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Brothers:
I need some advice. Every one of my friends are either married, or have a girlfriend. I am thinking about going full hermit/monk and just be free by myself. I am the only one with money in my group (everybody is broke from spending too much on their gf or wife) and they constantly ask me for money (I say no a lot) I also don’t want to get it to the point where their gf’s will try to hook me up with someone else. Can someone please help?
What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.
No is your most powerful word.
If somebody asks for money, No.
If somebody tries to hook you up, No.In your particular case you only have yourself to be concerned with and that’s the way you like it. You know what the deal is, it doesn’t require going monk anywhere other than your own mindset.
Anybody who expects otherwise is betting on compassion that you aren’t required to give.
I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.
What exactly are you asking? If a dude is broke because he spent all his money on some woman, that’s his own concern. Even having the cheek to ask a friend for money in those circumstances, to me at least, indicates they’re not really a friend at all.
Advice? Understand that you are free, they are not.
Time to transition and find peers that are free.
Peace brothers
Anonymous42Why are you walking around with the chickens when you should be looking to soar with eagles? Wait until they go through divorce, then you’ll become their saving ATM!
You’re not the one getting your piston sleeved so you owe them no favors, unless they’re willing to jerk you off so you can have some fun too.
Anonymous6Have they payed you back for what they already owe before they ask for more?
I definitely would not consider them “friends” if they are just taking from you and not giving it back.
Anonymous18I also don’t want to get it to the point where their gf’s will try to hook me up with someone else.
And what happens? They try to hook you up, you oblige and marry their besty.
What’s the problem? Happy ever after.
I don’t even get the point of the post.
how about avoiding people that bring no pleasure and value to your life. I’ve lost lots of “friends” along the way, because they were useless c~~~s.
God bless peace and freedom.
Anonymous54Friends have each others back.
Kaido,
If you ever take a life guard class, the first thing they will teach you about swimming up to a drowning person is that you should swim up behind them and grab them in such a way that they cannot get a grip on you. If they get a grip on you, their first move will be to climb onto your head to push themselves out of the water… which of course will push you straight under where you will drown instead. It isn’t personal. They are drowning, panic stricken and no longer rational. And in that state of panic, they are also very strong, and very well motivated. It isn’t that they are murderers, or have homicidal intent. But you will still end up just as dead if you swim up to them head on and allow them to get a grip on you.These guys are drowning. They are your friends and this is a sad thing, and my apologies for being as blunt about that as I am. To be more accurate, they are being drowned, slowly, by the anchors they have strapped to themselves. They willingly swam into the ocean. They willingly sought out those anchors, and they competed with other men for the right to strap on those anchors. These decisions were theirs, and theirs alone. They didn’t ask your advice prior to making those decisions, they didn’t respect the warning signs, and they didn’t offer to share any of the benefits of those decisions with you (you are not banging any of their wives or girlfriends).
Those with girlfriends may have a (slim) chance to escape. Those with wives are already in the riptide… heading out to sea. There is no saving them.
Now it’s time to decide your decisions. These are your options: You can follow their example and join them and drown with them. You can attach yourself to them and drown with them. You can try to save them, in which case they will reach out to you for support (which is what they are doing) and if you provide it, they will attach themselves to you and you will eventually drown with them.
Or, you can stand on the beach and yell at them to “LET GO OF THAT F’KING ANCHOR!!!”.
If you choose the last option, you survive, and they at least have a chance. If they let go in time, they may join you (and us) here on the beach and we can all yell at them together.
If they don’t let go, they may at least get a little sex on the way to the bottom, and you’ve done what you could do…
Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you
Don’t loan to those who p~~~ their money down the drain. Ask any banker or investor and they will make that more than clear.
A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!
My advice to you is to join a singles club and make new guy friends…that’s right I said GUY friends, that are single like you. They won’t try to borrow your money, and most of the guys you meet will be divorced. Let your married guy friends hear some of THEIR stories. Then, let the women come to you at singles events. Join a club where you go on outings instead of online s~~~. Watch how these women interact. Then, pick and choose…it really can be that easy.
"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."
Ogre is right. Learn to say no. If they are your friends they will respect that and not try to shame you with “Dude, you got the money, I’ll pay it back!” or “Why won’t you just meet her and see what she’s like?” and they won’t ask for an explanation either.
Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.
I also don’t want to get it to the point where their gf’s will try to hook me up with someone else.
And what happens? They try to hook you up, you oblige and marry their besty.
What’s the problem? Happy ever after.
There is no such thing as a happily ever after
What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.
I need some advice. … I also don’t want to get it to the point where their gf’s will try to hook me up with someone else. Can someone please help?
I am very social. I have a very social job.
I meet lots of woman, all the time and I enjoy chatting with them when they are civil. I don’t avoid them, I manage the conversation.This how I manage them trying to hook me up with some slob friend who failed at life and needs a bail out.
True newest example. (I get this weekly)
last Friday. I was introduced in social setting by a woman to other woman, I s~~~ you not this what she said verbatim,
“This is (my name). He is a good catch. He has great job and his owns his own home”.
Naturally, they chime are you single?
I use the same answer every time.
“Yes I am single. I really love it. I love sleeping alone and really enjoy coming home to an empty house.”
“Aren’t you lonely?”
“No, I have never suffered from loneliness. I’m very happy.”
Most stop there, but if one is aggressive or drunk she might get pushy about it and I say
“You wouldn’t want to take away my happiness”
Works every time. The ones that want a man bow out and the ones that aren’t looking stick around and chat.
If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.
I need some advice. … I also don’t want to get it to the point where their gf’s will try to hook me up with someone else. Can someone please help?
I am very social. I have a very social job.
I meet lots of woman, all the time and I enjoy chatting with them when they are civil. I don’t avoid them, I manage the conversation.This how I manage them trying to hook me up with some slob friend who failed at life and needs a bail out.
True newest example. (I get this weekly)
last Friday. I was introduced in social setting by a woman to other woman, I s~~~ you not this what she said verbatim,
“This is (my name). He is a good catch. He has great job and his owns his own home”.
Naturally, they chime are you single?
I use the same answer every time.
“Yes I am single. I really love it. I love sleeping alone and really enjoy coming home to an empty house.”
“Aren’t you lonely?”
“No, I have never suffered from loneliness. I’m very happy.”
Most stop there, but if one is aggressive or drunk she might get pushy about it and I say
“You wouldn’t want to take away my happiness”
Works every time. The ones that want a man bow out and the ones that aren’t looking stick around and chat.
This is exactly what I was looking for. Thank you brother. And thank you all for the advice.
What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.
Time to find some new friends.
I shed myself of some blue pillers a few months ago.
Guys wives a girlfriends have flirted with me.
Especialy when they get tipsy.
Naa dont need that drama.
That wanting to set me up with a friend or coworker.
No
Just no.
Not hapening.
The dating advice i dont want to hear.Friends bragging about how much sex they get….
That s~~~ just does not impress me and TMI i dont want to hear it.
On top of that when guys do have problems with their wives I GOTTA F~~~ING HEAR ABOUT IT ??.NaaaNo
No
Nofrankly my dear i don't give a damn
Time to find some new friends.
I shed myself of some blue pillers a few months ago.
Guys wives a girlfriends have flirted with me.
Especialy when they get tipsy.
Naa dont need that drama.
That wanting to set me up with a friend or coworker.
No
Just no.
Not hapening.
The dating advice i dont want to hear.Friends bragging about how much sex they get….
That s~~~ just does not impress me and TMI i dont want to hear it.
On top of that when guys do have problems with their wives I GOTTA F~~~ING HEAR ABOUT IT ??.NaaaNo
No
NoMy roommate is like this. He ll rub it in my face (not that I really care) but when the fighting and drama starts its all “Boo-hoo” I always end the discussion telling him “told you so”
What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.
I also don’t want to get it to the point where their gf’s will try to hook me up with someone else.
I quite enjoy that s~~~. It’s VERY amusing and you can have a lot of fun with it.
I met a newly married ex-“friend” at his office in passing briefly, and 2 minutes in, he says “I was thinking of setting you up with one of her friends!!”. I paused, and looked genuinely concerned for his f~~~ed up mentality and said ….
“Oh yeah? What for?”
Uncomfortable pause. He couldn’t sell it to me. He couldn’t even tell me why he thought I might like her, or come up with a single reason to “set me up” with her.
ME: “No really…..WHAT FOR?”
HE: “Well she’s single and looking and I ….”
ME: “Wait, that’s not a good reason. She’s not married and I should go out with her because she’s not married?? Did I understand you correctly? Would you buy a car JUST because its sitting on the lot without a driver?? Don’t you have any one positive thing to say about her. Nice. Fun. Funny. Pretty. Sexy. Whatever. What kind of sales pitch is that? SELL it to me!”
Even then, he couldn’t think of one single reason.
He didn’t even TRY and say “Oh man she’s terrific!” or anything like that.Nothing.
He changed the subject in a hurry too. So she’s probably fat.This is not the first time friends (or their girlfriends and wives) have tried to pawn of their single/fat/over-the-hill friends on me. I especially love it when she’s a single mother. Ho boy that’s a laugh riot and I will milk that s~~~ for all it’s worth.
“She has already shown herself to be a failure at marriage and family. And you think I should want a relationship with her? Are you HIGH???”
Can someone please help?
Remind yourself: This isn’t a problem for you.
It’s only a problem for THEM.You’ll notice, they don’t bring you a solution when they try to set you up with her. They are bringing you a problem. The next time that happens, just ask them “WHAT FOR??” and watch them fumble about.
Don’t avoid these situations. REVEL in them.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.Anyone trying to set me up or ask if I will get another gf/partner/wife gets one response only:
“Hell no! I’ve retired from combat!”
Great fun.
Further questions/challenges are met with instant Grampa Simpson narcoleptic open-mouth snoring until they give up.
Even greater fun.
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