I'm in the Doghouse

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

Damn, that blue Harley is beautiful!

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[HitmanParticipant]

play this LOUD a few dozen times….
it says it all.
keep the bikes and DUMP the C~~~.

[BeeParticipant 700]

DarkRyu wrote:

Sorry to spoil your fun, but why did you bother to buy that if you’re married? She’s just going to steal it when she divorce rapes you (which might be very soon with how she’s treating you).

Meh, it’s got a loan on it so she can have the bike and the loan also.

[Anonymous 13]

Don’t forget she can make THE call.

[BeeParticipant 700]

The call?

[Anonymous 13]

She only has to make a phone call!

[BeeParticipant 700]

she made me dinner. Meatloaf and sweet potatoes. One of my favorites. But she will neither speak to me nor look at me.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Bee
Hide the bikes, Sell the car, house, and kids.
Get the f~~~ out and back into the jungle where its safe
(Col Kurtz)

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[Anonymous 13]

Bee wrote:

she made me dinner. Meatloaf and sweet potatoes. One of my favorites. But she will neither speak to me nor look at me.

She makes you your favourite dinner but can’t speak to you or EVEN look at you.

Seriously, you’re in more trouble than you think.

[narwhalParticipant]

I don’t know how old your daughter is, but I really wouldn’t put off bringing an end to whatever it is that’s going on. Your wife says she sticking with it for your daughter, but truth is, she is waiting till she has a monkey branch to swing to. I can easily see her asking for a divorce a year from now once she’s secured another wallet.

So tell her you won’t live like this. You won’t apologize for how you spend the money you’ve earned. You will not live in a house with a wife who behaves this way. Divorce most certainly is an option.

For one thing, holding out till the daughter is grown means your wife can take more of your assets, and preventing you from being happy and helping out your daughter as you see fit.

Ok. Then do it.

[NeroParticipant 1466]

I agree with others here. You are going to have the rug pulled out from under you sooner than later. I suggest you take the lead here.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

Don’t live in the doghouse. It’s Friday. Grab whatever you need to sleep in the wild and hit the road with your mistress. Tell her which day you’ll likely be home, and then come back like you own the place.

I bought a bike that my wife was mad about. I still have both. Until your wife creates her next opportunity, the next move is always yours. The only options she currently has are waiting for you to divorce her or using @Spirits option, which slits her own throat.

Alternatively, tell her tonight that with the way she’s been treating you you don’t feel comfortable in the same bedroom as her so she needs to take the couch for a while. Mine spent 4 months in her recliner when she decided to be p~~~ed at me. She came to bed after I got up for work.

The video appears to be broken, even on the MGTOW homepage, but watch Bill Burr’s She can never tell you what to do if you can.

F~~~ her, she’s a guest in your life. When she makes you apologize for taking scraps from what you’ve earned she has become more liability than she EVER could have been an asset.

tldr. If you’d rather be riding the new bike or the sporty, then why keep the finicky, bitchy, high maintenance model around?

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Anonymous 13]

YOUR bike.

Never give in to terrorism.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

Anonymous wrote:

YOUR bike.

Never give in to terrorism.

Much shorter, but the entire point of my post.

There is no doghouse for a man paying for the house. Let HER live in the doghouse.

She lives the life that she does through your support.

If she wants to have a go on her own then let her!

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[BeeParticipant 700]

I’m not sleeping on the couch. I have my own bedroom. We like our own beds. Better for sleep. “Doghouse” is a metaphor. I’m in my own house, same bedroom I’ve had since I was 5.

[WolfParticipant 890]

“Doghouse” in the title says a lot to me.

I’ve never been married, nor had kids, but I’ve been in several long term relationships, and I have never tolerated the “doghouse” treatment from a girlfriend.

To me, the “doghouse” treatment is just more of the shame men culture that exists today, and I don’t tolerate it.

I realize that it’s much easier to put my foot down without marriage and kids, which is a reason (among several) why I will never have either.

Bee wrote:

I want to stick it out for my daughter but I just really don’t want to live this way anymore. I want peace. I want solitude. I don’t like her temper. She said some things you can’t unsay. I think I’m at a point where I would rather be alone than in a relationship. IDK what to do. Except I’m keeping the bike.

Go with your gut on this. It sounds like you’re avoiding the inevitable and kicking the can down the road.

[Anonymous 42]

Thanks Beer! All my troubles don’t compare to the trouble a woman gives you!

I made my doghouse extra large with electric and heat! NO WOMEN ALLOWED!

Ruf ruf ruf!

[BeeParticipant 700]

She’s hardly spoken except to yell at me a few times. This has gone on since Mothers day. She’s now going on strike, not doing stuff around the house, not being around me, not doing things together, going to bed at 7pm. I can’t live this way. The stress is gnawing at me.I’m being an ads home at work and may get fired soon for it. I’d circled the date June 10 on my calendar as the drop dead date. I can’t live this way anymore.

I think I may need to file.

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