If you ever started dating a girl who claims that her ex abused her…RUN!!

[Enjoy The DeclineParticipant 1719]

After reading a lot of your stories here, I come to the conclusion that if a girl claims that she was abused by her ex, that not only is it going to screw up your state of mind since she would try to prep you up to being her white knight, but she might even get you to be the one who will abuse her too because you would just lose it once she would finally show her true nature. And if you would think that you have the high moral ground at all after you even hit her once, just remember, you already judged her last ex for abusing her. Why even put yourself in this situation?

"Question everything" - Albert Einstein

[Bestieboy666Participant 2358]

Enjoy The Decline wrote:

After reading a lot of your stories here, I come to the conclusion that if a girl claims that she was abused by her ex, that not only is it going to screw up your state of mind since she would try to prep you up to being her white knight, but she might even get you to be the one who will abuse her too because you would just lose it once she would finally show her true nature. And if you would think that you have the moral ground at all after you even hit her once, just remember, you already judged her last ex for abusing her. Why even put yourself in this situation?

Firstly if a woman started to bleat on about anything at all, I do my work thing and nod along politely, while thinking about something else. Trying to prep me into white knight status is as likely as finding sanity in a female safe space zone. Finally I would never hit a woman as I don’t agree with violence and I would not put myself in that position anyway.
After 15 years of not dating I find the idea quite nauseous.

Women are so bad, if they changed the law so I kept the house, I still wouldn't marry one. I'd rather be homeless.

[HitmanParticipant]

i am not blaming the victim when i say,
there is a reason why she’s a “victim”.
giant red flag..
indicates she probably has less the good interpersonal skills..
in short,
she’s able to p~~~ a guy off SO much that it went to violence.
what she’s NOT saying is how she nags,
won’t stop critisizing and probably ,how much of a c~~~ she’s capable to cause a guy to lose his temper to that point…
also how SHE stayed in a relationship when she could have avoided the ‘abuse”..
is she daft ?
couldn’t she see it coming ?
best to avoid women who have a past with DV…
they’ll be quick to say you did something you didn’t as well..

[Anonymous 24]

Been there, done that. After I was through with her I was 100% convinced that her ex was the one that was abused.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

It’s also the ultimate trump card for any s~~~ty behavior. No matter how crazy or unreasonable she is in the moment, later she will blame the abuse and not take responsibility for her own actions. If the prior abuse is that hard to deal with, she should be self-aware enough to work on herself and not put someone else through her s~~~.

Look, if she was abused, then she gets a boyfriend and you get a job. That’s the BEST CASE scenario.

If she wasn’t and is lying, well that’s a special brand of crazy that you can’t far enough away from.

Order the good wine

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

Enjoy The Decline wrote:

if a girl claims that she was abused by her ex

It’s a s~~~ test to see if you will “prove yourself” by letting her run/control/ruin your life.

Don’t fall for it, tell her flat out “Sounds like he didn’t put up with any of your s~~~. I won’t put up with any of it either.”

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

Avoid trollops who have the following….

Abusive exes
Abusive parents
Ubiquitous tattoos
Multi colored hair
Bipolar disorder
Credit card debt
Bastard children
Drinking problems
Hygiene impairments
Obesity

[Bestieboy666Participant 2358]

Zuberi Tau wrote:

Avoid trollops who have the following….

Abusive exes
Abusive parents
Ubiquitous tattoos
Multi colored hair
Bipolar disorder
Credit card debt
Bastard children
Drinking problems
Hygiene impairments
Obesity

So all women then?

Women are so bad, if they changed the law so I kept the house, I still wouldn't marry one. I'd rather be homeless.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

Zuberi Tau wrote:

Avoid trollops who have the following….

Abusive exes
Abusive parents
Ubiquitous tattoos
Multi colored hair
Bipolar disorder
Credit card debt
Bastard children
Drinking problems
Hygiene impairments
Obesity

You left out women having a smartphone and using social media. But then, such a list would reach “Unicorn” status.

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

Hitman wrote:

in short,
she’s able to p~~~ a guy off SO much that it went to violence.
what she’s NOT saying is how she nags,
won’t stop critisizing and probably ,how much of a c~~~ she’s capable to cause a guy to lose his temper to that point…

The worst supervisor I ever had complained that her first husband beat her. Our Graphics worker told me she was exactly the type of woman who would provoke it. He was right on!

[Anonymous 54]

Every chic ive ever known has just come some from some kind of abuseive relation ship. Verbal,physical, neglect ,bla bla bla. Its to trigger your white knight instincts. F~~~ing sop. Standard operating procedure. Don’t ever hit a women. Just leave and never go back.

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

If a woman says she was abused by her past partner then it is most likely just remembering the good old days with Mr asshole. I mean even if he did beat her she let him compared to her white knight nice guy friends whom are just friends.

Now the definition of abuse is very different and changes woman to woman so she can say that since he was just an asshole who did not spend money on her that he abused her. Or that if he playfully hit her or actually hit her then he abused her (Playfully hitting is not the same as actual hitting) and even if he just rough sex with her she might say he abused her. So no i don’t trust women to say that unless they provide evidence.

Now for if a chick actually said to me that her ex was an asshole i would straight forward tell her to her face that i really don’t give a s~~~ and continue on. But if you are in a long term relationship then f~~~ing run for it and don’t look back.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[experiencedParticipant]

Agreed!

“Oh, my ex…………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………….’abused me’.”

“Oh, really, and who’s going to save you from me when I……………………………………………………………………………………………………………. “quote unquote abuse you.”

They attempt to reap a pity pantry from the old definition of abuse i.e. slaps or punches,
when all that occurred was an argument.

“Here, I’ll save you!”
“Yes you will(eyeballing his wallet and W-2).”

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Yes, and it was the other way around. She was abusive one.

The list is:

Abusive exes
Abusive parents
Party girls
Bastard Children
Divorced women
Debtors
Career women
Women who have lots of guy friends
Undercover C~~~s
Upfront C~~~s

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Anonymous 5]

Erin Pizzey wrote a book on this, IT’S A REALLY QUICK READ.
“Prone To Violence” There’s a PDF online.
It’s one of the most fascinating insights into human relationship dynamics you’ll encounter. It’s totally gender neutral.

A woman is probably lying to bring out the white knight gene in you when she says her Ex or anyone else was abusive BUT if she isn’t,,,,get the f~~~ away from that c~~~ as fast as your legs can carry you.
If she isn’t lying then she has a lizard brain need for abusive relationships which was developed in early childhood. This is why the same women keep on going back to abusive men and/or have a history of abusive relationships.
Peace and harmony bore and depress them to the point of suicide.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Peace and harmony bore and depress them to the point of suicide.

Oh great, now I have to stop being harmonious and peaceful. I’ll be blamed for them all offing themselves.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[experiencedParticipant]

I’ve never hit a woman and never will hit a woman.
It’s easy because…….You just don’t, period.
What’s absolutely infuriating is that laydeez know this IMO, so they change the definition.
I had TWO arguments with my ex; We argued TWICE.
Even when the ex said, “There(pause)there has been(longer pause)abuse.” my son immediately said, “What are you talking about???? you had two arguments.”

It’s the same s~~~ as “he raped me with his fart”, etc.

Now, for the guys that have hit, I agree with BILL BURR.
When the flames are put out, the firemen don’t leave.
They ask,”WTF happened…
What brought this about?
I’m just dreaming here, but perhaps it would be nice if women didn’t provoke.

One of the paybacks that I hesitate to mention here because it will inform c~~~ lurkers, is that a good attorney can get a wife in court to behave like the total not even oprah but jerry springer level c~~~ that she is at home behind closed doors.
My attorney skillfully led my ex into behaving like an uncontrolled raving c~~~ [those are the worst 🙂 ] in court on the stand. And looking back, it wasn’t even based on the chronological development of the case etc.
Afterwards he had the stenographer smiling in agreement when he said,
“Well, guess that leaves no doubt to the court as to what she’s like at home.”

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[experiencedParticipant]

Zuberi Tau wrote:

Avoid trollops who have the following….

Abusive exes
Abusive parents
Ubiquitous tattoos
Multi colored hair
Bipolar disorder
Credit card debt
Bastard children
Drinking problems
Hygiene impairments
Obesity

“Oh by the way sometimes I have uncontrollable bouts of high pressure diarrhea.” Ultimate s~~~ test.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[HitmanParticipant]

Got one more for the list. .
Adoptees. .
They feel like no one can love them since their biological mother gave her away. .
No matter what you do she will shred your efforts. .
Unloved forever. .
Boo hoo hoo. .

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

NEVER STICK YOUR C~~~ IN CRAZY!!!!

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