Introduction: Force fed the red pills.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

I posted in the wrong place. I’m a bit new to this forum stuff. So I will start over here.

Greetings I’m glad to join the group and find this site.

Married twice. My first wife was a good wife for 16yrs. Then she flipped out after that. She couldn’t hold a job and in the last 3 years of marriage started cheating with two different guys and then left me and our 3 children. She payed child support to me and I raised the kids from elementary school on. I did lose the home and about a ¼ million in retirement that was all my money I paid into. The home was divided and I downsized. Over all my losses were not all one sided so I didn’t take the red pill yet. I got remarried. This was a f~~~ing disaster from the word go. Without going into much detail, I got f~~~ed up-one-side and down-the-other; I will continue to be f~~~ed till I die. Her own children hate her for she did to me and I am like a dad to them. The court shoved so many red pills up my ass, my head flew out of there like a rocket. Now my kids are grown, I live alone and I am very happy.

My dating situation is a bit different mostly because of my age. I don’t have to worry about woman wanting children. The ones I look out for live in apartments with poor paying or temporary jobs, have no retirement and desperately need insurance they can’t get for themselves. Obama-care is not saving their asses like they thought it would. They will latch on to any successful or stable man like a barnacle. They don’t have much to offer either so the level of desperation can be very intense. Also the ratio of women to men is easily 5-1 or greater. I discovered this by going to few mixers and was overwhelmed amount of women and scarce men. Sites like ourtime.com don’t have to post fake profiles, those women are real and desperate. As such, STDs are growing in the older population too because all they have to offer is sex and playing hard to get doesn’t work due to increased competition. Some of these women even at 55+ can be very good looking and well-toned. The ones who are successful and good looking will go for younger guys. Why is being an older woman with a younger man a cougar, and a man with a younger woman shamed? Anyway, the pitfalls are the same but the methods and reasons are different. I’m saying this because most posts seem to be from ppl younger than me. If you still want to date you will have to keep an eye to job type, retirement income, and housing as a metric of how dangerous the water is, over a younger metric like spending habits or biological clock. I’ve gotten good at keeping woman at arms length. I don’t know if I’m ready to swear off woman completely, but I’m more aware and this site will help me to learn and to lean more towards my own needs and really embrace being single as a permanent lifestyle.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Welcome, many guys marry in rebound like you I never got murdered in my divorce , I almost married on rebound .. But never.

Good luck

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Welcome home. I’m 51 and I’ve seen the look you are talking about. It’s not attractive. I picture someone whose been in the desert for 3-4 days without water and you have a liter of it in your hand. They would do ANYTHING to get at that water.

Replace the desert with a lonely apartment and the water with your wallet and you have the 50 year old single woman.

Order the good wine

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

Welcome! There are quite a number of us 50+ year old MGTOW here. And most of us, like you, got here the hard way.

I do know the desperate look in the faces of women our age. Not an hour ago I was belly up to the bar at my favorite micro brew pub down the street, a post-wall woman on my right and left; one poor and the other flush with cash from a recent divorce. Both educated, articulate and attractive (for that age, anyway), but after all I’ve been through with women in my lifetime, there are not enough miniskirts or gentle touches to my knee that could make me dive into their drama and entitlement.

No women, know peace. Ahhhh!

Welcome!

[Anonymous 42]

I got here the easy sleazy way! No wife/s, no children, no attachments, none of that! The desperadas are much younger these days, a guy in his 50s’ with home and car can nail chicks pre-wall. When it cums to women seeing is believing, they see a roof and a cot with a greenstamp dispenser. I had a local c~~~ jumping drugmonkey in her early 20’s giving me a titty rub with a 1000 c~~~ stare.

The only thing they have to offer is sex, a disease or two, or long term security knowing they get the house or what they believe is the princesses automatic cut.

If I was gonna ruin myself with pussy, I wouldn’t be getting it from cat ladies house!

If I were to throw away my life I’d go with a young (cultural) Chinese wife, or a hot rabbit prostitute that fits the ass I like!

Cat Lady? <face plant> <out cold>

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

Some men’s need to Learn that hard way to bad For that. Living in a blue pill delusion it’s dangerous it’s could cost you your life and freedom welcome to that forum

[chirParticipant]

Yep. 50 here. However I got a red pill shoved down my throat when I was in my late 20’s, so now I graduated to MGHOW and have been happy as a lark for 22 some-odd years. No kids, no wife, happy life.

However I still take my red pills…..
Tasty as f~~~all.

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion, it is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shaking, the shaking becomes a warning; it is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Thanks for all the replies. I can tell I landed in a good place.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[HitmanParticipant]

Welcome!
Sanity is found here!

[Anonymous 0]

FrostByte wrote:

[ … ]My dating situation is a bit different mostly because of my age. I don’t have to worry about woman wanting children. The ones I look out for live in apartments with poor paying or temporary jobs, have no retirement and desperately need insurance they can’t get for themselves. Obama-care is not saving their asses like they thought it would. They will latch on to any successful or stable man like a barnacle. They don’t have much to offer either so the level of desperation can be very intense. [ … snipped ]

A couple of us older guys were talking about something very similar in another thread. If you’re curious, check out the thread entitled “Why stealthiness can be bad” in the “MGTOW Central forum,” toward the end of the thread.

Link: /forums/topic/why-stealthiness-can-be-bad/page/2/#post-279736

Anyway, welcome!

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