I wasted more time on 'another one'

[foronlytheParticipant 24]

I started to talk to a woman off of one of those crappy ‘tagged’ apps. Well I can say that it lasted a few days before it showed it’s true colors. As you already know I was not shocked to learn that it had 2 children, 10 yo boys from a previous relationship. Despite my best efforts to say only positive things her hostility mounted the more I expressed an opinion. I was on the receiving end of being called a “Christian fundamentalist” for having sane views on relationships. Ie, ‘class’, self respect, she admitted herself that she had regrets and “made many mistakes” in her past. But despite her unapologetic tone for her ‘mistakes’. She still made sure to drill me on the fact that she was a feminist, not christian and not dependent on a man. All of which came to me as odd given that I never brought up Christianity, women’s rights or any other subject related. This woman was german by the way. She also worked in a male dominated field, contracting. Anyhow despite her ‘looks’ there was nothing more to this person who obviously as usual has a chip on her shoulder for men. It’s too bad really. I have no children and have never been married. I have a lot going for me though given her attitude you’d think she was the one in a position of privilege. A single mother with 2 kids, no dad and no education. Oh yeah, she also claimed that I made her feel ‘ignorant’.  That was red flag number four that I was wasting time on someone I clearly had no business dealing with. I’ll let the homeboys and other thug lowlifes, who populated her profile have a shot at it. Clearly she has already given it to most of them which for me is revolting. Now we German baby mama ghetto trash, what is the world coming to? The sad part is that I run into these losers everywhere. Arrogant, entitled and believing in their personal female superiority. The hate is unbelievable!

 

I deleted it and blocked it from my facebook, whatsapp and everything else. Good move always. No drama I just want it to go away from me. Like a disease.

[liventhedreamParticipant 42]

Lol, this I’ve seen fist hand. Its flat out projection of guilt, she sees your sane world and hates hers (and the choices she made).

All those remarks are representative self guilt of all her failed moral choices (wherever her moral compass lies, in her case Christianity). I also think its jelousy, they start dating these single nice guys (after the carousel ride), looking for a provider and really, really hate the fact someone made better life choices.

Kids make that guilt even more potent if she’s been single for a long time and its only a matter of time before she starts to take it out on the kids (feeding them poison choice remarks on how horrible all men are, I know this because my mother did this). Her boys will either reject her philosophies when they start dating, or take her poison to heart and become future manginas (hopefully to figure out the truth before its too late).

The sad thing is she will probably never own up to her own mistakes and move to real self improvement until the kids hit 19 and move out. With an ass of cottage cheese and tired, wrinkled body from having to do the job of both parents….alone. That’s the real world right there for you.

 

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Good @foronlythelonely

She still made sure to drill me on the fact that she was a feminist, not christian and not dependent on a man

Words like that are the cue to turn walk away now.
That’s when the girl who’s “not dependent on a man” comes running after you and wonders where you’re going.

Oh yeah, she also claimed that I made her feel ‘ignorant’.

Well if the shoe fits.

Arrogant, entitled and believing in their personal female superiority.

If there is one thing that remains consistent in the mass of consistency that women are…. If it doesn’t works out with a feminist mother of two who is “not dependent on a man”, statistics already show she will be 5X more likely to live in permanent poverty, and you will have much more to look forward to without her.
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I do’t know where this started. This NEED TOO ANNOUNCE that they are “not dependent on a man” even before the ball gets rolling. They will type it right out on a dating profile before they met the man! These women are on a dating site for Christ’s sake…. and they pretend they aren’t looking for a man? Pretty simple ladies. If you “don’t need” one, don’t look for one.

You don’t really NEED 95% of the s~~~ you eat either, ladies.
But you’ sure are stuffing your face full of it, and if we pulled it away you would start crying.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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