Is Your Life Better since MGTOW?

[flailerParticipant 31]

To answer the question: Yes, YEs, YES –  Absolutely YES!!

My work life is better; My public life is better; My personal life is better; My quality of life is better; My soul is happier; My heart is healthier; My attitude is better; My motorcycling skills are better; My gym attendance is better; My sex life is better (hey, i was married); My knowledge is greater; My tolerance for Shaming & Blaming has skyrocketed (as it rolls off me like water off a duck); My ability to show my Son the true nature of the world is now unleashed;  ,

I am able to think clearly, rationally & truthfully.  I no longer avoid topics, or conclusions, that bring up a glaring truth.  I was always a fan of logic, but I avoided topics that may have taken me down a number of “gender truth roads”, for her sake.

I have since decided to retire young.  To travel.  To enjoy the world.  I threw off my chains, refusing to be a slave to the almighty dollar, & to pay taxes into a system that supports those things that I despise.

I am now a Sovereign Man.   I am once again, finally, LOVING LIFE.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

That’s tremendous, @flailer. Enjoyed our email exchange last night and happy to hear MGTOW means “bliss” to you.

Cheers.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[flailerParticipant 31]

@keymaster  My pleasure.  No PM (private messaging) on this site?

[harpo-my-“SON”Participant 2410]

Speaking the truth didn’t surround me with a majority of friends, but it has kept the quality of my friends  at a high level.  Oh the question,  yea what they said.

I was bound to be misunderstood, and I laugh at those who misunderstand me. Kind mockery at the well intentioned, but unfettered cruelty towards those would be prison guards of my creative possibilities. This so as to learn as much from misunderstanding as from understanding. Taking pleasure in worthy opponents and making language fluid and flowing like a river yet pointed and precise as a dagger. Contradicts the socialistic purpose of language and makes for a wonderful linguistic dance, A verbal martial art with constant parries that hone the weapon that is the two edged sword of my mouth.

[harpo-my-“SON”Participant 2410]

 

I was bound to be misunderstood, and I laugh at those who misunderstand me. Kind mockery at the well intentioned, but unfettered cruelty towards those would be prison guards of my creative possibilities. This so as to learn as much from misunderstanding as from understanding. Taking pleasure in worthy opponents and making language fluid and flowing like a river yet pointed and precise as a dagger. Contradicts the socialistic purpose of language and makes for a wonderful linguistic dance, A verbal martial art with constant parries that hone the weapon that is the two edged sword of my mouth.

[Anonymous 42]

 

MGTOW was not in existence when I recognized the plantation, I’m organic MGHOW! Life under feminist persuasion since the early 1970’s was my messenger….

[Helen be DamnedParticipant 480]

That’s kind of like asking “Are you happy you no longer have to sell your soul to Satan to get out of that marriage contract with your finances intact?”

Of course I’m better off.

"You can keep your soul, I don't want a cell-mate." - Them Crooked Vultures

[DAYtimeParticipant 5]

Yes

[BDParticipant 1146]

YES

Nagging doesn’t exist any more.

I never have to compromise.

The only expectations I have to live up to are my own.

I can chase any dream or curiosity that I desire.

I am selective with my friends and have a great, varied and wild social circle.

I do exactly what I want, when I want.

 

 

 

 

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

BD wrote:

YES

Nagging doesn’t exist any more.

O god. THAT is perhaps the NUMBER ONE benefit. The nagging I used to tolerate was off the charts, man. One brand of nagging I can’t abide is when she says s~~~ that you KNOW like you’re f~~~ing stupid. Like if you’re running late: “Do you know what time it is? Do you know what time it is? Do you know what time it is? Do you know what time it is? Do you know what time it is? Do you know what time it is? Do you know what time it is? Do you know what time it is?”…..

“Yeah. I f~~~ing know what time it is. It’s Keymaster time. So suck my b~~~~.”

That’s the s~~~ I had to say out loud before she knocked it off.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[AkibarangerParticipant 37]

No more getting validation on whether I can make one happy
No more spending money or half my pay check just so she’d acknowledge me
No more not buying models and indulging my inner weeb
No more trying to work out for days why she isn’t talking to me
No more excuses as to why I can’t do this or that
No more trying to validate my existence by whether or not I’m with someone
No more working at jobs I hate so that she can sit at home
No more power given to women who will use the ‘well I won’t sleep with you’ card if you disagree with them

I am finally and truly happy!
I can do what I want, when I want
I can explore who I am
I can explore what it means to be a man
and I f~~~ing love it.

[Quiet ThomParticipant 116]

It is definitely better because now I see things as they truly are. I knew in my heart and mind that my married life was bulls~~~, but circumstances led me to believe that wearing blinders and sacrificing my happiness and self esteem was necessary for the good of my family. I was as wrong as you can be. Now, I endeavor to live life on my terms. I do struggle sometimes. For 30+ years, my responses and decisions were based on others happiness and well being and not my own. I simply wasn’t used to doing what I wanted to do. It simply wasn’t my mindset. I am getting better and you know what? I have seen my mindset change from being selfless to being really cognizant of what is in my best interests. The relationship I’m in now is evolving….much to the chagrin of my girlfriend. We both own houses and I was finding that I was working more and more on her property to a point where I had no free time for my enjoyment. Granted, she has some physical limitations I don’t have, so her ability to help me maintain my house is limited. There is not a lot she can help me with. I get that it’s really great for her, but it’s starting to suck for me. I talked to her about it and I told her that I’m going to limit the amount of help ….after all, she has older children that can help her. She was taken aback. No surprise there. But, our relationship certainly doesn’t mean that I’m now her designated maintenance man. I’m also through being her problem solver because I now recognize it as a form of manipulation. Is it intentional? I really don’t think that matters. She shows me a problem that she has or something that needs repair. Prior to my education, I would solve/fix it for her, meaning, more s~~~ I had to do. Now, I just say, “You’ll figure it out.” As an older man, I am in complete control of my sex drive, so that card has fallen out of the deck, so to speak. I am a firm believer in AWALT….the degrees vary, but AWALT. I also find my emotional investment in her waning and I think she knows it. And, she’s nervous. And, she should be. I would be very difficult to replace on a number of levels. She wouldn’t be.

[Dcue95Participant 78]

Yes, it has improved quite a bit!

I’m no longer chasing women, I feel much happier than I did even 2 years ago (I was in a clinical depression, and had a death wish), and I’m finally focusing my energy towards my studies. I can make plans without having to consult with anyone, and my finances are a lot more predictable now that I don’t have to worry about a woman taking my debit cards on a shopping spree. Oh, and I’ll be spared from the “Jealous Abusive Wife” and nagging phenomenon, which is a huuuuuuge plus.

[flailerParticipant 31]

Congradulations Dcue95 !!!

 

For me, MGTOW for… s~~~, has it already been 11 years? WOW!!  Anyway back to the point: every day is a little bit better than the day before!

Right now I’m putting together a trip.  An RV road trip.  I’ll be hitting 3 western states, Mtn Lakes, the San Juan Islands, & Canada too.   mtn biking, motorcycling, hiking & maybe a little boating (i dunno yet.)

Without a woman along EVERYTHING will be precisely how I want it, without a second of bulls~~~ or drama.

I know for a fact, because some years ago I took a part-time GF with me on a RV trip…. I’ve give you 1 guess how many days it was til I dropped her off at the bus station, so that she could go one way & I could: Go. My. Own. Way.     Kinky: hell yes.  Worth it:  hell NO!!!

[Dcue95Participant 78]

Thanks flailer,

I’ve been wanting to take a vacation to the American Northwest for a while now, preferably during Spring or Autumn. Been wanting to see Seattle, Portland, Mt. St. Helens (From a safe distance), Yellowstone National Park (and scare a couple of tourists by informing them that there’s a super-volcano under their feet), and other places. Hopefully, I’ll get to do that sometime in the next 5-6 years.

[flailerParticipant 31]

Sounds like a GREAT trip!!!   Do it!   Budgeting for the trip, and cost, as MGTOW, is significantly easier and cheaper.   Instead of shorter trips I can now go longer distances and take MUCH more time.

I would like to see Yellowstone NP again.  But I am thinking I will make Zion NP a higher priority as I have never been there.   I understand that there is some EXCELLENT mtn biking down that way.

Downtown Seattle is really nice.  But I like the Portland “area” , as a whole, a bit more.  It is just a lot more laid-back, far less traffic.   But, if you throw in  the San Juan Islands, well then, Seattle gets the nod.

The Rainie hwy is beautiful!    While Mount St Helens is desolate, now that she blew her top.   The lake of dead floating logs makes it even more depressing.    For joyfulness sake – I’d recommend cruising along the Colombia River Gorge, Hood River area, & heading up to  Lower Lewis River Fall (& campground, on NF road 90) instead.    If memory serves you’ll get a long distance view of Mt St Helens, but will be surrounded by lush GREEN.

Last summer was the Grand Canyon (and all points in between.)  I also managed to squeak out a trip late last fall.

I’m hoping to hit Thailand sometime before the end of next year.  Maybe even the end of this year,, if I can keep my expensive down in the meantime.  I don’t really wanna start in tapping into my savings account for these trips, and so far I haven’t had to.

I live a VERY cheap life, spending almost nothing, but I feel like a King!!!   And that is what MGTOW is (partly) about for me.

MGTOW is BLISS !!!

[BlackEagleParticipant 54]

SIMPLY YES!  waking up from the matrix and realizing more things everyday , its a heavy weight off my back. let me know its not all my fault. I see things different and don’t get s~~~ flicked at me. if it happens i can dish it out and spew them out!

[HimeoParticipant 471]

[Non ServiamParticipant 91]

First and last LTR was in high school.  It lasted 6 months.  I’ve been varying degrees of MGTOW since age 17.  Most chicks hate Black/Death metal  and the ones who like it look nasty, so I said to hell with them.  The bands I’ve discovered and enjoyed listening to would not have been possible if I was stuck pandering to a c~~~ socket.  I’ve been building a recording studio in my spare time and I’m looking into making a bit of extra cash in music licensing.   I’m sure if I was stuck with some chick she’d tell me to grow up, cut my hair, give up on music and start listening to Michael Buble or some s~~~.  F~~~ THAT!

[RennieParticipant]

flailer wrote:

While Mount St Helens is desolate, now that she blew her top. The lake of dead floating logs makes it even more depressing. 

The lake full of dead logs from 30 years earlier is where Harry Truman’s lodge used to be, him and it were completely and utterly annihilated in the May 18th eruption. Should read the book Truman of St. Helens, this guy lived and died like a MGTOW.

I can say with certainty that my own life has been considerably better since getting away from women.  They were a huge burden on me and it was wearing me down.

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