Let it go

[narwhalParticipant]

God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, Courage to change the things I can, And wisdom to know the difference.

Whether you are religious or not, it’s sound advice. I would add that you also should learn how to change things that can be changed. As in the previous example, you can get out of 3 months worth of debt, but you cannot get out of debt overnight. You need to come up with a plan that works and carry it out over time. There is no value in worrying about it while the plan is in action. Take comfort in knowing you’re on your way to where you need to be.

As far as stress caused by women, never argue with them. Ever. Irrational emotions and manipulation is hers. That’s her arena. Your arena is action and logic. Say what you need to say, do what you need to do, and end it there.

Ok. Then do it.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Keymaster wrote:

agree with that first hand, and especially because women intentionally CREATE stressful situations for men — and they ENJOY DOING IT. It makes them “happy”. They get satisfaction out of creating problems, irritation, interrogation and disputes

My take, it doesn’t make them happy so much as it gives them energy. YOUR energy. If you are a positive person around other positive people, there is energy all around for everyone. If you are an introvert, having some alone time will recharge your batteries.

But if you’re a miserable piece of s~~~ on the inside, you can’t make your own energy, and no one wants to be around you to create positive energy, so you have to be an asshole and start a fight to TAKE it from someone else.

You feel drained when you’re done dealing with someone like that? You know why? Back to Keymaster’s point, they are happy and satisfied. Because they are energized. You have less energy and they have more. And the longer the drama goes on, the more depleted you are and the more energized they are. So, the easier it is for them to continue beating you down.

The only solution is to get away from that person. And for the record, it isn’t all women. There are guys out there like this too, although not as often.

Order the good wine

[Anonymous 42]

Ya know that song “let it snow, let it snow, let it snow”?
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Think of that jingle to “let it go, let it go, let it go”, as a MGTOW song? I’ll write the lyrics, Keymaster on grand piano, and the rest of us joining in!

They can rewrite history, and so can we!

Weird Al Yankovich had the masses on their asses laughing. Men are FUN! We can’t loose! It’ll be a riot! The kind of riot people really need right now! Humor them to death right before they get hit by the train!

[VarunParticipant 2981]

Do you feel cold and lost in desperation?
You build up hope, but failure’s all you’ve known
Remember all the sadness and frustration
And let it go. Let it go

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

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