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[Legend of the SamuraiParticipant 67]

Im so sorry you have to go through this man it sucks and is total s~~~ but you got support on here matter of fact you will get more support here than you ever will from another woman and that’s the truth. But from the sounds of it she might be cheating I agree with Binary All this avoidance especially since you two are married I mean I understand personal time and stuff but its odd that she would try to avoid you for a month that alone raises a lot of red flags I suggest try to work it out cause no matter how much we go our own way its always nice to have your personal love but since she is starting a bunch of s~~~ I honestly suggest open a new bank account without her knowing prepare a really amazing escape exit to where she cant get to you I hope you had her sign a prenup cause brother you will need it when she tries to tear you to shreds. Anyways I hope you enjoy your stay welcome to the brother hood

Oh give me land lots of land under the starry skies above but dont fence me in

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

Sean…I’m almost positive she is as well. And basically she’s using the business trip she has to spain as a reason to start our separation, but I’m pretty sure there is more to it. I expect her to get back and say something along the lines of…”I was drunk and I just slept with him”. I don’t know why but its just a feeling I have, and then everyone here stating the obvious as well, has just confirmed my susupicions. I’m trying to find evidence now that would allow me to confront her before she leaves, but as of right now I have nothing. I’ve already planned my exit, but thanks for the tip about stashing away some money. I’m about to ask my boss now to put a certain amount into another account.

 

[Sessna12Participant 119]

Man you will be just fine. You are young, she makes more, nothing messy like a home mortgage. I almost got married, and thank God l didn’t. Sorry to hear about your plight. Keep us posted. Glad to help if/when we can.

Sebastian

"We can no more stop him from marrying than we can stop him from making a well researched decision to poke his eyes out with a stick."
-Sidecar

[ChristovParticipant 85]

Here’s some wisdom I posted a while back…

 

The critical flaw with female hypergamy is that a women has no accurate metrology to gage the value of the man she’s with. And no accurate metrology of her own value… So the only metric that they have is “I got him” and the only question they can ask is “can I do better?”

 

Yes. You are getting random blowjobs because she is insecure about her ability to keep you. And that’s the way it should be. Women will only treat you with respect if they know that you can walk away.

 

Meanwhile. You can walk away. You have your independence. With that, I think that you can have a chance at a “healthy” relationship with this woman. Just acknowledge that she is your typical she-devil wack-job and keep collecting blowjobs.

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