’t do the things it used to. Chances are likely that you’re divorced giving half your money away. You could die any day if you haven’t taken good care of yourself. It’s A SHAM, and nearly everyone takes the bait.

This guy should be lucky to realize it at 46, let alone at all. Most people die full of regret. All the system has to do is teach it to you at a young age, then these people keep the limitations going themselves after that. Nobody is mastering any real skills anymore and doing cool s~~~.

It’s like that experiment where the dog or the monkey or whatever is in a cage and they just shock it constantly. Then they open the gate and it doesn’t even try to leave anymore. Well… they are shocking the s~~~ out of us in our youth, then we just stop trying after that. The real travesty is millions of men are living and dying thinking the most important thing they are going to do is inseminate a woman and let their kids grow up to hate their lives worse than they did.

F~~~ it, guys. If you aren’t doing what you enjoy today, you’re f~~~ing up. I’m not saying just get f~~~ed up every day because YOLO, but find something that looks interesting and master it for the hell of it. Do things that give you awesome experiences, don’t rot away until you’re asking yourself what happened to you like this poor guy. I know a lot of you have realized this already, which is why you’re here, but for those of you that haven’t… WAKE UP!

Changing him is exactly what girlfriends and wives set out to do. And then they BLAME you for it when you do.

And this guy probably had no idea it was even happening.

"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you into something else is the greatest accomplishment." -Ralph Waldo Emerson

[EdogParticipant 254]

Clint wrote:

You have to be dead inside to keep a charade like that going for that long.

I’ve seen some hardcore s~~~ firsthand. One of my oldest buddies was married for ten years, during which they had three kids. During the last two years, she openly cheated on him. Now, he wasn’t down with it and they separated as soon as she made it known. But still, she cheated on him the entire time from then up to the divorce, and pulled some crazy vindictive s~~~ along the way, such as keeping the kids on Fathers Day when he was scheduled to have them, and sending him a picture of her and the girls with the other guy in it saying “Happy Fathers Day…F~~~ YOU!!!”. That’s just f~~~ed up.

Most of them do have the appearance of being dead inside. Empty husks filled with nothing but materialistic obsession and emotional manipulation…oh, and shoes.

[EntropyParticipant 902]

Clint wrote:

It’s like that experiment where the dog or the monkey or whatever is in a cage and they just shock it constantly. Then they open the gate and it doesn’t even try to leave anymore.

Wow… it’s exactly like that. There may not even be a better way of describing it.

Edog wrote:

such as keeping the kids on Fathers Day when he was scheduled to have them, and sending him a picture of her and the girls with the other guy in it saying “Happy Fathers Day…F~~~ YOU!!!”

Not a single f~~~ing animal would do this type of s~~~.

Keymaster wrote:

Of course, I was now “the great big f~~~ing asshole” that came between them.

I’m not SAYING you’re batman… I’m just saying you’re the hero Gotham deserves, but not the one it needs right now. So they’ll hunt you. Because you can take it. Because you’re not their hero. You’re a silent guardian. A watchful protector. A Dark Knight.

"Compare your lives to mine and then kill yourselves" -BBR

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Clint wrote:

It’s like that experiment where the dog or the monkey or whatever is in a cage and they just shock it constantly. Then they open the gate and it doesn’t even try to leave anymore.

“Frog Soup“.

Married men are like Beaten Dogs. It’s like The Frog Soup Analogy.
– by Tom Leykis.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[ClintParticipant 331]

@keymaster

Eerie. If these ideas had no merit, then men wouldn’t constantly be reaching the same conclusion independently. We don’t need a group like feminists to tell us what to think. We all stumble upon these ideas on our own, usually from past experiences.

"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you into something else is the greatest accomplishment." -Ralph Waldo Emerson

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Clint wrote:

Eerie.

@clint It’s almost exactly a word-for-word testimony. WORD. FOR. WORD.

I passed your link on Canadian Sports Fan who was asking for advice – just yesterday – and told him it came from you.
/forums/topic/greetings-looking-for-advice/

Maybe you’ll save a life.
So thanks for bringing it.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[ClintParticipant 331]

@keymaster

Wow, hopefully he makes the best decision he can. The way I see it we are all in it together. It’s hard to talk to people in real life a lot of times because they always have their guard up, keeping the ego protected. Many thanks to you, KM. You’re giving a lot of people the chance to open their eyes to things that were invisible to them before.

"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you into something else is the greatest accomplishment." -Ralph Waldo Emerson

[GoneGaltParticipant 36]

Entropy wrote:

I’m not SAYING you’re batman… I’m just saying you’re the hero Gotham deserves, but not the one it needs right now. So they’ll hunt you. Because you can take it. Because you’re not their hero. You’re a silent guardian. A watchful protector. A Dark Knight.

 

ROFL

"You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength."

“The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane.”
-- Marcus Aurelius, Meditations

[BurgundyParticipant 1525]

Marriage = Death of a man’s dreams and ambitions.

His story is clear cut, hope he takes a red pill, and see the world for what it is, and hopefully check out this site, especially since he says he feels dead inside, that sort of is a red flag to me, sounds like numbness in emotion which could lead to suicide or other kinds of self destruction.

How to light a beacon for men like him though, and why does it always take a direct hit just beside a man, or on him, before he notices the danger he’s in?

Just yesterday, I had the displeasure of seeing a good fellow colleague get unfairly treated hardcore by some female higher up, and now reading this, makes my blood boil.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Entropy wrote:

I’m not SAYING you’re batman… I’m just saying you’re the hero Gotham deserves, but not the one it needs right now. So they’ll hunt you. Because you can take it. Because you’re not their hero. You’re a silent guardian. A watchful protector. A Dark Knight.

That was awesome. Big lolz

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

I no longer let women, female friends, female co-workers or female family treat me with anything but simple decent respect. So, I’m retired because of female abuse at work, no longer have a relationship with my sister and needless to say I am divorced.

Ameriskanks have been trained that they really are above men for the last 40 years. My mother who was born in 1930 is fair minded. Not a doormat, tough as nails, but treats men and women with the respect of personhood.

This training was on purpose to extract more money for less work from men. Modern women, foreign and domestic, are con artists looking for the next mark while they drain the last mark of every dime, well after the relationship is over.

In Florida they still have lifetime alimony and NOW is fighting tooth and nail to keep it. They are losing, thank god.

Many opposing the bill, some fighting back tears, called it an affront to women who are the majority of alimony recipients. Florida National Organization for Women Barbara DeVane said the bill will particularly affect older women who sacrificed their careers for their husbands to raise children and found themselves in their 50s and 60s divorced with little work experience or time gaps in their resumes.

“You are going to throw women and children into poverty with this bill,” DeVane said.

Proponents of the bill including Alan Frisher, of the group Family Law Reform, said his organization of 13,000 members want a change and tied his commentary to Gov. Scott’s Let’s Get to the Work campaign he ran on in winning a second term. He criticized the climate current alimony laws create.

“If you are a receiver, you don’t want to work in lieu of possibly losing that alimony gravy train, if you are a payer of alimony, you don’t want to work because you’re fearful of being brought back to court now that you are earning more money,” he added.

http://www.myfloridalaw.com/alimony/florida-alimony-reform/

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Affordable DNA testing has opened up a whole new barrel of monkeys!

This is an old story. There are Egyptian scrolls that predate the written Bible chronicling such events, mostly because of the legal entanglements that arose. The Old Testament of the Bible itself has a famous account, more than one come to think on it.

By the way, I personally have known a number of women who have gotten themselves knocked up outside of the sanctified bounds of holy matrimony. One actually bragged to me. Another had the wits to focus on men who had her husband’s general looks, eye, hair, etc. A GI I knew came home to find a baby not of his race awaiting him — no way to pass that one off as his, no DNA test required.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Big Viking Chef BVCParticipant 1286]

Wholly s~~~!  What if Keymaster really is Batman?  lol  Either way, he’s an exceptional soul.

@clint – You hit the nail right on the head:  Men around the world independently coming to the same conclusions.  It’s not coincidence.  It’s the truth.

BVC

 

Swallow this RED PILL ===> Men will lay down their lives for their brothers, their women and their children. This makes Men useful as slaves. Women will lay down their lives for ONLY their children. To expect more from women is just a FANTASY created by society and reinforced by the unconditional love that we experienced from our Mothers. The key to freedom is the understanding that the woman you meet is not going to fantastically love you like your Mother did. If you buy into the fantasy, then she is your new master. If you do not buy into the fantasy, then she is nothing, and you retain your freedom.

[Anonymous 9]

Man I think the last chick that I was seriously involved with carried on like that for a few years…

I remember her calling me one day, and saying her ex wanted to get back with her.

Then she goes on about how much she loved me, yada yada yada…

That was her guilty conscience because she probably had just f~~~ed her ex, and wanted to quell any notions of cheating on her behalf.

 

[TheOneWhoBeholdsWisdomParticipant 58]

What scared me since I am a young male is that reading his status it seems as if life/time passes you by so quick you hardly even notice it… That is absolutely frightening to me… I will heed his warning though… I hope the best for him.

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