Male Tears in the workplace

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Majin wrote:

narwhal wrote:

I disagree with Uly. You should do nothing, because you’re the new guy.

I suppose I should do nothing indeed… but man, it’s hard to let them spit on your face like that and just stand there.

Jesus took it while people spat and threw things in HIS face. If he can do it, why can’t you? Don’t allow them the satisfaction of victory.

[Anonymous 54]

If you counter attack, you will be at permenant war.

But if you go that route,

Get a paper coffee cup, and write the same thing, male version, on yours.

But you will have an angry, bitter, horny, ” work wife”

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22510]

Majin wrote:

Hi guys,

I’m on my 2nd day at a new job, one which I already knew my colegues and my boss, since I had my internship here for quite a long time while I was graduating.

I think it’s a recent thing (otherwise I would have noticed it before), but one of my co-workers has a “Male Tears” cup. I was familiar with some of them being open feminists, but I hadn’t noticed the shaming cup before.

I don’t think I should just sit in front of the cup and do nothing, since it’s clearly demeaning to men. But I also don’t want to overreact, since despite being a sexist provocation, it’s still just a cup.

I would appreciate suggestions on what I should do about it, what would be an appropriate response? A friend of mine suggested bringing a tit cup as mockery.

There’s a detail: I’ve been dating another co-worker (she got admited recently but we were dating long before that) for quite a long time. This girl I’m dating is somewhat anti-feminist and likes some anti-fem channels on youtube, but she’s very non-confrontational and would never call out a feminist, especially in the workplace. I also have no intention to involve her in the matter.

As long as co-workers don’t engage in intimate acts in the workplace, the bosses have absolutely no problem with co-workers dating; there have been other couples in the past and it was never a problem.

So, any tips?

Ghosting, No F~~~s Given, Grey Man, Stealth, zero unnecessary drama. This is work. Don’t f~~~ around at work. Get in, do what you need to, and get the hell out.

Now, on your LAST day, that cup,….

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Anonymous 54]

If she was getting the good f~~~ing that a girl really needs, she wouldnt have the cup there.

No Chad will even pound her…

Laugh at her sorry, unsatsisfide ass.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Make sure you are the last person out of the work site–and take a nice p~~~ in it—but then dump it out and replace the cup…trust me every time you see her drinking out of it after that it will bring a smile to your face.

[Manspread MansplainerParticipant 4222]

PistolPete wrote:

take a nice p~~~ in it—but then dump it out

Was going to suggest this. +1

Without knowing the details (floor plan, whether or not she’s been there 20 years, or f~~~s the boss etc.) I’d be tempted to go for the titty mug.
Or get a customized mug thats clever, maybe “Wage Gap” or “Tampon Tax” or something.

As others have said, don’t put a target on yourself. Discreetly p~~~ in her mug, fart in it then don’t rinse, or get a mug that says NFG on it.

What does NFG mean?
No fat girls.

Again, best to ignore and move on.
Then stick your bare ass in her mug and fart.

If women ran the world = It would become the shithole you are seeing.

[Anonymous 38]

Wipe your asshole with your finger tip and rub it round the rim of the cup.

Doc wrote:

It’s a f~~~ing nonsense tactic by a woman to shame men.

The best way to deal with it is ignore entirely.
Ignore to the point where even if the cup is mentioned you reply with ‘what cup’. When someone explains default straight back to ignorance of the cups existence.

Her – ‘you know the cup I just told you ablut’
You – ‘Nope, what cup is that?’

She explains and then says

‘Right, about that this cup’

You – ‘what cup’s that?’

Excellent game sir.

[BubParticipant 1404]

take a s~~~ in it……

Just rolling down the road

[Anonymous 12]

Put a complaint into HR they have to deal with it even if they agree with the cup.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22510]

Anonymous wrote:

Put a complaint into HR they have to deal with it even if they agree with the cup.

I get that idea, but he may as well quit because they will find any technicality to get rid of him.

Now if HR was against the cup,…but I doubt that.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

PistolPete wrote:

Make sure you are the last person out of the work site–and take a nice p~~~ in it—but then dump it out and replace the cup…trust me every time you see her drinking out of it after that it will bring a smile to your face.

This one…By doing this you wont be bothered by the cup…That cup will always put a smile on your face every time she drinks from it…Would cheer you up everyday…just dont tell anyone…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[SkelatorParticipant 1261]

Wait until everyone leaves the office. Take the cup home. Get the smallest drill bit you can find, maybe .0190 diameter. Drill tiny pin head hole in the bottom of the cup. Clean up the evidence on the cup. Go to worker really, really early. Replace cup after it’s been wiped for finger prints and DNA. Sit back and watch.

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

Let’s see. You are fresh out of school and landed a job where you interned.

And, the first thing you are going to do is f~~~ with someone like a c~~~ would.

You have a long road ahead of you if every petty thing gets you butt hurt.

Why don’t you concentrate on doing your job first?

I have seen hundreds of men lose their job over stupid stuff. This is stupid childish stuff.

Learn to do nothing stupid first. It won’t end well either way but atleast you did nothing stupid.

On a serious note, of the hundreds that lost their job only 25 or so committed suicide.

Start off as you intend to go.

BTW, most work sites are covered with cameras. They caught a guy at my company p~~~ing in a water bottle and emptying it in the drinking fountain. Lazy dumb ass hole. Whole thing on film. Bye, bye.

Peace brothers

[JakeParticipant 908]

its a trap matey

[SkelatorParticipant 1261]

DorkShit wrote:

Let’s see. You are fresh out of school and landed a job where you interned.

And, the first thing you are going to do is f~~~ with someone like a c~~~ would.

You have a long road ahead of you if every petty thing gets you butt hurt.

Why don’t you concentrate on doing your job first?

I have seen hundreds of men lose their job over stupid stuff. This is stupid childish stuff.

Learn to do nothing stupid first. It won’t end well either way but atleast you did nothing stupid.

On a serious note, of the hundreds that lost their job only 25 or so committed suicide.

Start off as you intend to go.

BTW, most work sites are covered with cameras. They caught a guy at my company p~~~ing in a water bottle and emptying it in the drinking fountain. Lazy dumb ass hole. Whole thing on film. Bye, bye.

Note to self: Disable security cameras.

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