Is It MGTOW, Or Am I just Getting Old?

[narwhalParticipant]

I agree with all the sentiment here.

Something that I’ve been thinking about lately that goes along with this topic pretty well lately. For the vast majority of my adult life, I felt like I had a hole in myself. Something was missing, and I thought it was the lack of a good companion. When I did have a GF or wife, at first, that hole seemed filled. Rather quickly, I found that the whole became a problem again. The filled hole felt more like an anchor than something magical that made me feel complete. If I was GF, I wanted it removed. With my ex-wife, I constantly racked my brain to figure out how to fix it, knowing deep down that I couldn’t fix it.

After my marriage about 8 years ago. I became much more cautious about who I dated. I found that my kids filled up much of that hole, but I was left room for someone else.

I realized a couple years ago, that the hole…I was intentionally leaving it open. I could have filled it all along, but I didn’t. I was told there was female magic to be found, and once you find it, you have to room for it. But I’m done leaving the hole vacant. I filled it up with me, the things that make me happy. I had left it open intentionally, because I needed someone else to fill it…when I could do it myself all along.

I’m sure lots of men were like me, leaving a hole, waiting for a woman to come fill it. Others left no hole, but then decided to gut themselves, making room for a woman who promised female magic.

So now, I feel whole. There is no room in me for any female magic. I’m not going to gut myself for that. There is room for companionship, for sex, for someone to have fun with. But I can’t help but thinking I’ll eventually be asked to gut myself to make room for the female magic. Trust her, it will be worth it.

I don’t believe in female magic anymore. And will never again gut myself to make room for it.

Ok. Then do it.

[SilverOneParticipant 440]

narwhal wrote:

I’m sure lots of men were like me, leaving a hole, waiting for a woman to come fill it. Others left no hole, but then decided to gut themselves, making room for a woman who promised female magic.

So now, I feel whole. There is no room in me for any female magic. I’m not going to gut myself for that. There is room for companionship, for sex, for someone to have fun with. But I can’t help but thinking I’ll eventually be asked to gut myself to make room for the female magic. Trust her, it will be worth it.

I don’t believe in female magic anymore. And will never again gut myself to make room for it.

This is the perfect summation of a the perfect article. As I read your post, it hit me like a ton of bricks. You absolutely got what I was talking about and you have given the perfect answer to my question. I am going to copy this message to file and keep it on hand. These are words worth remembering! This whole post ought to be a sticky. It is a basic MGTOW truth.

narwhal wrote:

I don’t believe in female magic anymore. And will never again gut myself to make room for it.

BTW I am changing my tagline if you don’t mind……

I don’t believe in female magic anymore. And will never again gut myself to make room for it. --Narwhal--

[narwhalParticipant]

I’m glad it spoke to you SilverOne.

Ok. Then do it.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

I would say age with a bit of MGTOW. I was MGTOW before I even discovered it on the internet. I surfed on by mistake and the rest is history.

We all become world weary like Rick Sanchez eventually.

Fuck this planet.

[ArgentavisParticipant 64]

I feel it comming.
Besides my red pill rage I often have episodes of stoic zen and tranquil.

Can’t wait for this to fill my life. I’m 40… This is death center in my life. I still have 40 more left to enjoy sweet, ever lasting and unshakeable peace.

It takes space to spread your wings

[Anonymous 0]

There are somethings in life, once seen, that cannot be unseen. Woman’s nature is one of those things.

[TicParticipant 4329]

narwhal wrote:

But I’m done leaving the hole vacant. I filled it up with me, the things that make me happy. I had left it open intentionally, because I needed someone else to fill it…when I could do it myself all along

My friend, that is world class insight. Right there, is what young men need to be taught and the solution to many of men’s woes.

God bless peace and freedom.

[MenckenParticipant 693]

Before I knew what MGTOW meant, I still stayed away. I was 18 and in the Navy, probably could have found a girlfriend like literally everyone else. I was occasionally ignored if not shamed for being single and the reason for it was because I refused to bow. What was required for me to attract a girl repulsed me. It seemed like too much effort. I was not going to start showering them with undeserved compliments simply for existing nor was I going to pay a nickel towards them. The Navy had preached equal opportunity but unlike the Navy, I at least tried to practice it. Finding MGTOW only helped me remove any doubts about myself. Luckily, my refusal to submit saved me from having a rough history.

Misogynist - A man who hates women as much as women hate one another.

[Anonymous 0]

SilverOne wrote:

I know exactly what you mean. I have my computer, my Netflix, my cable, my ham radio, my rifles and pistols, my little house tucked in an oak grove 300 yards away from the road with my 100 yard rifle range….And a reasonably comfortable pension. I am living the life of Riley…. What more could I need? With all that, who the f~~~ needs a woman?!? She’d just find some way to screw it all up. LOL My little dog and me do just fine!

I do ham radio as well. I usually head into the woods and mountains with my ht and try 2 m contacts on simplex.

[SilverOneParticipant 440]

Anonymous wrote:

I do ham radio as well. I usually head into the woods and mountains with my ht and try 2 m contacts on simplex.

I am not real active ATM, but I have all of my equipment. I just need to string up my antenna. It’s rather difficult to erect a 45′ X 4″ mast by yourself…
One of the things my worthless ex did was make me get rid if my TS-440sAT and Astron 30-M PS to get something for her…. damned if I even remember what. After dumping her, first opportunity I got, I replaced that radio. I always loved that Kenwood.

I don’t believe in female magic anymore. And will never again gut myself to make room for it. --Narwhal--

[Anonymous 5]

We all hit that point – in all our different circumstances to find this knowledge. To make a choice. You live for something now only you know. A truly impressive feat I may add. Great post!

[LowKeyParticipant 702]

That’s entirely normal. It’s not because you’re growing old but that’s one of the things that you’ll notice once you start the MGTOW lifestyle.

My explanation is this, once you go the MGTOW lifestyle – you see the world in a logical level which prevents your emotions from running amok. Back when I was a blue pilled beta, I was on the same boat. I looked at gorgeous women and went on chasing after them being blind as a bat to the warning signs however as I grew to embrace the MGTOW lifestyle, I find myself being more in a logical state where I can see the STOP signs (if you will) and the dangers it entails.

Three words:
STOP, LOOK and LISTEN.

Don't let defeat, defeat you; Let defeat be your greatest teacher.

[~BSParticipant 3266]

age is experience, the more experience you have the less likely you will fall for the same tricks or bulls~~~ time and time again.

Think about the peek-a-boo game you play with toddlers. Are you still entertained if your parents were to attempt to play the game with you now? Or has age and experience taught you that just because someone covers their face with their hands, doesn’t mean they magically disappeared.

"He didn't marry until now, so he won't ever do it. Think about it, why would a man like him ever marry? It's too late to catch him. " ~some cunt

[Anonymous 1]

Mgtow is growing my brothers. At the bar last night, I heard a college whale complain about men. Typical shaming garbage. All I could do is smile. Offer them nothing.

The empty chair is what is waiting for them. By the way chair is not included let them build that too.

Mgtow is being in charge of your life.

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

Anonymous wrote:

They just creep me out anymore

They remind me of one of thoses plants or fish that disgise them selves, then devouer.

The better looking they are, the more they creep me out..

I really relate with that.
It’s not the look, in my case, is how they dress: if a woman dress in a sexy way then now it’s just a giant red flag for me.

SUPREME LEADER KIM JONG-UN'S FASHION STYLIST - if you want a new look or if you're a very beautiful trans you can call me, phone number +85079255312 / mobile 01921421211. The worth of a man isn't the usefulness that women get from him. Avoiding living with a woman, a man isn't rejecting a lot of sex: he's rejecting sexual starvation. MGTOW IS TACKLING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN COMPLIANCE WITH CONVENTION OF ISTANBUL: http://www.coe.int/en/web/conventions/full-list/-/conventions/rms/090000168008482e --- Article 4, Section 4 "Special measures that are necessary to prevent and protect women from gender-based violence shall not be considered discrimination under the terms of this Convention". WHAT I LEARNT FROM A GENDER STUDIES CLASS IN LUND, SWEDEN: every time feminists accuses men of doing something, odds are likely either them or persons associated with them are doing the exact same thing but a lot worse. WHO I'M RIGHT NOW https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J1okpAj7Fhw Basically my former life have been a conflict between this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yz_RQVkvke4 and this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFIMeyTK-sU That's, more or less, all about me.

[guiParticipant 825]

Well, I feel like that and I am 23 so I’d say this has more to do with understanding female nature than with getting old.

Once you understand women you will never look at them the same way.

Pity and contempt are siblings. You only feel pity for those you consider weak.

[Legendary lifeParticipant 44]

Mgtow is being in charge of your life.

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As a British man with MGTOW values, this quote nails the bill on both parts.
We don’t want to be dictated too (and will not), we wish to make our own laws/decisions, that are in our own best interests (whilst respecting others) and won’t answer to anyone else. We make our own decisions financially, politically, emotionally, spiritually that will develop and make us stronger; we will not be influenced, have our arms twisted or blackmailed because we are weak or have put ourselves in a vulnerable position.

[Anonymous 3]

Good on you. Sounds like my 10 year plan 🙂

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