looks like my core is still blue…

[treznik87Participant 570]

We tend to play mind games. “Wouldn’t it be great if we were together and she loved me?”

Yes, thats exactly whats going on. Also Im thinking she may be different to him. Everyone says the next guy is surely going through some similar or same s~~~ I did but I dont see it that way.

The guy she had before me was 10 years older, the guy she has now is 5 years older… I just cant believe that a guy at that age (mature guy) would put up with so much bulls~~~ as i did. I highly doubt that (or maybe im really just looking at this situation through red pills eyes now. Its always easy to be a general once a war is over).

I mean I know i will never let myself to be in similar position again. Too emotional draining. The worst part is when you stay in relationship like that you are disrespecting yourself, and she knows it very well. And i know if she doesnt respect the guy she cant ‘love’ him…

Im blaming my inexperience (she was my first) and a big mangina in me back then. I hope that mangina died with the relationship.

[Eric LauderParticipant 12053]

Anonymous wrote:

There is a little blue pill monster in all of us. You’re moving forward, and that is all that matters.

It does hurt to see an ex out with a new guy. Trust me, she will do to him exactly what she did to you in time. It’ll be even worse if he marries her. Celebrate him as he took a bullet for you.

This.
We all have a part that is blue pill.

You’re defined by your actions, not by some desires you can have during a short moment of weakness.

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[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

I am dealing with a similar experience as yourself; I have been out of my marriage almost twice as long. It does get better with time.

I was summarily discarded after devoting the better part of a decade to spinning plates, jumping through hoops as she slowly titrated down affection. When I questioned if anything was wrong I was repeatedly told everything was fine – made to feel the problem was with me. Her passive aggressive nature nearly destroyed me. It does not feel nice to be summarily replaced – in all likelihood for a lessor Chad.

I think you are dealing with a conflict between the emotional – pair bonding brain and analytical brain. The analytical brain realizes you were abused, manipulated and are better off without the bitch. The emotional brain fixates on the subjective feels you held about the relationship; the faux feelings of companionship. Unfortunately, this is not reality – it is a mirage, rooted in evolutionary development.

It’s ok to grieve the loss of the dream. I am. But realizing reality, I think, is red pill. Not accepting one sided, callous treatment, is red pill. Not indenturing yourself to slavery and sacrificing yourself on the alter of relationships, is red pill. Even having this struggle is red pill as most are not self actualizedd to question their predicament.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

The only mangina you have to fight
is the inner mangina.

[SolidusXParticipant 854]

I used to get like that way back in the day about a girl but I came up with a simple trick to get my mind off of it and back to feeling good about myself…. Simply remember every bad s~~~ty thing they did and those mangina feelings you have over her are instantly gone… I know for me it works like that.

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

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