Longest Period of Time with No Sex

[Gravel PitParticipant]

From what age to what age, were you sexless? *see what constitutes sex

How long was the longest stretch of having absolutely no physical intimacy with a woman?

***This includes all physical contact like four-play, oral sex, dry f~~~ing, nudity/showering with a woman, sleeping in the same bed, french kissing etc… The only thing it doesn’t include are those weird two-second hugs women do informally to greet people. A peck on the cheek also doesn’t count because its weak, and used as a greeting.

Do men actually need cuddles? Most of us hardcore MGTOW like to say, we don’t need it. However, I’m beginning to have doubts or maybe I should say, mild concerns. Many of you have ‘friends with benefits’ and other side women you keep at a distance and frequent them physically. Some of you are PUAs. Still others here are actually still married so I reckon you get puuntang at least once every few months. Some of you use hookers, whether its legal or not in your country. Some of you still date the regular way or use Dating Apps…

But how many men here (and what ages) have gone a decade without being naked under the covers with one? What has it done to you? Do you have dreams or negative emotions? Did it cause lingering sadness?

I’m almost 6 years without being physically intimate with a woman. All levels of intimacy have been absent, not just full-on penetration but none of the above mentioned that would count, have occurred either.

My celibacy stretch has lasted from age 27-33. Sometimes I wake up from a nap or in the morning with a certain sullen attitude, sort of like a fear. A sort of longing (perhaps just horniness or lust) but also a concern I will never get any ever again (which is absurd but I still get that feeling) or that I am giving up something which I cant later retrieve at an older age, like an LTR. On the other hand, Im very satisfied with my mgtow freedom and that happiness/solace Ive been afforded. I remember vividly the terrible suffering and emotional torture that a woman inflicted on me daily when I lived with one in my mid-twenties– the tiptoeing and surrender to her, to appease her and avoid any outburst from her. I don’t have to live censored now. But it seems there is still a primal yearning to be with one.

Anyway… Don’t pick on me, I’m just opening up a little. I’m not dying inside or anything. I service myself. However I wonder what your take on it may be. Do you think it can make you retarded or depressed, to actively deny such a natural impulse? Psychologically, its highly contrary to your natural drive to shut down those impulses, to deny that avenue. I’m wondering if this could have lasting neurotic implications. If you look at someone like Collin Combover in a Coma you can see that prolonged sexless periods make you retarded. LMAO. Just kidding Colin!

In conclusion, and to sedate any alarm I’ve caused you by bringing a topic like this up… I will say its my understanding that most men like us, end up getting a lot of sex in our late 30s and well into our 40s. That the several years (even a decade or two) of being ignored by women suddenly reverse and women practically throw themselves at you.

The real time for testing your resolve happens. Will your knowledge of AWALT be forgotten? Or will you enjoy the wet season after being such a long desert dweller? … and not be lured by the Sirens?

Thanks –Blue Lagoon below, lol, Brook Sheilds

[Colin Combover in a ComaParticipant 5067]

I may be a retard, but I am always hard!
Yes, it has been many a nano since my large one was positioned in the vicinity of the fairer sex.
I use chat lines. “Ruth”, the uncouth, no longer a youth sabretooth is a personal favourite.

A quick release of the tadpoles and then I am ready to go about my day perplexing the masses with my despicable self.

[narwhalParticipant]

Eh I think it’s been a year and half. Two maybe? Sex is great, but not the end all be all of it. Living alone, I do have lonely moments, but it’s less about relating with a woman as it is about having shared memories with a human being, if that makes sense. I enjoy time by myself, but also enjoy time just hanging out with someone, and that is not always possible.

One thing that modern feminism has changed about society is the taboo of adult men spending quality time together. Married men are supposed to be spending time with wife and kids, little or no time with friends. And married men are not supposed to get too friendly with single men, less they be corrupted.

We’ve been trained to interpret these emotions we have for companionship as a need to be in a relationship with a woman. That we long to give ourselves up to her. That’s not it, it’s just a need to connect from time to time. That human could be a woman, but it’s very difficult to do that without it being a relationship of sorts and then you’re expected to be miserable for her benefit.

Ok. Then do it.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Not long since I was 17 , married at 24 saw hookers after a few years as she bored me , just hire a hooker now if I feel like it.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

narwhal wrote:

Eh I think it’s been a year and half. Two maybe? Sex is great, but not the end all be all of it. Living alone, I do have lonely moments, but it’s less about relating with a woman as it is about having shared memories with a human being, if that makes sense. I enjoy time by myself, but also enjoy time just hanging out with someone, and that is not always possible.
One thing that modern feminism has changed about society is the taboo of adult men spending quality time together. Married men are supposed to be spending time with wife and kids, little or no time with friends. And married men are not supposed to get too friendly with single men, less they be corrupted.
We’ve been trained to interpret these emotions we have for companionship as a need to be in a relationship with a woman. That we long to give ourselves up to her. That’s not it, it’s just a need to connect from time to time. That human could be a woman, but it’s very difficult to do that without it being a relationship of sorts and then you’re expected to be miserable for her benefit.

I agree I have a few pals we fish with and have beers , way more fun than being with a women for company , women’s only offer to men is sex , I was told that a few years ago and as a semi blue pill I never took it to be 100% true , but it is .

If you are with a women she will be taking resources off you , I have a pal who buys his sister a decent present every year , she calls him asks him what he ‘needs ‘ he says he needs nothing , so she buys him nothing .. he plays golf and drinks scotch , so a bottle or a sleeve of b~~~~ is easy… women take that’s it …

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

I think it was 6 weeks, after the ex had given birth.

If I didn’t have a gf, it would be forever. (I’ve lost all interest in sex). The gf has initiated all encounters the past few months.

Honestly, I’d rather play chess or video games.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

good logic Im reading. I can always count of level-headed responses. Thanks yall

[Colin Combover in a ComaParticipant 5067]

Gravel Pit wrote:

good logic Im reading. I can always count of level-headed responses. Thanks yall

Another tenner(£10 pounds) down the drain at the weekend phoning that bastard horny housewife.
I keep telling myself to stop, but she whispers wanton that is a delight to my Cochlea.

[EndParticipant 262]

I’m 47 now and haven’t had any contact with women what so ever in over 16 years. Turns out to be one of the best decisions i’ve ever made. Between the ages of 18 and 31 it was sex 5 times a day every day minimum during those years. Although that seems like a good idea when your young, dumb, and full of cum it was in fact fool hearty. I got lucky that I didn’t get any of them pregnant.
Even though I understood from an early age that the purpose of the human female is to usurp the resources of the male and the purpose of the human male is to create, that does nothing to stop you from satiating the infinitely powerful drive to fornicate.
Thankfully I’m long past the point of no return now. I could never go back to having a woman around. Once you see their true nature, once they expose what they truly are,,,,there is no amount of testosterone or anything else that could get me interested. It’s an interesting experience actually because now a days I get sick to my stomach if I’m even within 3 ft of one. Quite a change from when I was a hormone fueled kid. Live and learn I guess. Glad there wasn’t any major damage over the years. Came out reasonably unscathed.
Monk for life.

[WPLParticipant 2390]

Completely Monk for about 3.5 years now. Gets easier as more time passes.

[Gravel PitParticipant]

I think I need to play with fire a little. Create a burner relationship. Get some real good sex in. Then scuttle the boat and blend back into monk mode.

I haven’t done this because, yes its somewhat risky… but mostly because its a HASSLE.

I have to listen to a gash speak and pretend to care. LOL. I guess it could be fun if I play along…

[HermitParticipant]

I love sex, so much so that I am often willing to hang around this gal or that gal and put up with a little bulls~~~ to get what I want. I always have one or two I consider prospective. In fact, later this evening I plan to see what this devious young gal is willing to do for attention.

However, if I never had it again for the rest of my life, I’m not too worried about it. I think about it often, before going to bed and upon waking in the morning. I love it, but I’m not as young as I once was and therefore, it’s not as fun as it used to be so subsequently, it’s not that big of a deal anymore. I can’t remember what the longest period without it was, but the older I get, the less I get and it just doesn’t matter that much anymore……..unless this gal turns out to be a prostitute then I’ll be spending a lot of money soon.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[HermitParticipant]

Gravel Pit wrote:

I haven’t done this because, … mostly because its a HASSLE.

This is the reason I’ve turned down some opportunities. I’m willing to put up with a little hassle from them, but hell, a snifter of brandy, a good cigar, a warm breeze…….just as good as laying with a woman. There’s always going to be some hassle. Just choose the one that offers the least resistance. If this one I’m doing reconnaissance on is what I think she is, I’m bangin’ the bottom out of it.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[JB BooksParticipant 3182]

Been a long time and I’m o.k. with that. Not gonna go chasing juice that ain’t worth the squeeze. That said, wouldn’t rule out a vacation in Thailand at some point in the future.

We just don't realize life's most significant events while they're happening. Back then, I thought, "Well, there'll be other days". I didn't realize that that was the only day. - "Moonlight" Graham

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Well you could always go f~~~ some women in Venezuela:

https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-55510.html

Pussy there in 2016 was about $1.38. I can only imagine it has gone down in price.

Maybe bring a few Snicker’s bars as payment, and then you can cum down her throat in case she needs some more protein than a candy bar provides.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Silver FoxParticipant 2766]

I’ve been totally Monk since Christmas 2014. I have made peace with the fact that this will probably be the rest of my life.

"Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife." --Apostle Paul

[hmskl’dParticipant 6407]

I live in the sticks, my neighbors are all Amish. Everything very quiet around here.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22534]

At least 10+ years and counting.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22534]

Silver Fox wrote:

I’ve been totally Monk since Christmas 2014. I have made peace with the fact that this will probably be the rest of my life.

The idea of women is so much better than actual women. At least as they are now. They are absolutely horrid and unattractive, predatory – in an unrestrained hypergamy, gynosociety framework.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[DarkRyuParticipant 2354]

Never had sex, never plan to. I’m 27. It hasn’t adversely affected me. I take care of myself and have no desire to have a bitch in my life. When you orgasm, your dick doesn’t know the difference between your hand or a pussy. It’s all in your head.

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