If you ever started dating a girl who claims that her ex abused her…RUN!!

[Anonymous 25]

Yes run. Quickly and in the opposite direction.

Statistically most abuse is carried out by females, so she was most likely the perpetrator.

The brain also works along the lines of pattern matching. Males share similar traits, so any innocent male trait could trigger the pattern match to her past abusive relationship.

The criminal injustice system will happily criminalise her new male partner for that mental health on her part, because it creates jobs for the girls. Feminist fraud.

RUN

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

The reason that there is no unicorns is because men innately tend to have physical strength and women have ‘social strategy’, meaning that women are inherently good at being manipulative.

That’s why TV dramas are popular with women, it teaches them how to be greater social strategists. In fact I knew one girl in high school who said that watching TV dramas was learning how real life works.

From my personal experience I highly agree with what everyone has said so far; especially if they ever say the abuse thing, it’s an obvious external locus of control and victim mentality. Don’t fall in the sympathy trap. Play along with it if necessary to escape and then ghost.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[FreedomParticipant 295]

There are several possibilities:

1) The only guys that turn her on are abusers. If you are not an abuser, then she will not date you (or at least not for very long). If you are an abuser, then you are an asshole who should mend your ways.

2) She is a career victim, finding excuses to cry “abuse” as a means of getting what she wants. She will definitely do the same to you.

3) She is a sane person looking for a no-bulls~~~ relationship, and got tricked. But now she has learned from her mistake and is ready to try again.

Reflect on how likely this third possibility really is, and then reflect on whether or not the risk is really worth taking.

It is wise to fear dangerous commitments.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Just a link back to an older post along the same lines

I have yet to meet a woman who hasnt said she's been abused

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[kbbroilerParticipant 886]

You know what is really funny? I dated a girl which I never abused but the 2 guys that came after her abused her physically and mentally. Now she claimed no one abused her before. I learned about abuse thru a person who told me. I just laughed and said to the person who said this tell her I’m not her backup plan and walked away. LMAO

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