Is she playing me for a fool?

[Bl4ckSh33pParticipant 274]

Dude you’re setting yourself up for failure. I say keep her as a side chick while you secretly bang other women.

I hate to break it to you, but what people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard Morty then it slowly fades leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. I did it. Your parents are going to do it. Break the cycle Morty, rise above, focus on science. -Rick Sanchez

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

sl00tMonkey wrote:

I decided I wont dump her, but keep her around

That won’t work.  She will continue to ask for rides, for you to fix something, to help move(into new boyfriends place), etc.

You have to cut off any/all contact.

If she shows up at your door FOR SEX, oblige her. Otherwise, say “NOPE” and close the door.

 

 

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

sl00tMonkey wrote:

i think you are making fun of the whole situation…

That’s the whole point. She obviously doesn’t take you seriously. So why should you take her or your relationship with her seriously?

I decided I wont dump her, but keep her around

This will not end well.

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

Leave her sorry ass, those are already huge red flags that she’s showing so it’s not worth it. Correct me if i’m wrong though, but didn’t you leave a similar comment like this awhile back?. I could’ve sworn I’ve read this before?.

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[Aroused By Her AnguishParticipant 343]

sl00tMonkey wrote:

she said during sex (missionary position): ‘WE SHOULD DO THIS MORE OFTEN!’. its like she is mocking me…

She IS mocking you!  There was a Turkish girl I used to talk to years ago.  I would send her messages all of the time on Facebook, but she’d never respond.  She’d go months without responding, even though I would send her a message every few weeks.  She would all of a sudden send me a message that simply said, “Did you forget me?” or “Why haven’t you spoken to me?”  That’s how these girls try to transfer the blame or guilt.  They know they’re wrong, but they try to manipulate your mind and make you feel like you’ve done something wrong.

Let me tell you something.  That girl you’re with is cheating on you.  She’s just using you to fill the gaps of time in where she’s not with the other man/men.  I’m 32 years old, and I’ve seen this behavior pattern in many women.  In EVERY case, it’s because the woman is messing around with another man or other men.

[Sessna12Participant 119]

Where to begin….

YOU CAN’T BOTH complain about a woman AND continue a relations~~~ with her. You are here to vent, not to improve your situation. Good luck

Sebastian

"We can no more stop him from marrying than we can stop him from making a well researched decision to poke his eyes out with a stick."
-Sidecar

[sl00tMonkeyParticipant 16]

I posted the exact same thing on some relationship forum… i have to share a reply I got from a female:

I quote:

First off, you need to get your own place, (living with your parents, even though they aren’t there on weekends is going to be a major turn-off for many women.) It will effect things greatly.

Second, a relationship is only partly about sex….this seems to be the only thing that interests you, you don’t seem to want to socialize with her and her friends….so don’t worry, she will eventually feel like you are only using her for sex (which lets be honest, sounds like exactly what you are doing.)

How on earth can you not know these things? I wouldn’t worry about it, too much, because at this rate, it’s only a matter of time until she breaks up with you,because you definitely wouldn’t win a boyfriend of the year award….you only care about your feelings and needs, and seem to totally dismiss her feelings and needs and wishes. (Shock alert: people have other needs and wishes outside the bedroom!)

End quote.

Is she for real??? Driving her around like a personal taxi service and spent the night on her sisters bday party (which meant literally nothing to me) only to ditch me at the end of the night for a couple of drinks with friends? All i want is sex and she let me wait for 3,4 weeks because she rather spent the time on something else rather then with me. And all I care is my needs??? F*cking delusional B*tch… She must be from the same nest. Women defend each other even when they are completely wrong.

[Big Viking Chef BVCParticipant 1286]

sl00tMonkey wrote:

F*cking delusional B*tch… She must be from the same nest. Women defend each other even when they are completely wrong.

Yes, they do that.

The one you are with is still riding the c~~~ carousel. Are u still attracted to her knowing that she has other guys punching her hole out regularly? If you think for a second that she is exclusive to you, then she must be one frigid woman. Either way, not very attractive is it? It’s your choice. You decide what u want. Find a girl who can’t possibly be f~~~ing around because she is f~~~ing you so much. Then you will be happy. Alternatively, come to your senses and understand that women are incapable of real love, and stop falling in love with the fantasy. Then you can go your own way and find happiness in other more meaningful ways, and when it comes to sex you will only be “sport f~~~ing” just like fishing, hunting, surfing, etc.

BVC

Swallow this RED PILL ===> Men will lay down their lives for their brothers, their women and their children. This makes Men useful as slaves. Women will lay down their lives for ONLY their children. To expect more from women is just a FANTASY created by society and reinforced by the unconditional love that we experienced from our Mothers. The key to freedom is the understanding that the woman you meet is not going to fantastically love you like your Mother did. If you buy into the fantasy, then she is your new master. If you do not buy into the fantasy, then she is nothing, and you retain your freedom.

[Jon the Ex-SquidParticipant 298]

You had some valid advice given to you here (not that dating forum bulls~~~ you posted). Now you’re aware. Its completely up to you to do something about it and if you don’t, its your own fault.

Here’s a simple example: Heroin is bad for you. Eventually it will kill you. Its killed millions of people already. There’s more evidence online than you could read through in your lifetime. Should you continue using it?

The answer an addict will give is that they can’t stop. The addiction.

The Red Pill breaks that addiction.

Continue seeking relationships at your own peril.

Eventually it will kill you.

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