Introducing Me: A Brief Intro to My Story

[UltraParticipant 14]

Hi everyone,

So I’ll try to keep it short and sweet.

I just recently joined the MGTOW fraternity, but I’ve always considered myself a MGTOW in many ways. Growing up, I didn’t have that many good male role models. My dad was a beta who allowed himself to be controlled by his mother and wife (my mom); other than him I actually didn’t really know any other males (all the members of my near and extended family were pretty much all women females).

After seeing the kind of trouble my dad got himself into, I determined that I would live life differently. It’s funny because recently my dad decided to divorce my mom and go ‘MGTOW’ in a way; the truth is that he had been sleeping with another woman who apparently was his ex-GF from college (crazy I know). However as far as I know he never got over his beta/victim mentality thinking. Yeah my mom was a total religious nut who tried to control him at every turn, but it was his choice to marry her. In fact, my dad himself was a sort of pseudo-religious nut who attended seminary at one point.

Beginning in my teen years I decided that I needed to take control of my life if I wanted to survive. They are a lot of other details to my story (I was homeschooled K-12, wasn’t allowed to have friends outside of church, etc.), but the main point is that I’ve finally reached my breaking point. I’ve made the best choices I can so far and I’ve made so much progress in shaking off the toxic thinking I was always exposed to growing up. But I’ve hit a sort of roadblock. I feel like now that I’m 20 and really getting out into the world (I’m in college at the moment), I feel like I need to really establish what is that I believe in. I’ve been reading and researching and thinking and hypothesizing a lot lately on life in general, and in the progress I discovered the MGTOW movement. I didn’t know that there was such a movement – but I was very interested and decided to get involved, since I personally agree with a lot of the MGTOW way of thinking.

As I attend college and get exposed to the world, I’ve been seeing the extent of liberal thinking and SJW-type behavior. It’s honestly crazy. I’m all for progress, but I hate the way these ‘progressives’ go about things. One of the things I hate the most is the way gender roles have evolved. As a young man who is ambitious and making connections wherever I can, I found it frustrating that women didn’t seem to notice. I think I had a problem with thinking that I was somehow entitled to get women, which I know realize I’m not. But I still don’t feel like something’s right. At what point I blamed myself for not being attractive enough (of course there are many areas I can improve on), but after a while, as I begin to research on the true nature of masculinity, I started to think differently. I begin to think that perhaps women are the problem. Women always complain about “where the good men have gone”; my answer is, “Right here, ma’am!” Yet they choose to ignore us because of their faulty perceptions…I don’t know, I’m just really jumbled right now about this whole thing, which is why I’m expressing this here in the hope that I can this sorted out.

Another thing that has bothered me is race relations. I am an Asian American (South Korean to be exact), and I don’t feel it’s right that it’s seems to be okay to be racist against Asians but not against other minorities. I used to not be bothered but over time I begin to notice these things more and more. Again, this is another thing that I’ve been quite confused with because I don’t want to appear as one of the loud-mouthed race baiters; yet at the same time, I feel that I have been guilty of being a self-hating banana Asian, and that rediscovering my heritage may be part of the key to realizing my own masculinity.

Whew, that was long. But I’m glad I could get it off my chest. I’m really interested in hearing your clear and honest insight. I don’t care about being offended; I just need new ideas, the more controversial, the better. I don’t consider myself a member of the Alt-Right; but I certainly don’t agree with mainstream liberalism either. I’m more of a conservative libertarian who espouses pragmatic and secular values with a heavy emphasis on the preservation of order.

Anyhow, that’s a brief intro my story! Thank you all for welcoming me in.

P.S. There was some notice saying that I got picked as “MGHOW of the day”? What’s that about? I did see my profile on the front page. Either way I’m honored, whoever choose to put me there.

Cheers,

-Ultra

[HitmanParticipant]

thank you for a great intro!
welcome friend.

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

I cannot begin to imagine being homeschooled in a S Korean household and then having to go out in the cesspool of the west.
So can I assume you never have had a girlfriend? Sex?
I don’t mean to put you on the spot, and this is not some litmus test, or tuna test.

Anyway, thanks for the intro. I definitely feel for your situation and wish you the best here.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Welcome home. Very good intro; one of these days I’m going to finish mine and I hope its half as good as yours. You’ve had a long hard journey put your feet up and relax.

[HitmanParticipant]

i have a friend who is S. Korean descent.
a ROCK SOLID guy.
i trust him with my life.
a true brother.
we need all men here.
glad your’e on board.
you are young and have a long life in front of you.
if you found us here already,
you are blessed.
so great to have a proper intro.
makes a very big impact .
you are very, very welcome!

[Anonymous 43]

welcome brother.

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

Ultra wrote:

I think I had a problem with thinking that I was somehow entitled to get women, which I know realize I’m not.

I’d rather be entitled to get the flu. As a MGTOW, you’re entitled to NOT have to put up with a woman. Congrats!

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[Anonymous 1]

Welcome, man.

Thank you for your intro. The key is be honest to yourself. Don’t fall for what others expect from you (usually the women who expect much), find your own goals and interests, and focus on that.

[UltraParticipant 14]

Pedal, run, row wrote:

I cannot begin to imagine being homeschooled in a S Korean household and then having to go out in the cesspool of the west.
So can I assume you never have had a girlfriend? Sex?
I don’t mean to put you on the spot, and this is not some litmus test, or tuna test.

Anyway, thanks for the intro. I definitely feel for your situation and wish you the best here.

Thank you all for the responses, they have been very encouraging. I don’t know if this is necessary but I do want to make it clear that I was born and raised in the U.S. (in SoCal, probably should’ve stated that in the intro; I did state it in my profile).

And yes, I’ll be honest, I haven’t experienced a lot of things that most young people my age should have already experienced. I’ve never had a girlfriend or had sex or anything like that; however, to me, that’s the least of my concerns, as I more concerned with my ability to operate in a fast-paced social environment.

I currently work at the school I attend, and I’ve been able to rise in the ranks and make many connections. I think people generally like me, and I’ve become quite popular (not for looks or anything but because of my discipline and intelligence). This is somewhat encouraging, but I’m afraid that I’m being too hopeful about my prospects.

Thank you all again for the welcoming responses, they are much appreciated. I think that the difficult upbringing I had is only going to work to make victory more pleasant when I get there (once I make it in life), and discovering my masculinity is the first step towards doing that. I also think that expressing the way I feel out in the open in a civilized fashion to a supportive community is vital to making that a reality as well. Thank you all again!

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

Ultra wrote:

I haven’t experienced a lot of things that most young people my age should have already experienced.

Do not assume. You’ve been presented a message by messengers who don’t work with your best interest at heart.

Ultra wrote:

I think people generally like me, and I’ve become quite popular (not for looks or anything but because of my discipline and intelligence).

You are being used.

Welcome to the forums Ultra. Very good introduction.

Double plus good.

[TrapperParticipant 2912]

Welcome aboard! You’re among friends!

[SilverOneParticipant 440]

Hey, Ultra! Welcome to da house.
You have figured women out early, you just haven’t put it together yet. Women complain, “Where have all the good men gone ?!?” What they are really saying is, “I want a “Bad Boy” or a sugar daddy, and I can’t find one.” They don’t realize, or even care that “good men” are all around them. That’s good news for you, because they won’t be putting their fingers in your pocket book, or your psyche. Don’t let anyone tell you “not all women are like that”. In 50 years I have only found one who wasn’t and that was over 40 years ago. I haven’t caught a whiff of another, and in today’s society, I am convinced they no longer exist. I am not saying become a self-centered asshole, but stay focused on yourself. If you aren’t good to yourself, you can’t be good for anyone else. Women will quickly tell you you are a self-centered asshole anyway even, (maybe especially) if you are blue pill simp.

I don’t believe in female magic anymore. And will never again gut myself to make room for it. --Narwhal--

[cj023Participant 723]

Apply the knowledge and wisdom you learn here, you will be DECADES ahead of most of us. May I suggest checking out the money section of the forums. And hey check out mr money mustache blog, if you’re smart YOU could retire by 30, don’t rack up that student loan debt too much. I made that mistake STILL paying for it at 28

[Anonymous 13]

Welcome.

Guard your sovereignty with your LIFE.

You’re in an enviable position.
We don’t always appreciate what we have or don’t have.

You’re not married, don’t have kids, alimony or child support.

Intelligent and working.

Therefore you are very wealthy.

Guard that sovereignty.

[AkhilleusParticipant 2486]

Welcome bro

Aloha means family you don't leave family behind. Who will be the next Draconarius for MGTOW? MGTOW = brothers = acceptance = belonging

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, Ultra
Beer’s in the fridge

[Y_Participant 4591]

Welcome, you are among manly men who will constantly take advantage of your good nature in a manly manner 🙂

As for the MGHOW of the Day – that was probably the Russians.
It also means you have to contribute $10000000 to our Robot Sex Club membership.

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

Welcome to the fold. Your realizations are shared among many here. You aren’t alone. The world has become a rather hostile place for men. Just focus on yourself. Look forward to hearing more from you.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Ultra wrote:

I discovered the MGTOW movement

You discovered the MGTOW discovery not movement. You are young enough to build a great life and lucky to have a good foundation. Welcome!!!

[Anonymous 1]

MarketWatcher wrote:

You discovered the MGTOW discovery not movement.

Very well put

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