Longest Period of Time with No Sex

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

DarkRyu wrote:

Never had sex, never plan to. I’m 27. It hasn’t adversely affected me. I take care of myself and have no desire to have a bitch in my life. When you orgasm, your dick doesn’t know the difference between your hand or a pussy. It’s all in your head.

Yup.

But you’re wallet will sure know the difference.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

5032 Days and counting… gets Easier and Easier-

Not that 9 years of marital sex before that was anything too hot.

My sexual career is rather Pathetic- but I am saving myself – for myself!

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

[Anonymous 0]

Abstinence is commendable. Abstinence doesn’t make you mentally unwell. The luxury of solitude and independence is well worth the cost of abstinence. If sex happens, it happens, but it’s not the end all be all of life, and the sex drive is for the benefit of the species, not the individual.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Broke up with my last girlfriend at 27. 35 now. 8 years and counting!

If I never have sex again it wouldn’t be a big deal to me. You tell some people you’ve been celibate by choice for 8 years and they’d think your nuts…for me its better than f~~~ing a bunch of nuts, because that is what women are. Sex is enjoyable and all…but if I average 5 minutes a day with my dick in a pussy, having a great 5 minutes isn’t worth making the other 1,435 minutes of my day worse because I’m in a relations~~~.

At this point though I’m setting myself up to retire by 40 and spend some time living abroad…so I’ll just end up somewhere I can pay like 5 USD for a happy ending massage whenever I feel like it. Its cheaper than a wife that way, I can get it on demand, and I don’t have to deal with any bulls~~~, drama, or endless s~~~ testing…so at this point why the f~~~ would I ever consider a long term relations~~~ with a woman or allowing a woman into my life in any capacity that could compromise my future plans?

[daveb48Participant 78]

For me it’s been 30 years. I was more or less forced into celibacy at the age of 40 (I’m 70 now) when my wife’s daughter began making noise about the fact that we were “doing things she should only be doing with her dad.” Whether or not she would have actually taken any action on this is unknown but being a public service employee I knew that the outcome of any investigation, whether I was proven innocent or not, would have been the loss of my career and possibly my freedom. I took this step myself. Have I regretted it? Lots of times. I miss the intimacy, the sensuality, all the physical and emotional nuances of sex. I cannot lie about that.
My stepdaughter eventually outgrew her brattiness. Unfortunately, she passed away. Now my wife refuses to let me touch her – not even a goodnight kiss – so I am left to my own devices.
Would I do it again if I could go back in time? The truth is I don’t know. I might have become bold enough to challenge the little princess and let Social Services sort it out, but then I might wind up as some serial killer’s prison bitch. I’ve been following the posts here and maybe I’m better off as it is. I don’t have all that sex baggage to carry around and I don’t worry anymore about pleasing my partner. That’s off the table.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

daveb48 wrote:

For me it’s been 30 years. I was more or less forced into celibacy at the age of 40 (I’m 70 now) when my wife’s daughter began making noise about the fact that we were “doing things she should only be doing with her dad.” Whether or not she would have actually taken any action on this is unknown but being a public service employee I knew that the outcome of any investigation, whether I was proven innocent or not, would have been the loss of my career and possibly my freedom. I took this step myself. Have I regretted it? Lots of times. I miss the intimacy, the sensuality, all the physical and emotional nuances of sex. I cannot lie about that.My stepdaughter eventually outgrew her brattiness. Unfortunately, she passed away. Now my wife refuses to let me touch her – not even a goodnight kiss – so I am left to my own devices.Would I do it again if I could go back in time? The truth is I don’t know. I might have become bold enough to challenge the little princess and let Social Services sort it out, but then I might wind up as some serial killer’s prison bitch. I’ve been following the posts here and maybe I’m better off as it is. I don’t have all that sex baggage to carry around and I don’t worry anymore about pleasing my partner. That’s off the table.

So essentially you live with a tuna-scented roommate.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Having sex means s~~~, not having it holds no meaning, having it holds no meaning, is like spitting, or scratching an itch, means nothing and it abcense or presence holds no merit, value or importance, mehhh.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[narwhalParticipant]

daveb48 wrote:

For me it’s been 30 years. I was more or less forced into celibacy at the age of 40 (I’m 70 now) when my wife’s daughter began making noise about the fact that we were “doing things she should only be doing with her dad.” Whether or not she would have actually taken any action on this is unknown but being a public service employee I knew that the outcome of any investigation, whether I was proven innocent or not, would have been the loss of my career and possibly my freedom. I took this step myself. Have I regretted it? Lots of times. I miss the intimacy, the sensuality, all the physical and emotional nuances of sex. I cannot lie about that.My stepdaughter eventually outgrew her brattiness. Unfortunately, she passed away. Now my wife refuses to let me touch her – not even a goodnight kiss – so I am left to my own devices.Would I do it again if I could go back in time? The truth is I don’t know. I might have become bold enough to challenge the little princess and let Social Services sort it out, but then I might wind up as some serial killer’s prison bitch. I’ve been following the posts here and maybe I’m better off as it is. I don’t have all that sex baggage to carry around and I don’t worry anymore about pleasing my partner. That’s off the table.

Can you clarify the bold part? Who is ‘she’? Your wife or your step daughter? I can’t tell if the daughter is saying you shouldn’t have sex with your wife, or accusing you of molesting I child. If it’s the former, how in the world would this be considered illegal? If it’s the latter, than why would being abstaining from your wife had any impact at all?

I’m sure you care for your wife and daughter, but they sound like absolutely horrible people who have spent a life time abusing and controlling you emotionally.

Ok. Then do it.

[daveb48Participant 78]

Sorry, I should have been clearer. The daughter was saying I shouldn’t have sex with my wife. I realize there is nothing openly illegal about that, but the daughter would have told social services that she could hear us and, given the blatantly anti-male bias of our social services department, that would have meant instant arrest. Legally married wouldn’t have mattered to them. They only hear “sex, not my Dad, I hear them through the closed door.” Married or not, I am a man and that automatically makes me a criminal.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

daveb48 wrote:

Sorry, I should have been clearer. The daughter was saying I shouldn’t have sex with my wife. I realize there is nothing openly illegal about that, but the daughter would have told social services that she could hear us and, given the blatantly anti-male bias of our social services department, that would have meant instant arrest. Legally married wouldn’t have mattered to them. They only hear “sex, not my Dad, I hear them through the closed door.” Married or not, I am a man and that automatically makes me a criminal.

I would have pushed the issue, let my self get arrested. Then I would have found the stupid f~~~er at the social services department that was unreasonable, and targeted the people that they love.

The way to deal with evil people, is to find the people that they love, and make those people die screaming.

If that means being killed by the authorities, so be it. I’d rather die on my feet, than live on my knees. And if I’m going to die on my feet, I hope I make the person who tried to make me live on my knees, suffer greatly.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[narwhalParticipant]

daveb48 wrote:

Sorry, I should have been clearer. The daughter was saying I shouldn’t have sex with my wife. I realize there is nothing openly illegal about that, but the daughter would have told social services that she could hear us and, given the blatantly anti-male bias of our social services department, that would have meant instant arrest. Legally married wouldn’t have mattered to them. They only hear “sex, not my Dad, I hear them through the closed door.” Married or not, I am a man and that automatically makes me a criminal.

What country do you live in? If in the US, this is utter nonsense. You cannot be arrested for having consensual sex in your home just because someone else living in your home hears it. The fact the woman you’re having sex with is your wife only adds to your case. Your daughter feeling that it’s wrong is irrelevant. The fact she is not your biological daughter is irrelevant. Even if this age where the law is against man, a daughter does not need to give consent for a man to have sex with her mom.

Let me take a guess as to what really happened. Back when you were dating your current wife, everything was great. She was willing giving sex and presenting herself as the perfect potential wife. She made you feel comfortable that her daughter would not interfere with their relationship. Then you get married, and everything changed. Your wife convinces you that you should give in to the daughters demands, only temporarily, to give daughter a chance to get used to accept the change. You gave in because your a man who will make sacrifices for his family. You figured that it wasn’t worth fighting over in the long run. It will all change and you’d be appreciated for you sacrifice. It’s better to just go with it.

Except it wasn’t just temporary and you’ve never been appreciated. If you bring up the possibility that it might not be fair to you, you’ll be shamed and ridiculed as sexist and selfish. Your wife expected you to look at her needs while she gave you nothing in return. And she still has no concern for you.

This fear of legality, of being arrested, is your way of dealing with it. You’re the victim. You had no choice. You couldn’t stand up for myself. Wrong. No more excuses. You accept your role in life. It’s on you.

And to clear, I’m comfortable with this because I’m familiar with it. I was married too, and my ex changed overnight once married. She had a kid as well. While dating she deferred to me. She would put him to bed and let him scream till he fell asleep. After we were married, she insisted that she needed to lay down with him, and would fall asleep most nights with him, instead of me. She told me that a real man wouldn’t be bothered by this, and all her friends did the same. It didn’t change till we had a kid of our own and she just couldn’t do it anymore. And that’s just one example. Many of us here are familiar with the scenario. Different details, same story.

Ok. Then do it.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

All marriage means to a wife is an end to her need to try and act like a decent human being. The fact that women push so hard for “commitment” indicates they really don’t value having to act like a decent human being.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

I especially liked this! THANKS

Aposematic wrote:

I am saving myself – for myself!

and this!

Anonymous wrote:

Abstinence doesn’t make you mentally unwell.

[StealthParticipant 5340]

From appx age 7 or 8 (I was an early bloomer), til age 16 (if French kissing is involved, otherwise til 21).
But no new gamenes in the last year and a half, just a few ex gfs in orbit. It’s a sign that I see people more for what they are.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

Stealth wrote:

(if French kissing is involved, otherwise til 21).

LOL, yeah French Kissing isnt really sex, my bad!

Considering this thread, I’ve also come to remember that sex really wasn’t all it was cracked up to be. Yeah, its great but shortlived.

After sex there’s always that lingering sense in the air that she now believes she is owed something. Like she has the upper hand now and you’re in her pocket.

[HermitParticipant]

Gravel Pit wrote:

After sex there’s always that lingering sense in the air that she now believes she is owed something. Like she has the upper hand now and you’re in her pocket.

Pay her up front so you can just leave when it’s over.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Anonymous 38]

Six months. Who cares.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Meh
I actually wasted a few minutes thinking about the time frame in the “title” question (the answer is 9 years), and about an hour thinking about the reasons why.
The primary reason for me is that I refuse to expend the vast amounts of energy required to pursue a vague hint women give regarding the possibility of having sex. Seriously, I have yet to meet a woman that will take the chance of initiating or explicitly stating her willingness to have sex for the sake of just having sex with no other agenda.
Given the choice of expending time/energy/resources on the various rituals/efforts/demands of the women I have met so far, for the possibility of me doing all the work in f~~~ing them, or taking a nap (or anything else for that matter), anything else wins.
Everyone plays games in life, my game is I dont play them.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Grumpy wrote:

The primary reason for me is that I refuse to expend the vast amounts of energy required to pursue a vague hint women give regarding the possibility of having sex.

Its not that hard though…just get on Tinder and have low standards. To actually get a quality woman though, I’m not really sure how hard it would be because I can’t even find one.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

exactly, if I wanted to break my streak bad enough… I WOULD… I reject the notion of incel. But like BEER said, talking a decent one into bed is a little different.

Dumpster C~~~s racking up Bedpost Notches are a dime a dozen. This is why Incel makes absolutely no sense to me (oh and the term was invented by a C~~~..)

I get p~~~ed when Stardusk and TFM dont rightfully acknowledge this. They say, you dont understand, there are Men with burned off faces, obese or stuck in a wheel chair. And to that I say, there are women like this as well, AND WORSE. Just because women in general are permitted to date up (since they ultimately control when sex occurs). This doesn’t mean they wont f~~~ their peers… they instinctively want sex, and when face burn, fat woman, fugly c~~~ wants a steady c~~~, suddenly Mr. Self Proclaimed Incel isn’t so bad afterall.

I saw a young fat woman in a permanent wheel chair situation yesterday. Her face wasn’t bad at all. Once she realizes that MOST men wont even one-night stand her, she will go steady with a “incel” so the term is BUNK… Incels CAN get laid. Its their mentality and confusion that is the problem, that and the fact that Incel is a propagandic term used to deflect shame onto men for the low SMV of women.

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