Is Your Life Better since MGTOW?

[magx01Participant 30]

Simple question, yes or no. You may elaborate if you wish but of course it’s optional. For me, the answer is an unequivocal yes. I can’t say it was hell living with chicks. There were obvious upsides, but the freedom and peace of living alone is fantastic. People ask “but isn’t it lonely?” Yep, absolutely. I get lonely at times. If I am not able to hang out with a friend too many days in a row I definitely feel it. It’s never a fun feeling. But guess what? I felt that when I was married! Ever hear the saying “lonely in a crowd?” Well, I was sometimes lonely in the marriage and I know she was as well. What I never felt in the marriage was complete and utter freedom and now that I do I can say that it just might be the best feeling on earth. I should have done this to begin with.

Play my drums without worrying about the noise? Yep! Survival horror game in Dolby Surround at 3am with not a care in the world? Yes sir! Don’t ever have to “check in” when out? Nope, not once! Don’t have to check with somebody/ask for permission to do anything, ever? Nope. Don’t have to spend chunks of some of your nights and weekends being nagged, whined to or yelled at? Hell ya!

They treat it like it’s this sad thing when in reality it’s a f~~~ing blast half the time.

[VileNordParticipant 766]

I haven’t been in a LTR in years but I used to beat myself up over it and wallow in self-pity. Since “my revelation” circa 2011, I have most assuredly enjoyed life more. I would even venture to say that my total life satisfaction continues to grow as I maintain the mindset of a perpetual learner.

Side note: Is there supposed to be a poll here?

Lust for comfort suffocates the soul

[magx01Participant 30]

<cite>@vilenord said:</cite>
Side note: Is there supposed to be a poll here?

Yes, but I cannot see the option to add one.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

YES. With a capital YES.

That “doesn’t it get lonely?” bulls~~~ is very enjoyable.

Just answer with “married men are the loneliest”.… and let it simmer in their dense skulls for a while.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Gone SurfingParticipant 216]

Yes it has, i feel that i have the world at my feet. So many things to do and so little time.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Oh yes. Have you yet discovered how fantastic it is to walk around saying exactly what you want, to whomever you want, with zero regard for the consequences? You can say anything you want, to anyone you want, and do whatever you want, as long as you do it with enough authority. Even your boss. Every time I did it, I was rewarded. Maybe not by the boss. Maybe the woman walked. Maybe I was fired for it. Maybe I was promoted for it. Maybe I p~~~ed off my family. And maybe not immediately. But it feels like you’ve got on a Superman outfit. MGTOW is magic.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[RioLoboParticipant 20]

Never go back again. I have realized that to be my own master and commander again is a treasure to great to give up alongside liberty.
Dave

[XwhYParticipant 16]

Somewhat. I’m still navigating the desire to connect with a woman while fighting with the realization that there are no women left, only female-men.

[LiberachMeParticipant 19]

Torn, but yes. Agree with XY . I’d be willing to make it work but they are not worth it! I can’t take the bitching anymore. Now I don’t deal with it and everything is better. I will say it right to them I can’t stand the nagging. I tried laughing it off and having a sense of humor, treating her like a teenager and it works but it’s not a partnership.

[Total LeeParticipant 1573]

Hellz yeah! It’s the only way to live!

[Anonymous 0]

Oh yes, it is better.
No one is complaining about nonrelevant things.
You will not constrained to make a decision which is not accepted by her.
No one tells you that “We have decided that…bla,bla” knowing that she has decided.
You can come home or stay at home whenever you want and you don’t have justify.
You can sit at your desk, hour by hour without saying a single word, just thinking and imaging incredible things without getting disturbed by the question “What are you thinking”?
You can count your money every day and you know it is yours!
You are not alone, You are with yourself.

[Tbowden1Participant 195]

Simply… F~~~ Yes.

[MGTOW209Participant 7]

Yes in all areas of life; spiritually, mentally and physically. I do struggle with letting go of anger at myself for not waking up sooner, but that will get better with time and hard work.

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

I haven’t had that many negatives experiences when it comes to women so it p/forumsrobably hasn’t been nearly as dramatic a change compared to others, especially those who have been married.

It does feel nice to let the weight of societal expectations of getting married and having kids just slide off my shoulders. I don’t have to feel like the odd person out because I prefer to spend time alone doing what I want and am not wasting all my time trying to find a girlfriend because it would help me to “fit in” better.

In that sense it is liberating.

The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.

[jambearParticipant 282]

One of the best decisions I ever made in my life.

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

Yes, and YES!… In my previous marriage i spent a lot on taking my ex wife out to dinner every damn night, plus she had expensive tastes. Most relationships i was in, i was treated like a damn well spring of money. Since becoming a MGTOW, I’ve saved a substantial amount of money, went traveling more, and enjoy the f~~~ outta life. My life is better off. as someone who was married and in a few relationships, I felt alone, and unwanted as well as unaccepted due to the fact that there was such a high demand on me, i rarely had time for myself growing up.

 

“But relationships complete you!”, that’s a load of crap. Women need us, we don’t need them.

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

I never had a long term relationship.  I was lucky and saw the bulls~~~ back in the late 80’s.  Never committed to any women because I can’t stand their bs.  I rarely talk to women since I work at home.  It’s so peaceful!  No more mind games, s~~~ tests, drama, etc.   I feel like I’m in heaven.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[TheNinjaUWannaH8Participant 386]

Yeah. Hell Yeah.

Once you become a MGTOW, you learn to be ‘with yourself’.  No more being ‘by yourself’ in a ‘bullshiet’, traditional “take me out to eat” relationship.

Sushi is far more delicious and less expensive ‘with yourself’.  Who needs a traditional bullshiet relationship to live?  Not I.

I’ll stick with the restaurant metaphor: If you’re hungry, you don’t need to buy a restaurant.  Go get a frucking burger.  If you want a some p*ssy, go get some p*ssy.”  Don’t waste your life owning a McP*ussy.  Besides, you can’t really own it…fruck up and the franchise fee/capital investment will be your Ass(ets).

Mothaf~~~as never loved us.

 

[MendokusaiParticipant 256]

Yup especially when you can travel to other countries where women still appreciate men!

[John DoeParticipant 743]

Keymaster, has a strong point.  You really can pretty much to anything without regard to the consequences because they have nothing to give or take from you.  MGTOW does have some similarities with Fight Club.

For example.  I had a job working security at a chemical factory a few years ago.

I was not allowed to use the gym.

I used the gym.

They brought me in to the office saying I could not use the gym.

I said I was still going to use the gym.

They fired me.

I knew they would and it was in their right.  However I do not have a wife or family to provide for, so I am free in certain aspects to do and say what I want.

If I want to say f~~~ you to a boss, I can say f~~~ you to a boss.

If I am fed up with a job I can leave it for another.

In the social scene if I see a hot girl, I don’t have to care about impressing her.

I literally do not have to care about certain aspects of life.  At all.  Zero.  False promises mean nothing after awhile.  In a sense it is very freeing because I am free from the burden of certain priorities.

 

Ironically, I found a better paying job a few days later 2 minutes from my house.

 

The thing with fat chicks is still annoying though.

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