I used to say "It Won't Happen To Me" but now I can not even smile

[Anonymous 25]

welcome

marriage and relations~~~s is playing Russian roulette with all six bullets in the chamber

[Joey CusackParticipant 1044]

Welcome to the asylum airman. Stories like yours help keep my resolve strong (58, never married, no kids) Sorry for all the s~~~ you have gone through but know that your experiences will benefit others here.

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, Airman
Beer’s in the fridge

[,Participant 1301]

welcome Airman.

the smile will return. the rage will fade. you will recover and be better than ever.
Had a 9yr dating relationship then the 28 yr marriage. poof.

now, life is gooooooooood

with joy/without hate

[MACHOParticipant]

Welcome The Airman, great intro! You should feel right at home .. Enjoy ?

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[GnosticParticipant 2491]

Anonymous wrote:

welcome

marriage and relations~~~s is playing Russian roulette with all six bullets in the chamber

And 3 are normal bullets where she divorce rape you and drain your money and kids

3 are rockets where she stay in the marriage to drain all of your money, spirit, time, kids(my uncle is still married and his kids are brainwash to hate him). You keep walking on eggshells everyday until you are nagged to death.

There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.

[Buff MinorcanParticipant 83]

I’ve been reading so many stories on here that have made me appreciate more than ever the bullets I have dodged.

37 years old, never married and no kids, and have always just wanted to have a good time. I had my blue pill moments at times in my early 20’s, thank god none of that worked out. I feel like I got lucky.

One trait I always had even in my blue pill days was that when a relationship was over I was 100% done and had no desire for the making up, trying again, breaking up, rinse and repeat. I think that really saved me a few times.

Also have laughed in the face of marriage. I mean the concept is completely whack. Hey I love you, and you love me, let’s spend our lives together in a monogamous relationship…..but first let’s get the church and government involved, put a ring on your finger worth 3 month’s salary, and have a party the cost of a car so everyone can witness the mistake.

No thanks.

[Joey CusackParticipant 1044]

Buff Minorcan wrote:

I’ve been reading so many stories on here that have made me appreciate more than ever the bullets I have dodged.

37 years old, never married and no kids, and have always just wanted to have a good time. I had my blue pill moments at times in my early 20’s, thank god none of that worked out. I feel like I got lucky.

One trait I always had even in my blue pill days was that when a relationship was over I was 100% done and had no desire for the making up, trying again, breaking up, rinse and repeat. I think that really saved me a few times.

Also have laughed in the face of marriage. I mean the concept is completely whack. Hey I love you, and you love me, let’s spend our lives together in a monogamous relationship…..but first let’s get the church and government involved, put a ring on your finger worth 3 month’s salary, and have a party the cost of a car so everyone can witness the mistake.

No thanks.

Damn, that reads word for word like something I would have written 21 years ago. Except it’s 2 rings with EACH worth 3 months salary. F~~~ that.

Kudos to both of us for avoiding that s~~~.

[AttonParticipant]

It is good to stand on the shoulders of giants.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

Welcome! There are plenty of us here who are reluctant members of the three-times-married club.

But hey, at least we learned. Eventually.

Now it’s your time to live for you and no one else. Alone but not lonely.

[Anonymous 1]

Welcome, sir.

As a fairly younger member here I really appreciate your intro. Thank you for sharing.

Now, I’m an asian guy. Yes, asian women are still fairly ‘unicorns’ in terms of marriage. They tend to stick to their marriage vows no matter how hard the life is. BUT. GREAT BIG BUT (pun not intended), at the core, they are still wanting better men in terms of financial. No matter how hard they try to cover it, it still slips through. Like a smell of a rotten fish being hidden in the drawer. They tend to monkeybranch before marriage, because after marriage, divorcee and widows still seen as second class citizen. If the condition is the same like in western world, I’m pretty sure they’ll changed in a matter of seconds.

They also look highly of western men, for no other reasons than western men are regarded as more rich. So yeah:

AWALT

[BlakeGuyParticipant 287]

Hi brother, I am roughly the same age as you, only had the one and just wrapping things up with her now. But I can see why you went back to the well a few times. I am alone and just feel inclined to accept the pursuers that are all around. Really have to come on here often to read up and contain the feelings that drive you into another bitches claws. I think of all the freedom I have and the many pleasures I can pursue alone, but it still feels empty, there is that push to have a women around. Strange really. I know we are built this way for a reason, makes it hard to resist. Depressing actually.I know mongering in Asia can be a sort of treat that is helpful, but sure that quickly feels empty too.

Let the good times roll

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

Welcome The Airman your introduction will be a reminder to all guys why they should stay clear of marriage. Freedom from the plantation is key and now that you are no longer trapped you will be able to smile again and do the things you want to do. Thanks for sharing your story and welcome to the forums.

[Anonymous 0]

The Airman wrote:

I want to talk to someone without being scrutinized.

Ain’t this the f~~~ing truth!

I probably talk (if you can call this talk) more on this forum with you guys than I do with anyone else in real life.

[The AirmanParticipant 74]

Anonymous wrote:

Welcome home, Airman
Beer’s in the fridge

Five days since I left the Asian wife. She is sitting in a nice house I bought. Drives a nice car I bought. Two motorcycles (scooters) I bought. And I am in a small apartment. Small fridge. And an expat bar not far away.
The beer is ice cold and I know exactly what I get. Ice cold beer exactly the way I like it!

[The AirmanParticipant 74]

Mr. Man wrote:

Welcome! There are plenty of us here who are reluctant members of the three-times-married club.

But hey, at least we learned. Eventually.

Now it’s your time to live for you and no one else. Alone but not lonely.

Yes we learn eventually. I am only five days on my own since leaving the Asian. When I am down I go MGTOW and I have renewed strength.

[The AirmanParticipant 74]

Truthseeker82 wrote:

Welcome. Although there were many red flags –

I know and see the red flags but I am too stupid and feel it is “right” to stay in the relationship. Only to get burned every time.

[The AirmanParticipant 74]

Anonymous wrote:

Yes, asian women are still fairly ‘unicorns’ in terms of marriage. They tend to stick to their marriage vows no matter how hard the life is. BUT. GREAT BIG BUT (pun not intended), at the core, they are still wanting better men in terms of financial. No matter how hard they try to cover it, it still slips through. Like a smell of a rotten fish being hidden in the drawer. They tend to monkeybranch before marriage, because after marriage, divorcee and widows still seen as second class citizen. If the condition is the same like in western world, I’m pretty sure they’ll changed in a matter of seconds.

They also look highly of western men, for no other reasons than western men are regarded as more rich. So yeah:

I am five days since leaving the Asian wife. Not long I know but at least I am still on my own.
Five years since we met, four years since we married.
Yes she will lose status, lose face, and looked down upon in her community. Then why would she try to extort and be the boss in a society where men are the boss.
I did the remarkable. Gave her status. Gave her children better schools.
I must attract the worst of the females.
First wife was Canadian. Second wife USA. Third wife Thai.
I will not accept anymore it is my fault.

[TheStormWithinParticipant 778]

The Airman wrote:

BE F~~~ING CAREFUL AND DON’T SAY “IT WON’T HAPPEN TO ME.”

I honestly don’t know how ANY man could be so arrogant as to believe it can’t. “Canthappentomeitis” is a very dangerous disease, but it can be cured by simply opening one’s eyes and looking at the facts and statistics.

It is also arrogant and naive for one to believe they KNOW a woman is going to love them for the rest of their lives, and never wish to hurt them. Nobody wants to believe their sweet little pookie could actually obliterate their world one day, but just take a look at how EASY and BENEFICIAL it is for them to do so. It’s very f~~~ing alluring.

Aunt Esther: Fred, I'll have you know this body was blessed by Mother Nature!! Fred: Well, too bad your face was cursed by Father Time!

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